Parade

my biggest advice for (especially but not exclusively new(ly discovered)) systems is... to take everyones advice with a grain of salt. whats good for one system is catestrophically bad for another. a lot of posts frame their advice as perfect and infallible (which i doubt is intentional on the posters part), but it really isnt. just do what works best for your system.

switching things up (pinned post)

About me

Co-host. Among other things.

Traumagenic.

Audiophile and art enthusiast.

Terrorpunk.

Anti-psychiatry. Not opposed to uncoerced treatment.

Neutral to all good faith identities. I do mean all.

About my systemmate & this blog

My systemmate follows from dualita and used this as their main blog until April 2025. We changed that because the two of us wanted to follow separate people. I took over this one because I'm more active and I already followed a bunch of people on this account for my side blog. I still post there, but mostly just art reblogs now.

Tagging system

#gen415 - personal

#ref - reference (mostly longer posts)

#for someone - age regression

#sys shit - system related reblogs mostly

sometimes being a system is like having a twitch chat in your brain but sometimes its like banging your head against the wall in the dark to find a switch that will send a working-but-very-dim bat signal to the other side of the world and just praying they’ll see it and understand

REBLOG IF YOU LOVE YOUR HEADMATES!!!!

who let this bird on the train

Some types of switching for us

vi not wearing a bra after she's been recovering? makes sense, totally checks out. unclear if vi even owns a bra at this point. caitlyn not wearing a bra to go visit her dumbass ex who got herself locked in a secluded prison cell? SUSPICIOUS

I'm listening to stairway to heaven

And it's my first time. My systemmate has heard it. I know that. But I never have listened to it while fronting and definitely not on these fucking headphones

dear god

do your headmates have “offline” days? like when someone isn’t there (not talking, not communicating with anyone else - it feels like they don’t exist) and nothing brings them out. but then they’re back in a few days. how do you deal with it? is it annoying or do you not even notice?

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