"I Want To Be A Dragon."

Battersea Bridge (1885) by John Atkinson Grimshaw

🕷️kozzy🕷️

I wish people would stop saying to just "put it behind you" when someone is traumatized. That isn't possible. We sure as hell wish it were, but it isn't. Trauma changes everything. It wreaks havoc on our brain and bodies, on our self and lives. We can't just decide one day to simply put that behind us. We can't just shelf the nightmares, flashbacks, other forms of memory intrusion, intrusive thoughts, or the many kinds of instinct based & trained reactions we have. We can't just wish away all the emotions and thoughts and how our life has changed. It takes tons of effort to work through trauma. Months, years, a lifetime. We aren't being this way on purpose, and we sure as hell would change it all with one decision if we could. Deciding to go forward with life is important for recovery, but that isn't the same as "putting it behind you."

Caretaker culture is gently stroking the body's cheek while someone is panicking in co because everything will be alright.

how does it feel in your experience to be out of front?

question 47:

How do you figure out everyone's names?

question 46:

Some types of switching for us

I don’t know what trans guy needs to hear this but please break up and cut off with that person trying to convince you not to transition. They don’t care about your happiness.

Go get that masculine hair cut. Change your wardrobe. Go on T. Get top and/or bottom surgery. Do what makes you happy, and don’t let anyone try to tell you their comfort matters more then your happiness.

I have decided to kin for fun so i am now a character that I share a name with because he has good taste in hobbies and a massive cock

guys I have smth to confess. I love vi.

artist - @PaulineKlime on twt