Angyiien - ᵃⁿᵍʸⁱⁱᵉⁿ

"Healing" A continuation of this Idea

Please no dubs on this one yet! I'm actually making one with the lovely @ReginaldVoice and @gwarleycummings

I'm gonna say it. I think blackpill "radfems" are absolutely pathetic. I don't think it is ever truly acceptable or excusable to tell another woman, even non-feminist women, "I told you so" or that she "deserved it". And if you are a blackpiller or genuinely think its acceptable pls pls pls just block me.

"Something better than femboys? WOMEN!!"

(I don't think nor would seriously say this but a lot of you always say that on the opposite way..you realize how shitty it sounds when it's about people you actually give a fuck about?)

I want women to collectively start gaslighting men, in the way they gaslight us. If you see Reddit posts / IG posts say things like this.

I want women to undermine any men’s issues with saying:

“Ahhh it’s not that deep”

“Chill, you’re being emotional”

“You should focus on being a dad, none of your passions will matter”

“Are you sure your fit to do this job?”

“I mean will your education even matter, your degree doesn’t have much value lol”

“Ahh Men☕️”

“I can’t take you seriously”

“You sure”

“I think you’re being dramatic”

“You’re being irrational”

“Men live life on easy mode” (which they do)

“Are you sure, you didn’t imagine it?”

“Nahh we don’t care about your passions and hobbies, how much money do you make?”

“I want a traditional husband that pays for everything but who also does all the domestic labour”

“Have you gained weight?”

“I’m a visual creature so i need a really handsome man”

“Why am I not allowed to have preferences”

“Are you sure it’s not your fault”

“I need to hear her side of the story”

“#notallwomen”

“I mean if men don’t go to war what’s the point of them? Lol”

“You should give her a chance”

“You’re standards are too high”

“Are you sure you didn’t imagine it?”

“I think you’re being hysterical”

“Ahh he’s a 4” (Rating a man on his posts)

“He’s mid”

“Not that funny” - to a male comedian

“Who told him he was funny?”

“Learn to take a joke”

“why should someone have you if they could have someone younger?”

“Why would she go for you, if she could have someone with more money lol”

“You should focus on raising children”

"hun dont be insecure about that, theres way more things you should be insecure about, that receeding hairline for example"

“You’re gonna die alone”

Even if a Man is right about ANYTHING still proceed to gaslight him. IDGAF. Lmao. They have been doing this to women for most of history. Gaslight him, make him feel unworthy and shitty. I genuinely don’t give a shit.

Let me know what more I should add to the list, in the comments.

Just because someone is better, doesn’t mean you should stay. Whether someone improves themselves or they’re better than the last person, it doesn’t matter. Better doesn’t mean good.

I love shipping (obviously)

But my favorite is Alastor, the beautiful and eternal creature who rejects all the advances from sexy, charming demons 👑😍🤭♥️

The hunting lodge

I didn’t realize you were the person who did the fanfiction tag drinks.

ahah yeah that's meeee!!

If you guys are interested they are all available as stickers on my RB!!

borders between countries aren't real btw we just made them up. there's no such thing as an "immigrant" we're all just people moving around on the same planet that we've always moved around on

Reader and Alastor at a restaurant together

Waiter handing out food: here's yours. And here's yours. Let me know if you need anything else

Waiter leaves*

Reader stares down at food with concern*

Alastor: what's the problem?

Reader: Nothing! I'm fine

Alastor: it does not look like it. Why are you not eating?

Reader: I'm suddenly not hungry

Alastor: Oh? So that's it then?

Reader: yeah aaaannnd maaaaybbe this isn't what I ordered- but it's no big deal I can still eat it

Alastor: excuse me waiter!

Reader: you don't have to do that...

Waiter approaches*

Alastor: this is not what they ordered

Waiter: I'm terribly sorry. What was it you ordered?

Reader: the chicken tenders

Waiter: Ok we will bring it out to you as soon as possible and you can keep that as well

Reader: ok....

Waiter leaves*

Alastor: honestly what did you think I was going to do? I'm nothing if not calm and reasonable

Waiter returns*

Waiter: I'm afraid we're out of chicken tenders

Alastor begins to stand up*

Reader: No! No! No! Alastor no!

Alastor to waiter: you're very lucky today

Waiter ready to piss his pants: I'm-I'm very sorry. The meal's on us tonight and-and feel free order something else. Anything. Free of charge

Reader: Ok, um the fish and chips then

Waiter: right away!

Waiter dashes to the kitchen*

Alastor: would it be so wrong if we had HIM for dinner?

Reader: YES! IT WOULD BE VERY WRONG!

THE LAST BIT THANK YOU. Twitter would hate you for it and I LOVE THAT LOL

Aromantic writing tips to spice up your romantic writing

(stuff I've just made up for myself, you can borrow)

1. First and foremost, get rid of the love hierarchy.

It's not Friendship < Romance, it's not a competition. People do experience very different kinds of attraction, yet it's more if an endless color spectrum, not a pyramid to climb??? Which leads us to

2. Pick a color and play with saturation.

Don't do the "I love you more than a friend". What you actually mean is "I love you differently and I want to change terms, because I'm afraid my color of love is more saturated than I thought." Let it be painfully purple or sparkly yellow or grey, characters can experience different love towards different characters. What matters is the INTENSITY. And yes, common friendship CAN be intense as fuck.

3. Never undress your character for sex.

"The desire is stronger when it cannot be fully satisfied", so unless you're writing smut specifically, maybe try writing allegorical sex? There's a lot of things to choose from: beating the shit out of eachother, cutting hair, cooking, clinical procedures, stabbing, solving a murder, you name it! Put the accent on the characters' emotions and reactions rather than their obvious body parts.

Also bonus points if they don't realise that this intense intimate thing they just did is considered sensual.

4. Write closure that doesn't actually mean much.

I mean closure always means something. That the person likes another one. But people CAN and DO adore, lightly touch and hug eachother without it meaning that they want another person romantically or sexually. Sometimes people just see aesthetic beauty in someone. Sometimes they just want to be held. Make those guys have a hot and steamy sumo fight in the sauna that will strengthen their platonic bond!!!

5. Don't address what kind of love they're having.

For a change you may try making these characters love eachother in a way that doesn't require the "are we friends or are we lovers" discussion. Sometimes it's irrelevant. Sometimes it's just people who want to be together forever and dwelling on fitting in the box won't bring anything useful.

6. Some people don't love.

Sometimes a person can enjoy being around someone without loving them. Explore that possibility. Why? What is it that makes B important in the eyes of A who is unable to love or relate? What If both of them are unloving?

7. The absence of love is indifference.

If someone still cares about someone, it cannot the opposite of love. Try switching the love formula with hate or envy or fear or hunger. You'll see that in some way it still kind of works??? As long as they're feeling REALLY intensely about this.

8. Forget the misunderstanding/betrayal cliches!!!

There's nothing more satisfying than promising to run away together AND PROCEED. Or when someone overhears and misunderstands another but still STOPS and LISTENS. Emotional maturity is soooo sexy!!

9. Don't put romantic partners over friends.

Make them be friends and be close all together. A partner is ALSO a friend. Make them not jealous, make all 3+ of them be open and comfortable with eachother, don't be afraid of sharing the time and attention because everyone in the group love and respect each other! Even if your relationships maybe on slightly different terms! Your mutual friend can make a very big and meaningful gift for your partner and it's beautiful! That's something to cherish!

Also DON'T LIE IF SOMETHING COMES UP, just TALK it out like adults, please!!!

10. Don't be scared of het.

There's nothing wrong with a woman and a man loving each other. What you actually probably have problem with is misogyny and sticking to the same patriarchal norms over and over again. These are NOT built in het inherently!!! What you should actually focus on is their personalities and love/respect for eachother that would be in character, not in the rule book.

Also don't try to turn the tables in attempt to fix the stereotypes. By making a butch x wet cat malewife pair (when in canon neither of them are it??) (JUST because you have problem with fem women loving masculine men) you're not really fixing it, that's still a patriarchal power fantasy. Look deeper.

Yeeeaaa that's about it for now.