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Sara becomes a hotwife

The center bar in the restaurant was about half capacity. There were a few tables available but we prefer to sit at the bar for more interesting people watching and faster service. I sipped my margarita while holding onto Bert’s freshly sprouted hardon. His cock, stiff in my hand, was an unexpected event. As we sat at the bar a couple facing us on the other side got up to leave, and the man waved bye at me so I flipped him a quick wave and gracious smile. Bert asked if I knew them and I replied I knew him but not her. He asked if that was a co worker. I had to smile and be honest in saying, no, I but I did suck his cock once.  

Bert’s eyes about bugged out and simultaneously spewed his beer, then his head snapped to the left to look at me. He wiped the beer from his smiling but shocked face, as this may have been slightly out of character on my behalf. “Oh, wow, Sara, so you blew him” he said. I replied yes I had gone down on him at a party back when I was single. We continued eating our meal until Bert, my husband, eventually asked if I had swallowed the mans cum. I told him yes, of course. He then asked if the guy had came a lot. I told Bert yes, he shot sizable load if recalled correctly. He then asked if the guy had a big cock. I found his curiosity a tad out of character as well, but I did not mind answering his questions as it seemed fun curiosity. I told Bert yes, the guy, David, was blessed with about seven inches and I remembered it being very hard. I watched my husband re arrange his cock through his pants. “Bert, are you getting a boner” I laughed and placed my hand in his lap to find he indeed had a full boner right there at the bar.  

“Oh, so you are one of those, guys huh, I did not know that about you” I laughed a small chuckle. He asked me what kind of guy was that. I told him, obviously, one of the guys that get turned on thinking about their wives doing dirty girl things with other men. Bert said he didn’t know if he was one of those guys or not,  but he certainly just grew a steel hard erection. He said he knew I’d had sex with other men before we got married, but he’d never really thought of it until I just told him about sucking off the man that sat across from us for twenty minutes. He said “Hell Sara, I even nodded at the lucky bastard, lol. Well, at least I know I can be proud you did a good job, because your awesome at it”.  I thanked Bert for his compliment. He followed up by asking if David’s cock or balls were shaved, did he fuck my mouth or just let me do all the work, I answered all his questions honestly and factually, all the while his cock throbbing in my hand.  

Armed with this new revelation about my husbands curiosity I decided to try something new at bedtime that night. Bert and I sleep naked, so when I crawled into bed with him and snuggled close to make skin on skin contact, I made sure my lips were near his ear. “Did I shock you tonight” I asked softly into Bert’s ear. He laughed and said I sure did. “You asked a lot of questions during dinner” I added, nibbling his ear lobe. Bert said yes, it was sort of weird yet erotic at the same time.   “I met David at a party and we talked a while. We seemed to have some sexual attraction as well, so when he stepped out into the garden area. I followed him. I was sitting on a bench in a darkened section of the lawn when he noticed me and approached. He started to make more small talk but I simply reached out and took his cock in my hand. He looked around and made sure no one was looking then moved closer to me, cupping my left breast in his hand. I could feel his dick quickly stiffen in his tailored slacks. I could tell he wore boxers because his cock was free to move with my hand as I stroked his growing manhood.  He was fully hard in just seconds and I simply wanted to suck his thick cock. As I unzipped his pants he again checked for privacy. I remember reaching into his slacks and grasping his warm handful of cock, the air was cool and is dick was so warm, so hard. I fished his dick out and looked up at him as I took it’s thick head into my lips”. As I described the interlude to my husband, I reached out to find his cock, and it was hard as I’d ever felt it, swollen and throbbing in my grasp. “My oh my, I think someone is getting turned on” I teased. “Damn Sara, it is quite hard isn’t it baby” he said. “I think someone likes my naughty story, well according to this” I squeezed his dick with a firm grasp. “Who are you” he asked pushing my hair back so he could see me. “Just a woman who likes her man turned on, and clearly you are”.  

I then rolled over and got between Bert’s legs and held his stiff cock up. He looked down at me and I licked his cock from balls to head as we looked into each others eyes. “David’s cock was hard, like yours is now” I said then ran my tongue along the sensitive area just below the head of his dick. He throbbed a nice pulse in my grasp. “He liked it when I slowly sucked his dick fully into my mouth like this” then showed Bert how I ever so slowly worked my lips and tongue over David’s cock until I’d inched him fully into my throat. “He had to of loved that” Bert moaned. “He did” I replied. I pumped Bert’s fine erection with my fist and licked his cocks head in a circular motion. “David’s cock was so hard in my mouth. I stroked his thick meat with my hand, like this,, while sucking his dick’s head and letting him slip his hand into my blouse”, I continued my story, doing everything to Bert’s cock that I told him I did to David’s. My little test was passed as positive, my husband got hard from my being bad. Bert was getting close to cumming, I know his cock well and knew his orgasm was very close. His cock was fully in my mouth and his breathing was rapid when Bert asked “Did David’s cum taste good”.  

I spit Bert’s cock out just long enough to tease him with more details about David, it was obvious fuel to his desires. “Yes, he got so hard in my mouth and gripped my breast a little firmer, he liked my tits. I knew he was about to cum even before he told me how good my mouth felt, then all too soon David said “oh fuck, I’m about to cum”. I stroked his fat cock with my hand,, like this, and sucked him with a slow soft action. Then I took all of him into my mouth and he grunted out loud and I felt his dick swell a bit, then strongly pulse as he shot his tasty hot load of cum to the back of my throat” I described how it went, then did the exact same thing to my husband’s cock. Bert moaned and jerked as he erupted hard, blasting a huge load out with force to the back of my mouth. He spasm and quivered as he came and I knew it was a powerful one by the way his body was violently taken over.  I kept him in my mouth as he softened and his entire body relaxed into post orgasmic contentment. I felt proud of my skills. I just got my man up hard and fast and satisfied him physically and mentally. “Damn” Bert exclaimed, “That was one intense blow job, Sara”.  

Over the next few weeks I described several encounters I had sucking off the occasional man. There were not that many really but I gave Bert an honest account for each one, all the dirty details and each time more elaborate and detailed. The more information he got the harder he got. If I felt horny, all I had to do is say, you know that reminds of the time I sucked off this one guy, and Bert would soon be sporting a good hardon for me.  

Bert sat in his easy chair while I knelt between his knees, his very active cock of the last couple of weeks stuffed inside my mouth, he looked down watching intently as my lips slowly worked his stiffness from head to base. “God you got skills” he complimented. “I hope we run into someone you blew so they know I’m getting the most awesome bj’s on earth. I love watching you suck cock”. I smiled up a him and flicked his cocks head with the tip of my tongue and said baby I hate to correct your English, but more accurately you mean watch me suck Your cock. I tongued the sensitive spot just under the head of his dick adding “you haven’t watched me suck A cock, but it would look similar to this”, taking his dick fully into my mouth then backing off enough to grip his meat in my fist and pump the hard shaft as I sucked the head.  

“Damn that is hot. Well then Sara, I stand corrected, I’d love to watch you suck a cock” he said, still staring at me working his shaft with slow precision. I crawled into his recliner with him and settled my pussy over his dick. I was wet and his cock slid in easily. My hips slowly rocked back and forth fucking him with slow smooth strokes.  

“Want to watch me suck a cock, eh baby. Suck another man’s dick until he cums in my mouth, right in front you” I teased. He took my ass in his grip and lengthened the strokes inside my snug pussy. “I’d love that. Love watching you suck another man’s cock” he answered. “Do it, I said, find a man you’d like to see me blow, and I will look you right in the eye as I swallow his cum, just because I know you’d like it” I told my husband.  

My sentence was no more in the air when he moaned “oh shit” and thrust his hips up into me a few hard pumps then flooded my pussy with his welcome load. I stayed on him, feeling his cock shrink inside me, his cum draining from my hole and coating his spent junk. “I can’t wait to see you in action” he said. Bert held onto me and lowered me to the floor. His mouth found my clit and he began to tongue beat me with a hard fast flicking action. It took me less than a minute to be pulling him harder into my sperm filled slit and cum with a violent shutter. Bert rolled onto his back on the carpet and sighed, “I’m a pervert, aren’t I”. I said no, your just a man following his cock, like most men. And as always, I have your back.  

At forty two I’m not bad, if I may say so myself. I am five foot five, thin with a descent handful of breast that still stand on their own, tipped with petite pink nipples which l love sucked and lightly pinched. My ass is, according to Bert to die for. My short light brown hair is crisp and bouncy and when I dress down and dirty the men still stare that look that says you are indeed a piece of meat. Occasionally I enjoy being looked at with nothing but sexual desire. So when Bert and I went out on our weekly dinner night out at the bar and he asked if I would wear my little red dress, I was confident he’d be proud of me on his arm. The red dress is Bert’s favorite. It clings to me in all the right places, compliments my ass with minimal coverage, showing off maximum leg, and braless it shows off my natural form and you do not need imagination to find my nipples.  

Dinner at the bar was nice. We had a few drinks and feeling no pain by the time we left for home. Bert complimented me several times at the bar and on the way home saying how sexy I was in the red dress. When we pulled into the drive a black sedan was parked in our drive. “We seem to have company” I said as we came to a halt. We got out of the car and as we approached the sedan the drivers door opened up and out stepped David.  

I looked at my husband and smiled asking “Bert, are you being evil”.  He said he was hoping I’d be evil. I greeted David with a short hug saying what a surprise it was to see him. We did some small talk as we entered the house but I was a tad nervous in knowing exactly what I’d soon be doing. There could only be one reason, of all people, David was walking into my home.  

It turns out that Bert went to the the bar with a co worker for a beer and noticed David sitting alone at the bar as well. Bert approached him after a while and during their conversation, Bert told him he know what Id done to him and he found it arousing knowing I’d sucked his cock, at which point David said how good it was and would love to do it again. So Bert asked him over tonight, and I had no doubt why.  

I served us a glass of red wine and we small talked a few minutes, I could feel my juices flowing. I was getting aroused in knowing I’d soon have another man’s cock in my mouth as my husband watched. My oral skills had already become a topic between two men agreeing on my technique and ability. “So how do we start” I asked. David suggested since he was positive he’d be enjoying my skills, and since Bert wanted to watch, perhaps he could direct how it would go down. We laughed at his choice of words. Bert was good with that and suggested “how about him laying back in our bed, everyone just relaxed and comfortable”.  

David and I said sure, sounds okay and within minutes I was at the foot of my queen sized bed unfastening David’s slacks while my husband sat on the foot of the bed watching. I looked at Bert as David’s pants fell around his ankles, his nice sized already hard cock springing forth as he stepped free. He seemed bigger than I remembered, but I did not forget how hard his dick was. “Wow, he’s big. I thought you said seven inches baby” Bert said. “Eight and a half” David said peeling off his shirt, now standing naked in front of me. I again looked at my husband as I took David’s thick cock into my hand and guided it onto my mouth. David moaned out loud as I sought the base of his shaft, working my tongue firm but gently against the sensitive underside. After taking him fully into my mouth for a moment. Giving him a taste of what was in store for him. I stood up to allow him to take his position in the bed. “Did you like that” I asked Bert. “That was awesome” he replied. “No wonder you are proud of her skills Bert, damn she is good” David commented. As I turned my back to David, bending to kiss my husbands lips. David stepped in behind me, his hands on the hem of my red dress and began lifting it up and over my ass. His efforts were welcomed by my husbands hands finding my dresses hem at my waist, then tugging it over my head. I stood up, a tad shocked at how quickly I’d been undressed, and did not realize my nakedness was a part of my husband watching me blow our new friend.  My red bra and matching thong left little to imagination, and they looked at me with obvious want.  

I stood facing my husband as David pressed his cock against my ass cheeks, reaching around my body and taking both breast into his hands, inches in front of Bert’s eyes. “May as well be comfortable” Bert said, as he took my thong in hooked thumbs to drag them slowly to the floor. David’s hands fished under my bra and took my naked breast into his grasp for a few seconds before finally undoing the strap, allowing it to fall into the cloths pile at the foot of the bed. David had not seen me naked, but commented as he crawled into the bed, laying back onto my pillow. “Damn, you are beautiful”. Bert said how proud of my body he was and loved showing me off.  

I bent over and kissed Bert on the lips and without breaking away said “I think he’s ready”.  Bert’s hand ran across my ass cheek, trailing it down to find my shaved wetness. His finger sank into me from behind and was drowned in pool of readiness. “Ho, baby, fuck you are so wet and hot down there” he softly spoke with a sense of strong passion. “Your right, his cock looks very hard, he want’s you, again” Bert said. With that I crept in between David’s legs and held his stone hard cock straight up. Bert moved up to head of he bed for optimum viewing. I took a second to look into my husbands eyes as I took all of another man’s cock fully into my mouth, feeling it pulse strongly as my lips touched base. It was effective in making both men moan.  

David reached out and took a breast into his hand as I delivered my best skills to his cock, making sure my husband would never forget the sight. “Damn, Bert, holy shit you get this all time, you lucky bastard” he spoke with envy. “I know, she’s awesome,  but I get a lot more that that” Bert replied. Instantly I felt David’s cock throb in my mouth, pulse with desire and I loved how hard his sizable cock tasted. I was getting turned on performing this lewd act in front of my husband and could not wait to get his dick inside me. I knew he’d be insatiable for his “dirty girl” tonight.  

I took David’s heavy balls into my hand and stroked his cock with the other, looking at my husband as I slow jacked David’s hardon with full length slow fist pumps. “Damn, that’s hot baby” Bert said. Bert got off the bed and began to undress. He was stone hard and excited as he got back into the bed. He took his shaft into his grasp and masturbated while I ate David’s cock like candy. “Holy shit, wow, damn girl you are a natural born cock sucker” David moaned out. “Skills mostly” I said, adding a tease line for my husband, “I’ve sucked a lot cock”. “Well thank god for that” David said while laying a hand on the back of my head, “because you learned some awesome skills”.  

“Oh she’s been fucked too” Bert added. “Oh really” David moaned, the began to face fuck me slowly and I let him pump his meaty cock in and out of my mouth. I looked up and Bert was tugging on his very hard cock, staring at another man’s cock slipping back and forth between my lips. “You like me fucked, don’t you baby” I asked my husband.  “Yea,, I like you fucked, baby” Bert replied. I raised up slightly, fisting David’s cock with a steady pump and checked Bert’s eyes for more information, the answer was in there. “You want this cock in me don’t you baby, you want to see David’s long fat cock in my pussy don’t you” I asked, knowing his answer already. “Hell yes I do Sara,  fuck it, fuck that cock, baby” he panted. David was quick to say “I want to fuck your wife, Bert, I want to see how she feels inside”.  

They wanted it, and so did I, so I straddled David and felt his thick hot meat, wet with my slobber, lay the length of my slit, balls meeting my ass, shaft pressing against my clit. I felt the pulse of his urges run the length of my slit, it’s desire to penetrate me. I pumped my hips back and forth a few times, leaving his rod wet with my juices. I leaned back and Bert stared at the head of David’s cock peeking out between the spread lips of my pussy as I scooted back and forth along this mans dick. I was gladly about to become a hotwife. Raising up on one knee I hovered over David’s eight and a half inch man beast, then found my husbands eyes fixated on my outer lips spreading wide over the thick head of another man’s cock,  and it felt good. I was so wet and ready for sex. Once the head of David’s cock had inched past my wet outer muscles, I looked at David and lowered my body fully onto his cock. His eyes closed and his expression said a book of information, every word bliss.  

David immediately began to thrust into me, pistoning his cock in and out like sewing machine, he fucked me. I knew I’d leave my own cum on this man’s cock. Bert could not take it anymore and I gladly accepted his dick into my mouth while David fucked me. David sucked my left nipple into his lips and I was in system overload, with a cock in my mouth, a cock in my wet cunt, and hands all over me, on my ass, my breast, back. Bert slow fucking my mouth while I rode David for all I was worth. I could hear my pussy juices making noise as I was being slam fucked from beneath and knew my orgasm was approaching  

I was close. David knew how to fuck a woman and I was glad I’d sucked his cock a few years ago now. “Son of a bitch you have a snug wet pussy” David gasped. “Oh she can fuck” Bert stammered. “No shit she can” David agreed. His cock filled me slightly more than my husbands, just enough to know I had a strange dick in me, and I was going to cum on it. I spit Bert’s cock out and pulled his face to me and began kissing him hard while David slammed his meat into me like I was a paid whore. I was close, I remember biting onto my husband’s ear while saying “I’m going to cum on him. David’s cock feels so good inside me, filling me up, so hard,,, he’s fucking me so good baby,,I’m going to leave my cum on his fat cock”.    

My husband said “Do it baby, make me proud, cum on that cock” urging me on. David was likewise getting close to his own orgasm as he’d announced, “Damn, I can’t hold out much longer,, she’s too damn tight and wet, fucking hell she feels so damn good on my cock”.  

My orgasm started,, the tingling, the pulse of  juices now flowing onto this strangers wonderful cock. My fuckers spoken words pushing my own orgasm closer, “Shit, I’m going to cum,,,, where do you want it” David called out. Bert looked at me, his answer was in his excited eyes and in his dick as he jerked off at a rabid pace. I answered for my husband, “Cum inside me, fill my pussy with your cum” I snapped out just as my orgasm started to take over, melting me from the inside out. “Awww Fuck, I’m cumming, I’m fucking  cumming inside you’ David moaned out and suddenly I felt his hot sperm blast deep inside me, meeting my own juices head on as I climaxed on another man’s cock. My shutter and spasm had removed me from the universe all but the faint sound of Bert’s grunt, followed by his cum splattering against my face and breast. I had the sense of mind to lean back, still quivering in orgasmic shutters and grinding my flooding cunt against David, to allow my husband shoot his load all over my flesh. I instinctively rubbed my husbands cum across my breast and body as David’s cock relaxed inside me.  

Panting, gasping for air, and cum soaked, I rolled off top David. Bert eased his softening dick into my mouth and I sucked the last few drips from his shrinking hardon.  “Holy shit, that was awesome” David gasped. “Man you must be proud of her, lord she can work a cock” he added.  

We did not waste much time in getting our wits about us and saying goodbye to our guest. Bert and I now needed some “us” time. We managed to crawl into bed and snuggle up together and pause the day. After a short while I finally spoke, “Guess I’m a hotwife now” I said to Bert. “You were hot tonight that’s for damn sure” he laughed. “It was really supposed of been just a BJ, but things just seemed to go in another direction” he said. “Did you like the direction it took” I asked him. Bert eased his newly awakening hardon into my hand. “What do you think” he laughed. I squeezed his awakening meat with a firm grip and told my husband, “I afraid I’m going to be in another three way real soon”.  

The Guide For Bulls With A Cuckold Couple

So, you’ve wanted to be a “Bull” and now you’ve found that perfect couple. She’s a Hotwife looking for a regular lover. He’s a cuckold (or wants to be) and he’s willing to step aside and let you and his wife become lovers.

Now what?

This is where the men get separated from the boys, pal. I have real experience with this. I’ve seen the best and the worst, of both people and experiences. I’ve also talked to others and shared many stories of real life experiences.

First of all, most single guys are totally clueless when it comes to being a real “Bull” in a cuckold-Hotwife relationship. They think being a Bull is just fucking someone’s wife. Nothing could be farther from the truth, and this is why most fail miserably.

What most guys don’t understand is that it’s a THREE-WAY RELATIONSHIP.  In fact it is more complex than a normal relationship because it involves THREE people, not two.

But wait, you say. I only want to fuck someone’s wife. I don’t need a relationship with her husband. WRONG! You fail. Go back to AFF and start looking for single chicks, because you don’t get it.

On the other hand if you want to learn something that could lead to a higher quality, more satisfying sex life than chasing 20-something year old, clingy, airheaded drama queens then do read on.

Being a Bull means you’re coming into an existing marital relationship. Before you even show up at the door understand that the couple has already discussed what they want long before reaching out for someone like you. Your first job is to find out exactly what they want, and then FIT INTO that.

Then you must follow a certain protocol to create a new three-way relationship. One word of advice: no matter what you expect the relationship to become later, during the first meeting or two you should be a complete gentleman. Until you get some signal from the couple you should NOT initiate anything sexual or act as anything other than a complete gentleman. Even if things should progress into the bedroom during the second (or even first) meeting, you should progress slowly and not overwhelm them.

The perfect relationship WILL NOT happen instantly. It takes an investment of time by everyone INCLUDING YOU. Like any sexual relationship, learning the needs and desires of the other person is a process. As you learn the couple, and they learn you, the relationship becomes more comfortable and the sex gets better. Eventually it will become what you/they envision, but only if everyone works together.

Now, let’s start with “what everyone wants”. There are many variations of cuckold/Hotwife play. Communication is key to getting a clear picture of the desired relationship. There are many studies and theories as to the motivations for the Hotwife-cuckold lifestyle among otherwise monogamous couples. You may want to read up on it, to become better educated about why she wants to fuck someone else and why he wants her to do so. It is both fascinating and erotic reading. The better educated you are the better your experience can be.

The most common underlying theme for most Hotwife/cuckold couples is for the Bull to become the sex partner of choice for the wife. This can range from seeing him occasionally, all the way up to daily sexual encounters. Every couple has a different idea, and it’s important to know what their expectations are. In addition, “real life” can and does often restrict or interfere with the scheduling of play times.

As a Bull, it’s important to realize that you’re dealing with a married couple with job(s), a family, social obligations, perhaps children, etc.  There will be times when play will need to be canceled or postponed because of the realities of life. You should always be sensitive to that, and never become angry about last minute changes, cancellations, etc.  Be understanding about these setbacks and you’ll be rewarded with a more appreciative and willing wife!

Once you establish everyone’s expectations about frequency, another thing to discuss is how the meetings are arranged. Some prefer regular schedules, i.e. every Saturday night for instance. Others like more flexibility, and even spontaneous meetings. Some of the hottest experiences I’ve been involved with have been spontaneous texts that resulted in late-night, last minute encounters (Horny? Can you come over? Or can I come see you?).

It’s important to know what the couple enjoys. If they’re into the wife having the freedom to reach out to the Bull when she’s horny, or if you all agree that she’s “sexually on demand” to the Bull, then you can enjoy impromptu daytime, lunchtime, or late-night quickies.

Many couples enjoy some level of sexual denial for the husband. Some enjoy limiting intercourse between themselves for several days before the wife plans to meet with the Bull. Others go so far as limiting the husband to handjobs, blowjobs, etc., during the entire time that the wife is seeing another man.

This can be a fun area for the Bull to participate, perhaps demanding that the wife refrain from fucking her husband before their dates, etc. The Bull may even get enjoyment from voicing his demands to the husband in the wife’s presence (i.e., I don’t want you fucking her until I do her Friday night).

The idea of the Bull becoming the sole sexual partner of the wife can be fun to explore, and it’s a core theme in almost all Hotwife-cuckold relationships, with many choosing for the Bull to become her sole “intercourse” partner.

Another area to discuss upfront is your communication with the wife. Some couples prefer that the husband coordinate meetings between his wife and the Bull. Other husband’s grant their wife complete freedom, and she can call, email, text, etc. These are by far the easiest and hottest arrangements, as you can tease, flirt and engage the wife 1-on-1 with complete privacy.

Next you should discuss what the couple expects when it comes to you being alone with the wife. Some couples only play together. This can range from MFM threesomes, to the cuckold husband merely being present and watching. Other couples prefer that the husband be on the premises, but not necessarily in the same room, such as waiting in the living room or in the guest bedroom, perhaps listening in, etc.

Then again, many couples enjoy the wife going out alone on “dates” with the Bull. Realistically, most “dates” consist of the wife merely visiting the Bull at his home or a hotel for a sexual encounter. It’s not uncommon for the husband to help the wife prepare for her dates, often helping her bathe, do her hair, shave her legs and pussy, pick out sexy clothes and help her dress.

Some Bulls take advantage of this by contacting the husband before the date and dictating what he wants the wife to wear for the date, and the husband will select those items for his wife.  Some Hotwife-Bulls will call the husband while having sex and let him listen in, or videotape themselves having sex so the wife can show it to the cuckold-husband later. In recent years some have turned to Skype, webcasting and other internet based products to share their acts with the husband watching in real time.

There is a certain excitement that can result from the Bull taking the wife out in public for dinner or a movie, etc. This can be a wise move by a smart Bull, as it not only starts the relationship off in a more traditional manner, but there is also some risk of the wife being seen in public with a strange man. While this may feel uncomfortable for the wife, she will also feel “naughty” and find it exciting nonetheless, which can lead to heightened sexual response later in the evening. This also shows that the wife is sufficiently attracted to the Bull that she will go outside her comfort zone and “take chances” to be with him. This is a good sign that the Bull will be able to push the wife in other areas as well, perhaps persuading her to do things that she may not do with her husband (semi-publix sex, visit a swing club, threesome with another male/bifemale, etc.).

Some couples enjoy overnight encounters. However, this is more common with couples that have already experienced some Hotwife-cuckold play in the past, and is probably not something newer couples would find appealing. However, if it is a possibility, it’s important to discuss those details too.  There are many possibilities here, including the wife spending the night at the Bull’s home, the Bull spending the night at the couple’s home, or even an overnight hotel stay. Some also enjoy the wife and Bull going together for out-of-town trips, short cruises, etc.

In those instances where the Bull stays at the couple’s home, there are variations. Will the Bull and wife sleep in the guest room, or in the master bedroom? There is often significance to the wife’s “infidelity” and the marital bed, and the Bull should be sensitive to that.

Some couples limit the wife’s sexual play to places other than the marital bed, i.e. the marital bed is sacred and only for them. Other couples derive additional pleasure from the wife “cheating” in their marital bed, and playing there can be even more exciting for them. You should discuss this ahead of time.

Also, when spending the night it’s important to be clear about the expectations for the husband. Will he be present all night? Will he be present only during the sex, then go sleep in a separate bedroom? The couple often already has an idea of what they would prefer here, so you should find out.

Decide what other places/variations you all might enjoy. Some couples fantasize about the wife and Bull having sex in the backseat of a car or a semi-public spot. Some cuckold husbands enjoy the thought of coming home from work to find their wife in bed with the Bull, or knowing the Bull was at his house fucking their wife while they were at the office. Multiple partners, videotaping sexual encounters, outdoor sex, etc., can all enhance the experiences to be shared.

Bear in mind that most Hotwife-cuckold couples also focus on the Bull being “well-hung”, or at least being better hung than the husband. Ironically this is not something to be avoided around the husband, but instead should be openly discussed as a point of excitement (she NEEDS a bigger cock and he LOVES knowing she needs it). Hopefully, as the Bull, you are better endowed than the husband. However, if not, it’s still possible to build the desired relationship since much of it has to do with the Bull’s attitude and manner. If sufficiently assertive and dominant, most any Bull can still pull it off no matter what his endowment.

The age of the Bull is an area of some debate. Because most couples are seeking a Bull for the wife’s sexual pleasure, they prefer someone with a high sex drive and good stamina. Obviously this is more common in younger men. However, some women find it difficult to be sexually attracted to men significantly younger than they are. As a general rule I find that most couples prefer a Bull to be several years younger than the husband, but not so young as to have insufficient experience to sexually please a mature, married woman. Confidence, demeanor and a good attitude round it out.

Verbal play can also be critical, with both the wife and the Bull engaging in some level of interaction with the husband. Experienced Bulls enjoy telling the husband how enjoyable their wife is in bed, in a teasing, taunting manner. Common things to say might include: Your wife has a sweet pussy; She loves my big dick; She sucks cock great; I’m going to fill her with my cum; This pussy is going to be mine; Your wife is such a slut, etc.

The wife can also participate, working together with the Bull to stimulate her husband, saying things like: His cock is bigger than yours; He fucks me much better; I want him to cum in me; Do you like seeing me like this?; I’m going to fuck him more than you; He’s stretching my pussy out; etc.

Here is a list of some other Things Cucks Love to Hear From Their Hotwives.  I often encourage a wife to say things like this to her husband, sometimes whispering in her ear and telling her to tell him, because I often know what the Cuck wants to hear more than the wife knows.

Another important issue is birth control and/or condoms. These are not necessarily the same. Some couples use no birth control other than rhythm method. Other couples use birth control, but may want the Bull to use condoms due to health concerns. This needs to be discussed upfront, and everyone in agreement. Be aware that this may be one of the few areas where the wife and husband will disagree.

The wife may choose the more conservative approach and opt for condom use, while the husband may prefer that the Bull not use a condom and ejaculates inside his wife. This is one reason that the Bull should befriend the husband, as they can both work together to persuade the wife to concede and allow the Bull to engage in intercourse and ejaculate freely inside the wife. For most cuckold husband’s this is one of the most intense aspects of the act, and he will want his wife to get “creampies” from the Bull.

This can also lead to another angle, which involves the cuckold husband going down on his wife after she has had sex. Often called “clean up duty”, it is a staple of most cuckold desires. This act can be an intense experience for the husband, as it totally immerses all of his senses in the undeniable fact that his wife has been “slutty and unfaithful”, which is what turns him on the most. Many couples do this after the wife returns home from a “date”, but it also can occur soon or immediately after a sexual encounter at home. See my blog on Creampies.

If the three of you play in each other’s presence then consider including this after you engage in intercourse with the wife. The act itself can have a slight humiliation aspect to it, and some cuckolds enjoy being “told” to do this by the wife and/or the Bull. It can be both a post-sexual act to bring the wife to another orgasm, as well as a means to prepare the wife for the next round of intercourse.

Also, remember that relationships evolve. For instance, at first the wife may want her husband to be present for all sexual play. Later she may become comfortable playing while her husband is in another room. That could eventually lead to her playing alone, and visiting the Bull at his home. Or perhaps the couple isn’t interested in an overnight stay at first, but in time they may become comfortable with that idea. Many ideas can become more appealing as the relationship progresses.

There is one rather extreme variation of the Hotwife-cuckold theme, which is the idea of the wife becoming pregnant by the Bull. In reality almost all couples separate this fantasy from reality. No sane couple would intentionally bring a child into the world just to fulfill a sexual fantasy. But an offshoot that is a common theme is “pregnancy risk sex”. Some couples find it more exciting if the wife has intercourse with the Bull during times when she is near ovulation. Others like to use the withdrawal method during this time of her cycle, playing with fire so to speak.

Some wives are reluctant to openly discuss this fantasy, as they find it too close to reality. After all, pregnancy COULD happen. Yet, the idea can still turn them on and a smart Bull can use this to create intense sexual experiences. Nature’s urges can be strong and therefore exploitable. I know wives who get extra wet at the thought that they could get pregnant from the good looking guy pumping his sperm into them. Many wives have fantasized about a man refusing to pull out when asked (forceful insemination), or had thoughts of becoming so aroused that they lose the willpower to ask the Bull to pull out at all. Keep this in mind if you want to enhance your encounters with a Hotwife. It can be a powerful addition to the experience as long as you use subtlety and innuendo.  

After discussing all of those important issues, you should have a good idea whether or not your desires and those of the couple are a good match. If they are, then what you need to do is craft a plan that has one important goal:  You must become the Alpha Male in the relationship.

All social mammals have Alpha Males. They are the fastest, strongest and/or smartest males in the pack. Females are instinctively drawn to the Alpha Male because they have the best genetic material. Human females are no different. If two men are in her life, a woman will instinctively become more attracted to the Alpha Male.

When you come into the relationship, remember that you are altering an existing bond between two people. There is an emotional bond and a sexual bond. You don’t EVER want to do anything that interferes or hurts the emotional bond. If you do, both the husband and the wife will react negatively. In fact the strong emotional bond is required to give them the comfort to include a third person in their relationship. If you weaken their emotional bond then insecurities and  jealousy will emerge and ruin everything. NEVER ever make a play for the wife as anything other than a sex partner. If you do then everything will come to an end.

However, their sexual bond is entirely different. Not only CAN you break that bond, you MUST break it. Breaking their sexual bond and then bonding sexually with the wife is your goal.  When it comes to sex, you want her to think of you.

When you first meet the couple, know that the wife loves her husband and looks to him for sex. If you do everything right, in time she will still love him but she will LUST FOR YOU if she begins to view you as the Alpha Male.

Becoming the Alpha Male in the wife’s eye is easy, but only if you follow a certain path.

First, you must befriend her husband. That’s right. He needs to become your buddy. This should involve some light male bonding, such as watching a few ball games, drinking some beer together, a fishing trip, whatever. In addition, the first time or two you are together with the couple you need to play the role of buddy with the husband (even if you’ve already started having sex with the wife).

After all, you and he are on the same team. You want to take his wife away, sexually speaking. He wants the same thing, because more than anything he wants to see her become an insatiable slut again and he knows she needs someone new to do that. So make him a friend and keep him a friend. There WILL come times when you’re trying to persuade the wife to do something, and having her husband as an ally can be very helpful!

By the second or third visit, you should begin to assert yourself. Ask the husband to get your drinks and refills AND ask him to get the wife’s drink too! This is very important, as it shows that you’re looking out for “YOUR” woman. You can bet that the wife will notice this too, although she probably won’t say anything.

If you’ve already started having sex with the wife, take this same attitude into the bedroom. At first, suggest that the husband sit and watch you two have sex. You want to mostly ignore him but you can still talk to him and have his wife talk to him at times. But I mostly act as if he’s not there and at times I honestly can forget he’s there. The wife should be your focus. But at some point act like you’re thirsty and ask him to go get drinks for you and your lady. Ask him to get a towel or lube or whatever else you can think of. Make up tasks if you have to. The point is to have him do things when you ask.

During later visits this should progress to you telling him what to do in the bedroom. You should get no resistance if you progress slowly from being his buddy… to asking him to do things… to then telling him what to do. It will seem like a natural progression for everyone involved, including the wife (who will be noticing everything).

Many wives get aroused watching this progression. That arousal is going to benefit you. In her eyes you will be emerging as the Alpha Male. Eventually, you should be able to tell the husband to do anything non-sexual, and he will oblige.

Next, take it to the sexual level. You want to get him involved and excited, while making it clear that you’re still in charge. You can “allow him” to suck his wife’s breasts or rub her clit when you’re fucking her. Have him grab her ankles and pull her legs wide apart when you’re pumping your cock into her. Have him go down on her before you fuck her, or even between fucks, to keep her wet and ready. Have him kiss his wife deeply while you make her cum.

You can do anything you want, as long as he gets involved occasionally to experience his wife’s sexual intensity when she’s with you. You want him to smell the sex, hear her gasps and feel her hot, sweaty skin. After a while tell him to stop and go sit back down. Show him that you will allow him the occasional joy of touching his wife, but that you’re definitely in control.

Another thing to consider is telling him to take out his cock and masturbate while he watches. You could tell him to cum while watching his wife getting laid, or go the other way and tell him to masturbate but not to cum. Again, use your imagination, as long as you’re telling him reasonable things to do. Remember, the wife will be watching too, and she will notice how much more dominant you’re becoming over her husband.

Once things have progressed to this point the wife should really be into you, and she should see you as the Alpha Male. In her eyes, you should have completely replaced her husband in the bedroom. If she still seems to split her allegiance between him and you, or if you just want to take it to a higher level of dominance, consider making the husband put your cock in his mouth.

Believe it or not this has nothing to do with gay or bi-male sex. It’s strictly about domination. If you’ve ever watched wildlife footage of a wolf pack, then you noticed the body language of other males when they’re around the dominant Alpha Male. They maintain a low body stance, and physically roll over showing their underbelly. They submit completely. Not only does the Alpha Male see this, all of the female wolves notice it too. That’s why the Alpha Male gets the females.

If you really want the wife to be “yours” sexually, let her see you being dominant over her husband. She will be impressed and aroused. Plus, it’s one hell of a power trip. To learn how to make this happen, click here, How to get him to roll over.

Once things reach this point, the wife will see you as the Alpha Male whenever you’re together. When she gets horny, she’ll think of you. She’ll fantasize about you, and do anything within her limits to please you sexually.

With married women it’s ALL about the sex. They’re not into drama and they’re not seeking commitment. She won’t be stalking you and you won’t find her crying on your front doorstep. When she calls or texts you that means she wants to fuck. When you need sex you can call or text her and she’ll come running. Better yet, her husband will encourage it all and help with the arrangements. You’ll get more sex and better quality sex from a willing, married woman than you will with most single women out there.

That’s why it’s so worth the time investment to build and cultivate the ultimate Bull-Hotwife-cuck relationship!

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