1 ) there are definitely a lot of men who view sex this way and sex has been used to oppress us and exploit us, however it’s just hard to believe that there isn’t a single man out there who doesn’t have sex for love
2) i completely agree with this statement and It’s actually the main reasons i don’t like liberal feminism
3) i do find a lot of rad fem of color on the Internet this was just something that I’ve seen hair a lot of course not just in this community but in many others to
4) I’m not trans so i don’t know what it’s like, I do imagine it’s linked to gender and body dysmorphia, however in my culture trans gender people have existed for hundreds of years, they have been treated almost like a third gender and are considered two spirited
5) i absolutely agree with your last statement , gender roles have definitely been put in place to oppress us and to make us appear as the weaker sex
My take on “radical feminism” that nobody asked for
I myself consider myself leaning very into radical feminism but I see that terf ideologies seem to get mixed in more often than not (wanna make it clear I support trans rights)
1. A lot of rad fems think that all heterosexual sex is rape which is such an insane thing to do and implies that women do not have the power or capacity to consent to heterosexual sex
2. I do agree that we as woman will never find liberation through sex or sex work however rad fems do not realize that a lot of women fall into sex work and can not simply quit, I do not support the sex work industry but I support sex workers
3. To me it seems a lot of white women have overshadowed the movement and only mention woc when it’s used as an aha! moment against men and not with the intention of actually helping
4. Extreme transphobia, the main idea is that trans women rape women’s body’s and appropriating the body, my conflict with this is women are not their bodies and trans women have always felt like women since birth is the biological aspect that’s the problem
5. A lot of rad fems think a women choosing a certain lifestyle or religion is oppressive which again perpetuates the idea that women can not make a choice without a man or patriarchal idea being involved or a sense of brain washing
I think a lot of rad fems have lost sense of the movement and more times than often make themselves appear victim like and in a constant state of martyrdom, yes we women have suffered and continue to suffer and be oppressed but we can not let this weight break us down and make us point fingers at people (trans women and women who choose religion or certain life styles) who are not the root cause of our suffering
Please let me know your thoughts
There are drag queen who definitely take things out of proportion but for the most part of what I’ve seen a lot of gay men who do drag struggle with gender dysphoria and use drag as an outlet to express that side of them .
Drag is very much an art form that anyone can participate in , it is not exclusive to gay men
For many gay men drag is more of an alter ego sort of thing because they do not go by women and make jokes while in drag about not being women
There is misogyny in the gay community but it is important to remember that a small group of bad people does not identify a whole community
Any good drag queen knows they got everything from a women, style, makeup, music everything
Of course there are drag queen who are misogynistic because there will always be men everywhere that are misogynistic
I don’t think many people are out here assuming women are acting how those obscene drag queens act plus in general as someone who has gone to drag shows and is active in the drag community a lot of those “drag queens” are very much outcasted
They definitely deserve to get hated on and removed of their platforms
What do y’all think?
It's weird that men do drag to make fun of gender but the gender they make fun of is......women? Wouldn't it make more sense to make fun of hyper-masculinist gender roles that marginalize gay men- wearing big fake muscles and acting like an egoic idiot? Having skits about men getting their ego bruised by irrelevant bullshit? Fighting over nonsense? Being pigs? People will be like, "Well, Drag Kings exist". First of all, I don't even think Drag Kings parody and lampoon masculinity the way drag queens do feminity. I haven't seen many drag kings (they're damn near non-existent/invisible) but when I do, it's never them acting like clown men. The portrayal seems..... reverent. There are some reverent Drag Queens too, like some queens would do a character like Beyonce or Diana Ross with great respect. But there also exists A LOT of clownery: drag characters as slutty, airhead, bimbos, with their abortions and tampons hanging out, making blow job face- that kinda thing. What a coincidence this portrayal of feminity is more popular/has more cultural influence than Drag Kings and that making fun of "gender" has manifested in just...relentlessly shitting on women. Surprise surprise.
The twinkification of soap hurts my soul
Adding onto this
Since a young age we are taught to compete with other women with our ability to please men sexually, I hate hearing songs about how much “better” their privates are than another women
Like who actually gives af about your ability to sexually please other than a man who wants nothing more than to see women go against each other and compete to see who can please him better
A man describing your ability to please as a reason to why he is with you or keeps you around is a man who sees you as an object for relief not a human being
Bragging about your ability to please a man is only degrading
Brag about having a career and education not sex 🗣️🗣️
How is giving a man a blowjob “woman focused” when that action only benefits men. Her actions are not entertaining people are only cheering her on because she’s humiliating herself. Liberal feminists really believe that every single action a woman chooses to make is “empowering”.
To me personally it’s worse when a women commits a horrible crime against another woman it’s worse than a man doing it since I expect it from a man and not a woman who goes through similar societal struggles,
We need to hold bad women accountable for their actions instead of saying “well it doesn’t happen as often” or “well men do it more so it’s not as much of a problem”
Never said that trans women were the “better women”
I’ve seen a lot of women feel like trans women being accepted into female spaces takes away from their struggle or the prejudice they face when that is simply not true
Nothing can take away our achievements and what we have struggled through
Some rad fems use misogynistic trans women as a “gotcha” moment but that is not true for most of the trans community and there are unfortunately women haters everywhere
I actually think bathrooms like that should be changed into individual booths so everyone can have more privacy instead of those insane gaps American ones have
I agree completely with this post
What do y’all think?
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I am not threatened or feel at danger with transwomen because I am secure in my womanhood and see a future for myself without misogyny,
If a cis man wants to enter women’s restrooms to prey on women he will, many of these predators just use being trans as an excuse to be in women’s restrooms without actually being trans
I think saying that any choice a women makes is based on how misogyny has effected her and how women will never truly have free will is like submitting to misogyny and accepting “fate”
Any woman who truly believes that women can do no wrong and so wrong it baffles me
I do think trans women should have their own movement and that’s the way it’s always been up until now, I do think this generation is trying to hard to accommodate to everyone’s feelings which is just resulting in even more problems.
Trans women are brought up on my page a lot because a lot of rad fems seems very upset at the fact that I don’t care to call trans women he’s and refuse to put all trans women in a generalized box of women haters who’s main goal in life is to torment women. I think anyone with common sense can agree that not all trans women are like that.
I should have made it clearer that to me anyone who isn’t from my tribe is an outsider
I agree that I will also never closely affiliate with white women out of my own safety but I will help a white women if she is struggling or is being abused
All women are included in my feminism I just hold white women at an arms length because as a native women I have seen what they are capable of causing with their words and fake tears
My feminism doesn’t include trans women because like I said the original starters of the trans rights movement had their own movement
My humanitarianism includes everyone (mostly, not abusers ect)
I've seen your profile and I couldn't be more surprised on how you're the only rad leaning feminist that I can agree
You are educated, you are nice with the others and I really appreciate how you handle all this harrassment, they call you a TRA or worse stuff, some even go down to throw misogynistic slurs and speak at you, just because you are nice with trans people
I think is that you're not white and not from west and being a sister not from Europe or north america i can agree we both have different views on trans people than the people there, we are more accepting and aware on how they are (I'm from latin america btw)
I do agree by a lot with your points
thank you if you read that
😭😭 I’m so glad you found my profile!!
I’m from Latin America as well and come form a tribe that is a direct descendant of the Mayans
I have gotten very hateful comments especially about my culture which was very odd to me since we live in peace and are able to coexist and some radfems here have the audacity to say my culture is wrong just because I don’t see trans people as a threat to women because in my community they never have been
It is very sad that they insult me and degrade me and tell me I have no self respect which is the exact same thing men say to me to insult me
One thing I have learned is that white women will never be women of colors allies, never have been never will be, and I’m assuming most of the women spewing hate speech at me are white women who lack any cultural context and don’t bother to educate themselves or listen to what non white women have to say. They have a very “im right and your wrong” mindset
I’m glad to meet someone like minded and I hope my blog continues to reach more people like you
Much love 💖🫶
No matter how much I am attracted to house I know that if I worked for him I would think he was the most annoying mf on earth and quit my job working for him within a month lol
I recently returned back to my tribal land in Mesoamérica and it feels so good to have the government off our necks for once.
I Can’t speak for all the tribes but being able to govern ourselves has been so nice especially when it comes to crimes against women
For hundreds of years women of my tribe have been raped and violated by outsiders without any perpetrators facing consequences but now since the former and now president have made it to where we can decide the rules and punishments in our tribe, their punishment is to burn
Literally they are burned alive as punishment and it sends a message to any other men who think of committing sexual crimes against women, this has greatly decreased the amount of sexual assaults
We don’t have government presence in our tribe and do not allow government police or military so it’s only men from our community who keep the community safe,
I have always thought of misogyny as a European ideology since historically in my tribe men and women have both ruled and one was never seen as less than. We are able to coexist together and it is something I wish for all society’s but unfortunately men have become power hungry
⭐️Please let me know if you have any questions about my culture ⭐️
Did anyone else notice they made Farrah taller in mw3?
She used to be at Prices and Alex’s shoulders and now she reaches half their head
Does anyone know where you can find good Jay Gatsby fanfiction.... He's literally the man of my dreams