Friendly reminder: I failed my French speaking class twice. I worked hard and in the end can now speak French pretty decently. which just shows that you can reach any goal! You just have to set your mind to it and work towards your goal. Don’t be discouraged by failures. Take them as a starting point at which you can look back at and say: ‘I’ve come this far.’
i get so mad when i hear things scuttling inside the walls. like yeah yeah we get it…youre a creature. you dont need to rub it in my face that youre capable of scuttling
You go into a creepy mansion and there's a cloaked figure learning how to play the organ from a YouTube tutorial on their phone. You leave them to it.
girl breakfast lunch dinner supper brunch etc
at this point? my days include procrastination, not reading anything or finishing the whole damn book in an hour and forgetting to eat or eating my whole fridge. there is no in between.
perpetually fighting the urge to call myself a potato
trying to recover from a teenage brain that formed during the self-deprecating meme era of the internet
I think if we covered everything in moss everyone would be a lot better off. Think maslow’s hierarchy of needs, but it’s all moss.
It doesn't matter what you think, stop doing it. When someone tells you you're doing something wrong, trying to argue around it just makes you a jackass. Just apologize and correct your behavior.
This, my friends, is what we call “weaponizing progressive language.”
Because this would be a completely reasonable response in many circumstances. We’ve all seen similar things said to people who genuinely need to Stop, like celebrities defending their use of slurs (to name just one example). Devoid of context, this ask seems like someone fighting against an unreasonable asshole.
Except the thing I was most recently told to stop doing was…acknowledging that historical trans people existed.
The only reason I’m not simply ignoring this ask is that, once upon a time, I would have seen it and immediately started groveling. Because I don’t want to hurt anyone, and I ESPECIALLY don’t want to be doing so habitually. And very young people- like teens -in progressive spaces, I feel, are often cornered like this and made to apologize for “transgressions” that aren’t real. They have the compassion, but not yet enough experience to recognize this pattern of behavior.
It’s important to apologize and change when you hurt someone undeserving, or a group of innocent people. But it’s also important to recognize when someone is trying to use that concern for others against you.
something truly horrific about clicking an article about a national or global tragedy only for a pop up to say you only have 3 more free articles this month and then each paragraph of the piece is divided by picture ads for skin creams while a video of a car commercial plays automatically in the corner no matter how far you scroll
having a pet is insane... there is a guy on my floor