Me When Someone Says “no One Likes Blank More Than Me!” But I’m Literally Shifting For Them

Affirmations are statements, not wishes. They’re literally called AFFIRMations, as in reaffirming.

Use them as a way to remind yourself what you already have, not what you want to have.

Your Fictional Boyfriend Exists. Stop Asking.

Let’s get one thing straight: You’re not manifesting him. He’s already yours. PERIODT.

You don’t have to "align your energy."

You don’t have to "look for signs."

You don’t have to "visualize every night before bed" or need to do any "method"

He. Is. Already. Yours. End of discussion.

The Universe Didn’t Give You This Obsession for No Reason

Like, be so for real. You think you just randomly got obsessed with this fictional man for fun? That your heart just decided to latch onto him and say, “Yep, I want THAT” and the universe was like, “Aww, too bad, he’s not real”?

Ahem ahem...no. That’s not how this works. You feel connected to him because he already exists for you.

Somewhere in this universe, he’s alive. Breathing. Existing. And thinking about YOU.

Because duhhh, how could he not? You’re literally his person.

You’re Not “Manifesting” Him. You’re Just Accepting Reality.

This isn’t about waiting. This isn’t about “doing the work.” You don’t need to repeat affirmations 50 times a day or script in your journal until your wrist falls off. You’re not convincing the universe to bring him to you, he’s already here.

Like, do you question whether the sky is blue? No. You just know.

Same energy.

You don’t need to “align” with him.

You don’t need to check for angel numbers every five minutes.

He is yours because you said so. And that’s all that matters.

He’s Already Looking for You Too

You think you’re the only one here losing your mind over this man? Nah. He’s just as obsessed with you as you are with him.

Right now, he’s existing in reality, pacing his damn room, running his hands through his hair like, "Where is she? Why haven’t I met her yet?"

He’s looking for you. He’s thinking about you. And when the moment is right, BOOM, he’s in your life like he was always meant to be.

No effort. No struggle. Just fate doing its thing.

You’re the Main Character. Act Like It.

Do you think the main character in a romance novel stresses about whether the love interest is coming? Nope. She just lives her life until *plot twist* he shows up.

So, that’s your job now.

Go live. Have fun. Romanticize everything. He already loves you. This thing is inevitable.

No more stressing. No more asking “when.” Just KNOW.

Your fictional man is real and is obsessed with you.

"And when he would confess????" Does main character think like this?

Message from a regular shifter

You will shift once you stop relying so much on others and start relying on yourself. I completely mean that.

I know you probably hear this often, but genuinely, exit Tumblr or TikTok or whatever you use to consume shifting content, and stop listening so much to what other people do to shift.

Trust your intuition and do what you know you need to do to shift. Trust yourself. I promise you, that's what's going to make you shift.

you know what you need to do.

Saw this on Reddit, if this helps anyone (credit to OP)

so you guys do realize that when you 'shift on accident', or 'mini shift', it wasn't on accident or mini. you simply shifted, shifting is just that easy, give yourselves some credit, you're more capable than you know.

happy shifting ♡

Reading and understanding this made my brain work differently, thank you.

Reminder: shifting is a thing you do, not something that happens to you

Random thoughts on effort in shifting or Your brain isn't stupid – trust it.

I’m making this post after realizing that every time I’ve successfully shifted or had a lucid dream, it’s been when I wasn’t focused on making it happen. As always, it’s based on MY experience — I just needed to have it written down for future reference.

Last night, I went to bed without using a method or setting the intention to shift because I realized that, at the end of the day, my brain already knows what I want.

I think about shifting 24/7, so I decided to stop forcing it and trust that my mind is on my side and will take me exactly where I want to be.

As a result, I had a lucid dream for the first time in four months (I love shifting through lucid dreams, so not being able to have one in this long was a big deal for me).

Update: It’s been four days since I started implementing this mindset, and I’ve had two lucid dreams, two false awakenings, and three DR dreams.

I’ve come to realize that my idea of effort — doing methods, saying affirmations etc. — isn't as helpful as I once thought. All I’ve been doing is micromanaging the act of shifting, and as a result, I’ve been keeping myself here. All that energy, rather than bringing me closer, only built resistance, pushing me further from my goal.

I keep saying I want to shift and taking deliberate steps to make it happen, but ironically, most of the time, it’s this very effort that holds me back because it’s not backed by belief, but by fear.

Not focusing on the act of shifting — telling myself, "I know my brain knows what I want to happen and is going to make it happen" — and then letting myself fall asleep while thinking about whatever I want has helped me the most.

Not thinking about shifting while intending to shift has taken away the overthinking. Because when I’m doing a method, affirming, or setting 2000 intentions, there’s always that voice going: “What if I fail? What if I wake up here again?” or “I wonder if it’ll work,” or some other fear-based thought.

But how can my brain resist something if I’m not giving it anything to resist?

I already know, subconsciously, that I want to shift, and that’s all I need. If I don’t force it consciously, my brain has nothing to fight against. And that’s when the shift happens.

This post is so good omg

PURE CONSCIOUSNESS 101

what exactly IS pure consciousness? well its a state of consciousness where you’re detached from the 3D and mainly aware of the 4D. your 4D is anything that is within you. (imagination, inner conversations, playing a song in your head..etc etc) THAT is your 4D, you can induce pure consciousness at any time of the day and absolutely anywhere. most people prefer to induce pure consciousness at night because thats when the body becomes more relaxed in preparation for sleep. you can always set the intention to wake up in pure consciousness, fall asleep and then lucid dream and THEN induce pure consciousness or sleep paralysis (i don’t really recommend sleep paralysis) but hey, do what makes you comfortable. you may think that its too good to be true but its not, everyone has the ability to induce pure consciousness because its simply a meditative process. the traditional way people induce pure consciousness on TUMBLR is usually by closing your eyes and repeating the phrases “I AM” or “I am in the void state” or “i am pure consciousness” it doesn’t matter what affirmation you use just as long as its the intention of inducing it. you cannot fail this because it is impossible. news flash.. you induce pure consciousness as soon as you fall asleep every night.

you cannot force pure consciousness thats a thing most of you guys do, you wanna rush because you desperately wanna show your haters wrong. stop that, you don’t force yourself to sleep right? you don’t force yourself to breathe.. so stop trying to force pure consciousness. that will only keep you in the awake state. (awake state being you reading this right now and everything you see around you).

whats also common when people wanna induce pure consciousness is they wonder when they’ll start getting symptoms (floaty feeling, tingling, senses going out) etc, guys that’s simply just your brain checking to see if you’re awake, one of the reasons you “tap out” of pure consciousness was because you placed your awareness back on your body. as soon as your senses go out then you’re there. theres no “but i got floaty feelings and then i affirmed and i got nothing” well then you were not pure consciousness. and then theres your fear that comes into play whenever inducing pure consciousness.

you’re scared of failing, (you literally can’t fail a mediative state this isn’t rocket science) you’re panicking because you swore to yourself you would induce pure consciousness over the break and live your dream life and then you didn’t. *loud heavy sigh* you can’t fail this guys, its okay to be worried but this isn’t something that just can never not work for you.

now lets see pure consciousness from a law of an assumption pov, as we all know our best friend is law of assumption, works instantly and effectively. all you have to do is assume. “well ayami how do i assume?”. my response would be that the sky is glittery with magical rainbows. you would reply with “no its not” i would reply “yes it is” 1 second later the sky is glittery and has magical rainbows. why? because it was my assumption. i didn’t need any stupid proof, it was my assumption so it had no choice to happen. now if you told me “ugh im such a master at inducing pure consciousness” and i said “no you aren’t” you are NOT going to say “oh you’re right im not” YOU ARE GOING TO SAY “um what’re you talking about yes i am? you’re just jealous i can induce it instantly and effortlessly”. okay now bam you can instantly and effortlessly induce pure consciousness whenever you want because thats your assumption and you stood firm to it no matter what was said or shown to you. starting NOW you will assume that you’re a master at inducing pure consciousness and you will stand firm in that state no matter what the hell is shown.

now go induce pure consciousness.

THIS.

i’m so sick of everyone being like:

‘you’ve got to respect all people’s beliefs’

until it comes to shifting

anti shifters i hate y’all

Benefits of Shifting Realities

(Beyond the obvious ones like living in your desired reality and being with your S/O)

This reality becomes less stressful when you realize you don't have to achieve everything you want to here

But also you can make this reality your dream reality easily by just shifting/manifesting

Ability to access information from other realities and other versions of yourself (channeling advice, multiverse sigils, and pop culture deities to name a few)

Deeper love and relationships, as there is complete choice in who you are with and where you are

Choice to live an immortal life and reincarnate when you choose