Herb’s Properties Part 3

seeing more and more success stories on here and i’m genuinely loving it like yes keep it coming please shifting is so very real!!! tell me what you did in your dr i’m listening!!!!

Your Fictional Boyfriend Exists. Stop Asking.

Let’s get one thing straight: You’re not manifesting him. He’s already yours. PERIODT.

You don’t have to "align your energy."

You don’t have to "look for signs."

You don’t have to "visualize every night before bed" or need to do any "method"

He. Is. Already. Yours. End of discussion.

The Universe Didn’t Give You This Obsession for No Reason

Like, be so for real. You think you just randomly got obsessed with this fictional man for fun? That your heart just decided to latch onto him and say, “Yep, I want THAT” and the universe was like, “Aww, too bad, he’s not real”?

Ahem ahem...no. That’s not how this works. You feel connected to him because he already exists for you.

Somewhere in this universe, he’s alive. Breathing. Existing. And thinking about YOU.

Because duhhh, how could he not? You’re literally his person.

You’re Not “Manifesting” Him. You’re Just Accepting Reality.

This isn’t about waiting. This isn’t about “doing the work.” You don’t need to repeat affirmations 50 times a day or script in your journal until your wrist falls off. You’re not convincing the universe to bring him to you, he’s already here.

Like, do you question whether the sky is blue? No. You just know.

Same energy.

You don’t need to “align” with him.

You don’t need to check for angel numbers every five minutes.

He is yours because you said so. And that’s all that matters.

He’s Already Looking for You Too

You think you’re the only one here losing your mind over this man? Nah. He’s just as obsessed with you as you are with him.

Right now, he’s existing in reality, pacing his damn room, running his hands through his hair like, "Where is she? Why haven’t I met her yet?"

He’s looking for you. He’s thinking about you. And when the moment is right, BOOM, he’s in your life like he was always meant to be.

No effort. No struggle. Just fate doing its thing.

You’re the Main Character. Act Like It.

Do you think the main character in a romance novel stresses about whether the love interest is coming? Nope. She just lives her life until *plot twist* he shows up.

So, that’s your job now.

Go live. Have fun. Romanticize everything. He already loves you. This thing is inevitable.

No more stressing. No more asking “when.” Just KNOW.

Your fictional man is real and is obsessed with you.

"And when he would confess????" Does main character think like this?

me thinking of all the stuff me & my s/o are gonna do (I’m too shy to even look at pictures of him in THIS reality)

Stop Procrastinating Shifting Nah, you're not "waiting for the right time", you're just avoiding your own power and I love you, but get the fuck up and do something. We are all out here saying we want to shift. We believe in it (more or less for some people). We yearn and dream about or DR, about that hot looking, successful and potentially emotionally stable version of ourselves. But lets take a look at what we are actually doing a lot of times. Scrolling through shifting posts.... again. Because we haven't done that the last few days, huh? Re-reading the same LoA post hoping it hits a bit different this time (it doesn't). Shuffling unnecessary shit around in our scripts, because changing where the "About Me" section is will unlock the cheat code to the multiverse somehow. Telling ourselves "I'll do it tonight if the vibes feel right". And then we fall asleep before we get the second affirmation out because we pushed back sleeping and trying for 4 hours at this point. Busted, huh? When we are constantly doing that, we are neither manifesting nor shifting, we are just mentally pacing in circles like a neurotic racoon. This isn't preparing... it's procrastinating. I say this with all the love I can come up with after only 4 hours of sleep: There is no perfect attempt. You just need to fucking start doing something. The chances you will shift by only tweaking your script over and over and over again, waiting for something to happen, are rather low. The chances you will wake up one day and say "Yes! I have been enlightened and now I am ready!" in regards to shifting are also low. Because you are already ready! You have been from the moment you got the definition of shifting thrown your way. I think most of us are just scared to fuck it up and "fail". Of course it's sometimes scary to want something so bad it makes us cry and all we can do is manifest and hope for the best. But delaying that shit won't make that scary feeling go away. It just gives doubts more time to invade your thoughts. Can we all agree to drop the thought of needing a 27 step pre shifting routine, stop pretending that we need to be "in the right headspace" while trying to shift and to stop expecting motivation to just suddenly appear like a convenient divine ass-kicking as if it is needed? Yeah? Great. We'll just start anyway. Picking some random fucking method, doesn't matter which one. Saying our affirmations even if we feel like a delusional nutjob. Just.. trying. Doing something, anything really. Even if we suck at focusing or visualizing. Just do it anyway. Showing up and doing something even if it is not perfect is pulling your brain away from being scared of fucking it up. Build that momentum. We shift through starting and doing, not through running away from shifting ^-^

i just had a thought and i need to write it down here because i'm afraid if i don't i'll just forget it instantly and move to another one (this is like a reminder for me but i'm sure you could maybe identify to it too!)

do. you. really. want. to. shift?

like living there, BEING there? living all these experiences, feeling all these emotions?

or do you only like the idea of WANTING it? do you only like fantasizing your DR?

because i change DRs so many times that doing my scripts and consuming all this content about my DRs and their world feel like it's only something i enjoy to do. like any other thing you like to do.

so i repeat my question? do you like what daydreaming about your DR all the time gives you emotionally, or do you actually WANT to experience it by yourself?

à méditer !

(= "something to reflect on" in french)

The shifters that shift for love made me believe that true love exists.

Someone going to such lenghts for someone they love. It's beautiful, poetical and even admirable, having in consideration the amount of effort and time shifters put into it, there are shifters that have been trying for years to shift and have the main goal of simply being able to be with their s/o and love them.

Some people don't even bought flowers for their partners because they think it doesn't matter that much and then we have shifters that are out there going to a whole other reality just for someone they love.

The shifters love is a whole other level.

I have such a soft spot for the ones that are shifting for love.

This actually helped me so much omfg

✧ OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF SHIFTING: IT’S MORE COMMON THAN YOU THINK

✵ UNDERSTANDING THE FEAR. The fear of actually shifting to your DR is such a sneaky block because it’s not something we expect to feel. Like, you’re doing all this work (visualizing, affirming, scripting, etc) and yet deep down, you might be scared of actually getting what you want. It’s wild, but it makes sense when you break it down.

✵ WHY SUCCESS MIGHT FEEL SCARY.

— Even if you’ve visualized your DR a million times or planned your DR down to the last detail, but actually being there is a completely new experience. What’s it actually going to feel like to be there? What if things don’t go how you imagined? That uncertainty can trigger a lowkey (or not so lowkey) fear.

— Success comes with its own pressure. Once you shift, it’s easy to start overthinking. What if I can’t do it again? What if it’s not what I expected? That “what if” spiral can get overwhelming. And that might create a fear of succeeding.

— Even if you don’t love your CR, it’s still comfortable because it’s familiar. Leaving behind parts of it, even if it’s just for a short amount of time, (people, routines, or even just your identity in this reality) can feel heavier than you realize.

— What if your DR doesn’t live up to the dream? What if it’s not perfect? That fear can make success feel risky, and your brain might unconsciously try to avoid it altogether.

✵ HOW THIS FEAR MESSES WITH YOU. This fear doesn’t usually scream “I’m scared to succeed!” It shows up in subtle ways like procrastinating, feeling “stuck,” constantly tweaking your script, overthinking your method, or second-guessing yourself. It’s like your mind is putting up invisible walls without you even realizing it.

✵ WHY PEOPLE DON’T TALK ABOUT IT. This fear gets ignored because it feels backwards, like why would you be scared of getting what you want? Plus, in the shifting community, everyone’s so focused on HOW to shift, they don’t always talk about the emotional side of it. It’s easier to think you’re just “doing it wrong” than to realize you might be holding yourself back.

✵ HOW TO GET PAST IT.

— Acknowledge it. The first step is being honest with yourself. Ask, Am I scared of actually shifting to my DR? Once you see it for what it is, it’s easier to work through.

— Instead of obsessing over the moment you shift, think about how you’re going to feel and thrive once you’re there. Build that excitement so it outweighs the fear.

— Remind yourself you’ve got this. You’ve done the work, and you’re capable of handling whatever comes up in your DR. Affirmations like “I’m ready for this” or “I trust myself” really help.

— Your DR doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be worth experiencing. Give yourself room to explore and grow. Nothing has to be set in stone.

— Shifting doesn’t have to be some huge, dramatic moment. Every step (big or small) you take is progress, so don’t psych yourself out by making it feel bigger than it is.

✵ FINAL THOUGHTS. So yeah, fear of success is real, but it doesn’t have to stop you. The key is recognizing it for what it is and deciding it’s not going to hold you back. You’ve already done the hard part by getting this far, trust that you’re ready for what’s waiting on the other side.

You don’t HAVE to script EVERYTHING, your subconscious knows exactly what you want and that reality existed before you even knew about it.

That one song that reminds you of ppl from your DR>>> UHG

Most shifters genuinely forget to have fun in their shifting journey like this isn't supposed to feel like ur math homework 😭😭