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Clitoral Stimulation During Labor

I have had a couple of questions about my use of clitoral stimulation as coping mechanism during labor.  While it is a coping mechanism, for me it’s much more than that.  To me labor and birth are the collimation of sex - it’s the ultimate outcome of sex.  You are, through your body, giving independent life to a child created by an act of love - sex that is.  To me labor and birth are incredibly sexual events.  Clitoral stimulation is only natural - it’s the way for your body to release the tension of labor in a most natural, beautiful, and enjoyable way.

I used clitoral stimulation during each of my three homebirths.  During the last one I think I has about 6 orgasms.  So how did I do it?  Well, I either pleasured myself, or (the better way!) either my husband or my midwife “assisted”.

When I pleasured myself, I pictured my body opening up.  I thought of the baby forcing me open and stretching me wide. I pictured the baby passing through my vagina - my birth canal - and stretching my labia in a painfully but oh so pleasurable burn. I rubbed my clit, and as I realized that soon I would be giving birth.  The orgasms were amazing.

Even better, though, was my husband or my midwife stimulating me.  I would lay back, with my eyes closed, and experience the sensations.  This was part of the labor process - the people closest to me helping me relax and open my body. These were the best orgasms. During my last homebirth (the twins) my husband was wearing a pair of gym shorts (I was naked) and I could see his erection as he rubbed my clit.  OMG I wanted to fuck him right then! The ones by my midwife were even more intense than the ones by my husband.  I loved her touch.  There is something taboo, even ethically questionable, about he touch at the time but to me it was pure beauty. Yes, I had been intimate with her before the labors but this was different. The raw sexuality of her touch match with the pure sexuality of labor. I am getting myself so wet right now just thinking of it. MMMM.

Of course clitoral stimulation during labor may not be for everyone. It’s almost impossible or at least difficult to do during a hospital birth because of the lack of privacy. However, another good method (that you can do at the hospital) is simple kissing and touching.  Human touch and affection are so calming during labor, and really make for better birth experience.So open your mind, explore your body, and enjoy your birth!

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“Sweet Dreams”

Martin Gregus captured a once in a lifetime moment of a Polar Bear sleeping on a bed of fireweed.

Churchill, Manitoba, Canada

I respect men who show me they don’t give a fuck about my boundaries or my dignity in small everyday things. Slap my ass, everytime I walk by. Laugh when I tell you to stop. When you see me eating a meal, come and look me in the eye while, you jerk off into my food. Drop things for me to pick up. Pull my boobs out, when I’m trying to talk about something important. Casually spit in my face. Piss on me while I’m asleep. Show me that disrespecting me, is no big deal to you and I will admire you deeply.

i think we’re undervaluing sub tops, i’ve been saying this for a while. i love the idea of a man who wants so badly to fuck deep into you, but will hold himself back no matter how you clench and cum around him while you use him as a dildo. he would be so good for you- his hard cock straining in his pants as he ruts against your hip, knowing the pleasure of your hole is a luxury he has to earn. maybe he’d even beg you to cum inside you... wouldn’t that be pretty? a big, strong man fucking you hard and fast and in your ear, hes whispering please, please, i’ll be good, please let me breed you

edit: getting pretty sick of you guys rbing this just to make fun of tumblr saying it’s based on your likes. just turn off that feature and go.

hiii!! can I request jungkook and reader trying out cockwarming and jk absolutely loving it and now has to do it every night to stay close to y/n? or something like that lol

Not me trying to figure out what positions would work best for this lmao. Warning for nsfw content ahead!!

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It’s become habit at this point. If there’s enough time for it, Jungkook has you sitting pretty on his cock. It doesn’t matter when it is, if it’s possible then it’s probably happening; you can’t complain.

Most of the time it’s later at night after you’ve both arrived home from work, tired and ready to relax. It’s not long before both of you are stripped down on the couch, Jungkook maneuvering you to lay on your side in front of him, pussy spread around his half hard dick. It’s not really about fucking, not most of the time.

“Comfy baby?” Surprisingly, you are. Feeling him inside you, being so close to one another had become one of your favorite things. It’s intimate, not quite like sex but close enough. You nod whitely to him, eating it up as his strong arms wrap around you snuggly, your naked back pressing against his bare front.

“Good, wanna be close to you.” And he is, skin to skin, practically wrapped up in each other. It’s probably not possible for you to melt any further into him. What is possible though is for you to drift off, warm and safe in his arms.

“Sleep well baby…”

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