God's love is here RIGHT NOW for u❤
someone is gonna love you for who you are. it may not be right now, but i guarantee you, if you go in life with a positive attitude, someone’s going to love you. they’re gonna love everything about you; your dark brown eyes, even without the light flecks of gold that everyone loves. your thunder thighs, stretch marks and cellulite. they’re gonna love your awkward jokes, your loud cackling laugh, and your nervous habits. you’re gonna find a love, even if it’s not soon. leave that trash behind, don’t let them get you down. don’t let them tell you your unique quirks aren’t beautiful.
And don't you EVER forget how wonderfully you were moulded in the likeness of God !!!!❤❤
such a piece of art you are
I think you’re making points & I definitely understand what you mean. We’ve turned into a very hyper-sexual culture and in some cases it is having a terrible influence. I’m not policing you, like you said, it is your blog . But I think the people who are mad just have an issue with it seeming like women can’t be multi-faceted, or change, or have control over being sexual. I do think there’s a time & place and definitely get being tired of it, but if the woman is in control of it, why have issue?
This is an actual respectful disagreement where a conversation can be had. I think you're confusing what being a multifaceted person is. Yes, a woman (or any person) can have different sides and personalities to themselves, I have made posts here addressing how important it is to develop yourself in different areas, that's not what Saweetie or any other rapper out here is doing, actually.
My initial critique was based on the poorly executed attempt at rachetness and morally corrupt behavior that we have been seeing the music industry try to shove down young people's throat, Saweetie is a great example. She isn't exhibiting being a person of multiple qualities, she has been *transformed* into a very specific image to make her blend with the rest of the female rappers currently in the scene (City Girls, Megan, Doja Cat, Kash Doll, etc.). What she's portraying is not sex appeal, sex appeal is subtle, tasteful, has an aura of mystery. Sexual degeneracy is vulgar, in your face, tacky and repugnant, that's what she is displaying. Being critical of a behaviour that young girls will observe and then proceed to replicate (especially with the viral social media challenges she came up with) will only harm these same girls mentally and will make them develop a skewed view of their sexuality, self perception as women and force them to comply to an image that has been crafted by an industry that's based on using sex, drugs and violence to make profit.
Ask yourself, would you feel comfort if your 8 year old daughter or sister spent her time watching a music video of a grown woman in tank top shaking her spine on top of a basketball backboard with lyrics saying "8 inch, big d*ck that's good pipe"? And before some starts saying that it's not the artist's responsibility to overview what people's kid see online, that point is irrelevant because Saweetie, like most female rapper, caters her music to young girls and spreads it through social media to target a very specific audience, they know exactly what they are doing.
Saweetie is not multifaceted, to the contrary she has developed one specific try hard brand of a Megan Thee Stallion knock off. If you or any of these third wave "feminists" find that empowering then you believe that, but that won't stop other people from being critical of what's being promoted to us. And I focus on female rappers because I'm a woman, but male rappers are just as bad, and unfortunately we as a society have become numb to the promotion of guns, drugs and easy sex/degradation of women in their music. We need to do better, we have to.
“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.”
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When you realize that no matter how pretty you look on the outside it won’t help if your heart is ugly. Let God transform your heart :)
To partake in pornography is abusive to yourself because it will cause you shame. It also shows you don’t understand your identity. You are worth more than that. The people you are selfishly gratifying your passions through are worth more than that. Dive into your God given identity and educate yourself on the God-given value of every individual made in the image of God.
If you use pornography, there is grace. There is freedom. There is forgiveness. There is deliverance. I declare the victory I have received from God over you and declare that you are cleansed now and continually from sin by the blood of Jesus.
just because it’s still hurting doesn’t mean it’s not healing
it feels so good to be kind. it’s the warm feeling you get when you tell someone that they look nice today, or that they did a good job, or that their voice sounds lovely, or that the cookies they baked were delicious, or how you always laugh at their jokes. it’s the warm feeling you get when they respond bashfully, or surprised, with that small smile and a thankfulness that shines in their eyes. it feels so good when someone is kind to you. when it feels like the effort you put into yourself is seen and acknowledged and appreciated. it feels so good when you’re able to make someone feel that wonderful. we should always try and encourage each other.
Amen!!!🙌🏽
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Just a gal who loves to write about anything and everything🫶🏾 (she/her, 22)
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