Denied >

D/s 101: If you call yourself a Dominant, don’t do this stuff...

You have adopted a title that should come with a giant heaping dose of honor, respect, and trustworthiness. 

1. Don’t make demands of submissive girls that don’t belong to you. You should know the difference between having the ability to control your own submissive, and how you should be treating all the rest that don’t belong to you.

2. Don’t talk intimately/woo other submissives behind the back of the one that belongs to you. All the time and energy you have to put into the submissive world should be aimed at your own submissive. If you want a different submissive, do the right thing, and break with the one you currently own first.

3. Don’t ditch submissives. How would you feel if the person you depend on for nearly everything suddenly went up in a puff of smoke, and was never heard from again? How would it effect your ability to trust someone else to take up the same role in your life? Stop ghosting, and ruining perfectly good submissives. 

4. Don’t cut your submissive out from contributing to your relationship. Yes, I know she put you in charge, but relationships evolve, and if you don’t attend to what she wants out of yours, your relationship is likely to evolve in separate directions. You can still be in charge, and listen to her wants and needs, I promise. 

5. Don’t ask someone you just met to be your submissive. It’s your job to inspire her to submit to you, by getting to know who she is, and showing her that you are the single most qualified man to be her Dominant. Don’t be lazy. Being a Dominant takes a lot of focus and energy. If you’re not up for that, go find another title to adopt. 

6. Don’t put your submissive on a shelf when caring for her is not convenient to you, and take her down off the shelf when it suits you. Submissives are human beings, and though some of them like to be treated like objects from time to time, they should not be ignored when you don’t feel like dealing with your relationship. If you don’t have to the time and energy to adopt the role of Dominant for someone, then don’t do it in a half-assed way.

7. Don’t compare your current submissive with past submissives. It’s not a competition. You should be making her feel like she’s the most important person in your current world, so don’t make her feel like she’s less than other submissives, or that you’re pining for something you no longer have, and feel you can’t have with her. 

8. Don’t skimp on the essential ingredients in D/s relationships. Don’t be that guy who limits your submissives safeword in any way. A safeword is the difference between consensual sex, and possible rape and abuse. Don’t skimp on aftercare. Let her know how much you appreciate all the control she continuously allows you to have over her, and how well she is performing for you. It’s the difference between a proud and happy submissive, and a sad and confused one. 

9. Don’t make unilateral decisions that your submissive is directly opposed to. You don’t get to decide your submissive needs a sister because it suits you to have a second submissive to play with, when it’s patently against her wishes. Once again, it’s her relationship too. 

10. Don’t lie to your submissive. It’s all about trust. It’s trust that inspires her to submit to you. It’s trust that inspires her to allow you to continue to hold her submission. One or two breaches of trust, and it all falls apart. 

JD🌹

Day 14 of my denial

It has been 2 weeks since my last orgasm. Sir has told me I'm not allowed to touch without his permission apart from my morning edges. I have 10 minutes each morning and can't go over. I feel so very submissive currently and easily aroused. This will definitely be the longest time I have done denial for as I still have 6 days to go.

A new suggestion

I've been given a new suggestion by sir that I'm only allowed to touch when I'm sucking on something... This makes me feel very flustered, aroused and used like the good little slut I am.

Musical Edges

“We are going to play a game this evening, something simple, yet so much fun”.

Hearing Sir say that was all it took to have Alice and I squirming with anticipation. He ordered us both to strip and once we were naked he had us sit on the couch next to each other. He sat in the chair opposite and for a while he just sat looking at us. The anticipation grew and I could feel my pussy getting so wet. Eventually he opened a playlist of music videos on the TV and then opened up a countdown timer. He told us to look away and when we looked back the playlist was back on the screen. He told us he had started a countdown and then explained what the timer was for. He told us that we were going to play musical edges and the winner would get to orgasm and the loser would be denied. It was purely a game of chance which one of us would get to cum.

The rules were simple. He had both us of touch and tease our pussies and the first one of us to edge would start first. Alice edged first and he then told us the rules. He would start the playlist of music videos and whilst the first song was playing Alice was to touch and edge herself whilst I was to watch. When the song finished and the next one started we would switch and I would have to touch and edge whilst Alice watched. The songs varied in length so it was down to chance how long each of us would have to edge. The game would end when the timer went off. Whichever one of us was touching when the timer went off would be allowed to cum. We both nodded and told him we understood and we set about playing the game.

For the next two hours we both teased and edged our pussies. It felt so good but was so torturous having to stop each time the song changed and I had to sit there squirming and watching Alice give herself pleasure. As time passed and I edged more and more I got more and more needy. The edges started getting so intense and were making my pussy so so desperate to cum. Knowing that I could get to make her cum made her so needy but also knowing that it was a 50/50 chance was such a turn on. All the while we played our game Sir sat watching us, slowly stroking his cock and knowing he was enjoying the show only made me more aroused. 

When the timer went off I was riding on the edge and realised I had won an orgasm. I was edging so close and as soon as I realised I asked Sir if I was allowed my prize. He nodded and I edged closer and closer until I couldn’t stop it and I crashed into orgasmic bliss. I squirmed and writhed against Alice as waves of pleasure coursed through me and my pussy pounded and tingled with ecstasy. When I came down from my orgasmic high I thanked Sir and then Alice and I slid off the couch and crawled over to his chair and between us we spent a while worshipping his cock and giving him pleasure. I do enjoy playing Sir’s fun games.

Pillar of Creation

Last night he put orajel on my clit and I went brain dead. He kept fucking me, hard, relentless pumping that made me shudder and drool out the side of my mouth as I mewled something about “it’s not working, you took it awayyyyy” It still felt good, but in a frustrating way that kept me wet without any release. I pawed at my useless button, it felt like touching someone else’s, there was no response. I told him so, and he said it was good for me not to cum, it kept me pliant and obedient for him, isn’t that what I wanted? He finished on my face and scooped me up, I caught my breath and tried not to focus on the yearning that was still there. Good girls don’t cum.

That Is Adorable

me irl

he smol