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by the way, quietly bottling your discomfort with someone and just hoping they'll "get the hint" until you can't take it anymore and then taking it to the nearest moderator isn't "setting a boundary" or "being victimized," it's actually called "being a huge piece of shit" and "expecting people to read your mind."

Sorry about your conflict aversion, but you actually need to tell people when they're making you uncomfortable. like, with explicit, clear, unmistakeable words that don't give you a safe cover of plausible deniability with which you can back out and "still be the good guy." It is kinder to let someone down face-to-face so they can hurt and move on knowing what went wrong than it is to lead someone on and then stab them in the fucking back, you know?

Also, I cannot stress this enough, it is not actually someone else's fault for making you uncomfortable when you literally make a point to lie to them about how much you like them by pretending you're enjoying their company more than you are. That's your fault. That's called making a bed to lie in. Maybe just desperately hoping someone who has already misinterpreted how close they are to you will just happen to pick up on the subtle signs of you desperately hiding your discomfort is, frankly, fucking stupid, and you need to get over yourself and say real words to them instead of getting some third party to punish them for your own inability to communicate.

Sorry this one isn't as nice as my other posts, but some of you need a wake-up slap. Stop fucking burning autistic people and trans women one-by-one because being a coward is easier than being a villain. It's not fucking nice, it's not cute, and the more I see it happen, the less forgivable it gets. Grow the fuck up and change in the scary but necessary ways.

Because it's kinder to tell someone when they're fucking up than it is to let them make the same mistakes in ignorance until you've secretly tallied enough transgressions to safely write them off as unforgivable, and thus disposable. Because I care about you, and everyone else, enough to give you a real chance to actually correct your harmful behaviors by being honest to you about the harm they cause. Because I believe people can make hurtful mistakes while still being genuine unintended mistakes, and that they can change.

Hint, hint.

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Dedicated to those who live in spite of the horrors Spent a whole month working on this project and here it is just in time for my city's i

dear people with OCD: the next time you have spiraling & intrusive thoughts, what-ifs, or catastrophizing scenarios, I am sending a cardigan-wearing 46-year old NYU professor directly into your brain and he says "Aaaaand scene!!!" and he claps his hands slowly. and he says "Wow. Wow. Powerful stuff. Evocative imagery. A little bit post-modern, a little bit hysterical realism in the vein of Don Delilo but let's pause right here." and you will recognize your thoughts as a perplexing avant-garde film shown to an audience of 15 liberal arts students who are now trying to get a good grade and sleep with their professor.

Relaxing Bath Time 🛁🫧📺🐰

ocd is honestly fucking soul destroying. it's 4am and for the first time in years, tonight I've managed to alter one of my compulsions and take one of the rules out and it feels like - like the world is coming to an end. every atom in my body feels like it's screaming at me to do the compulsion over again and i can't make it stop. i feel like something terrible is going to happen to my family and it will all be my fault bc I couldn't just do the stupid fucking compulsion like I was supposed to and its hell this is hell I am in hell

“ Look Around You and Try to Live Somehow “

- ORV -

I am still trying to fully understand it’s meaning…

“The Longer I’d Stall

The Further I’d Crawl

The Further I’d Crawl

The Harder I’d Fall

Into The Fire “

Gotta Knock a Little Harder - The Seatbelts

Suddenly it Occurred to Me , The Reason for The Run and Hide Had Totalled My Existence…..

this is when you know you are fucked for a long long time…

For my own reference, the ship name/tag for Sung Hyunje and Han Yoojin in Korean is

현제×유진 or 현제유진

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The Demon King of Salvation & The Golden and Endless Witch Beatrice | 😈🦋