Why Are You Trying So Hard?

Hi Hera! this probably a stupid question i’m so sorry but idk how to stop hoping or expecting to see my desires right after or the day after i manifest them, i mean that COULD happen but i get frustrated when it don’t and realize im not in my state, also when i try to get into the state easily i get upset and frustrated with myself

This literally means that you have not fulfilled yourself. You haven't nailed yourself to your state. You just thought of your desire without identifying yourself with it and thinking that that would be enough for the 3D to shift.

You need to change within! If you don't change within, you will never see a respective change on the outside!

I want you to start using your imagination. Close your eyes, turn within and start imagination purely for enjoyment. Forget about changing the 3D, forget about the world entirely for a second. Now, imagine what it would be like if your desire was a present fact. And really dwell on it until you accept its reality I mean really bask yourself in it. But don't approach this forcibly! It takes minimum effort to do this. As you let go more and more of the outer world and allow yourself to imagine freely, you will see how easy it is to assume a feeling (state) and identify yourself with it, because you've completely let go of all reasons and conditions. You can now, in the present moment, simply accept yourself to be that which you desire to be, which is exactly how you occupy a state through I AM. Once you realize how easy (and fun) this is to do, you will find it significantly easier to persist in (and identify with) it. This is how you change self! The more you do this, the sooner your conception of self will change and the world will inevitably follow.

take responsibility + an ms paint guide to manifesting!

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take responsibility.

the law is always working. if you “failed” to manifest something, if you’re struggling, it’s no one’s fault but your own. and you know what? that’s a good thing. people will hear that and get so mad and say we’re blaming them or being rude or cruel. but it’s the truth! you have all the power. there is no outside source keeping you from your manifestation: its your own self, your own conscious mind. you don’t have to change anyone or anything but your own thoughts. you didn’t fail to manifest because you’re missing a crucial piece of information. you know everything you need to know. you have all the power in your reality. if you’re failing, it’s because you are allowing yourself to fail. you have an assumption that you need to correct, or you’re not being strict with your mental diet, or you’re constantly. repeating. to. yourself. that. it’s. not. working!!!!!! don’t you guys see??? you ARE successfully manifesting: you’re manifesting your own failure!!!!

every thought you have is an affirmation, whether you like it or not. i’m not saying that if you think a negative thought one time that it’s going to manifest. intrusive thoughts don’t manifest.

but look at it this way:

these are your beliefs. each little circle represents a thought that you’ve had. in this example, we are manifesting money,

these are your beliefs that have been instilled in you by society about money. but now, you’ve learned about the law and you’re going to manifest becoming rich.

you start affirming your new story. imagine your new affirmations/thoughts stacking up as well. they are the circles on the right. as you affirm, you create new beliefs that cancel out your old beliefs.

you’re excited! this manifesting business is so easy! you can already feel your old beliefs shrinking and disappearing as you focus on the new story and think positive thoughts that align with it. every positive thought you have cancels out a negative one.

but wait a second….this is taking longer than you thought it would. you’ve been affirming for two days and nothing has happened!!! wtf??? that must mean that manifesting isn’t real!!!!! right?!?!?! you start thinking negative thoughts. you think five negative thoughts for every positive one.

you keep repeating these contradicting thoughts, and you don’t understand why you aren’t getting your manifestation. you’re barely even saying your affirmations anymore, and when you do, your conscious mind just retaliates by doubting and being negative. the negative thoughts keep piling up, but the thing is that you aren’t realizing that they are what is keeping your manifestation from you.

one day you have a realization: your thoughts create. ALL of your thoughts. well fuck…you’ve been having sooo many negative thoughts. you haven’t been persisting, you’ve been wavering. you have not been on a mental diet. you’ve been allowing yourself to spiral.

but that’s okay!!! you have no one to blame but yourself. but that’s a good thing, because just as easily as you thought those negative thoughts, you can think positive ones instead. sure, you’ll have to monitor your thoughts and flip them and not allow yourself the comfort of thinking of the old story every once in a while, but that’s a small price to pay to literally become a millionaire and never have to work a day in your life????

you start thinking positive thoughts again. whenever you have a negative thought, you immediately flip it. in doing so, you work to cancel out negative assumptions. manifesting is hard? no its not, its the easiest thing in the world!! i must be doing something wrong? no i’m not, i’m doing everything right! its taking a long time to manifest? no it’s not, it’s already mine!! i manifest instantly.

before you know it, you no longer have to flip thoughts. you are naturally thinking from the new story. persisting is second nature. you are living in the end. you don’t worry about time or logic.

your positive thoughts/affirmations outweigh the old story/negative thoughts. pretty soon, the new story feels so natural to you that you don’t even realize it’s not in your 3D yet. and then….boom! it is in your 3D. you open your bank account one day and see that your bank balance is in the millions. you are so excited! you go on a shopping spree, you buy yourself a new, luxury car, you travel to the places you’ve always wanted to go. you succeeded! you successfully manifested your desire, and now you can enjoy it knowing that it was you that did the work and got you there. disciplining your mind, flipping your thoughts, giving yourself pep talks in front of the mirror…it was all worth it. because now you have your desire.

a few days later you decide that you want to manifest an sp. someone to love you and treat you like a princess, someone that you can share your new wealth with. now that you’ve successfully manifested millions of dollars, you are super confident in your manifesting abilities. you have to confront your old beliefs about love, and now that you’re used to keeping a mental diet its much easier this time. you manifest your sp in the blink of an eye, because this time you trust the process and yourself so much more. damn, what would’ve happened if you just trusted the law and your subconscious mind the first time?

conclusion:

you have to think more positive thoughts than negative in order to manifest. that’s why we tell you to flip your thoughts. a negative thought can instantly be cancelled out by a positive one. over time, if you are strict about doing this, you will naturally stop thinking negatively. thinking negative thoughts is a habit that you can easily break. discipline your mind. it will be worth it.

no one can manifest for you. it’s up to YOU to put in the work. if your manifestation isn’t here yet, don’t try to place the blame on anyone or anything outside of you. take responsibility.

and persist for gods sake!!!!!!!!

I highly recommend everyone who wants to change their appearance with their mind to read this thread 🖤 It is truly mind changing and helped me so much because now I know if I see the opposite of what I want it’s just a glitch and I look exactly how I want to look no matter what I see I feel and know it’s DONE

everything comes from the same source, it’s made of the same thing, imagination. you can change everything within.

“i have changed within”

it has to change without, fulfill it within, just to do it. feel good in your mind, let go of the expectations of the outter man for just a moment and think all the thoughts you’ll like to think, listen to the music you’ll like to listen to, speak the languages you’d like to speak, travel the world, fly, kiss the bride, perform on stage, get straight A’s. DO IT NOW, do it inside.

The only person that can change your reality IS YOU.

YOU have to step up and go on a mental diet. YOU have to decide what type of life you want to live. YOU have to affirm and persist. IT FALLS ON YOU!!!!

Manifesting is so fucking easy. YOU WILL SEE FULL RESULTS FAST. LIVE IN THE 4D COMPLETELY BECAUSE THAT IS WHO YOU TRULY ARE. THAT IS THE PERSON YOU ARE. THAT IS THE LIFE YOU ARE ALREADY LIVING. THE 4D IS PROOF THAT YOU ARE WHO YOU WANT TO BE!!!!

IT IS SO EASY. Take it from me, a person who doubted everything. BUT NOW MY LIFE IS PERFECT. I DID THE WORK. I PERSISTED AND NOW I HAVE EVERYTHING I WANT AND EVEN MORE!!!! IT IS EASY AND SIMPLE. YOU ONLY HAVE TO CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS!!!

THE INNER MAN WILL BE REFLECTED ONTO THE OUTER WORLD IN NO TIME!!!

when you become “delusional”, you will realize the only real delusion was thinking things weren’t possible.

Seeking Within

Seeking Within

Caring deeply about what your current outerworld looks like, or going to meditate with the sole purpose of changing your outerworld is the beginning of failure.

Every single person who has ever manifested something in Neville's books and here on this sub, had to deal with the outerworld not conforming to what they wanted.

So, take comfort that you are not special. Your situation is not some special one that cannot be overcome. I am not saying your situation is easy, but I am saying it has similar characteristics as everyone else's.

Every person who succeed here and in Neville's time, had to wake up and physically see their undesirable outerworld. You are not special, we all have to.

If we see this undesirable outerworld, and we want to change it, how do we do it? If you are going into your mediation sessions or as Neville would say, "Communion with God," are you going into them with the intent to change your outerworld? It seems tempting to do so, but this is the wrong attitude.

Are you going into these sessions with the feeling of lack and leaving with abundance or are you getting frustrated because you see no change in your outerworld after the sessions?

Go into these sessions with the sole purpose of changing your feeling. When man changes his feeling, he is changing his consciousness and by changing his consciousnesses he changes his outerworld. Self-change = outer change.

So, as Neville says, once he receives that feeling, he feels successful. Every time Neville did his technique, it was to change how he felt, from wanting to having.

So, stop caring deeply about what your outerworld is showing, and start caring deeply about what you feel to be true within. Go into your sessions or communions with the purpose to change your feeling and when you do, feel successful. Doing this often will result in you no longer seeking your outerworld for the feeling, and when you do this, when you least expect it, that feeling you felt in your session, is expressed.

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hey heraa, i would REALLYYY appreciate if you helped me out on this one question that has been killing me rn (it’s in bold on the bottom just incase u want to skip the tangent)

honestly, if i succeed in fulfilling myself that you replied, it'll raise my faith a little bit when/if I see that you replied.

I've been on this journey for the longest time I'm talking divineangelbee, planet, cine, bibi, dreamgrlsworld, daphne, the void obsession, the alpha waves, the mindless or just feeling while affirming, the self and void concept challenges for 2 weeks, and now applying states after edward art and neville and having things click with aphroditeapprentice and blushydior etc ; applying for months. But guess what idk what is happening and what's holding me back!

i know that if i was in the state, I obviously wouldn't be sending this message but since it doesn't matter what I do in the 3D and my human self wants to ask for help, I will ask for guidance.

I've even fulfilling myself, returning to the wish fulfilled whenever I think of my desire, I prioritize the inner man over getting physical results but you know, if someone was doing it right, it would reflected by now right? of course it would because it's the law.

I don't why it hasn't done so yet and l'm slowly and at the same time very quickly losing my faith because it's been like what, 2/3 years since I found out about the law from tumblr? I KNOW I'm meant to be living my dream life in a little cottage in Europe or big mansion in LA, I KNOW I was meant to succeed and live a life of my dreams because I deal with hard things in my life, I AM! MEANT TO SUCCEED. but what am I doing wrong if it's been months of fulfilling myself that it should've been my dominant state already? I feel good and every time I doubt, I know and tell myself that I ALREADY experience my desire in imagination and it HAS to reflect?

thank you, if you answer this I really would appreciate it :)

I'm going to try my best to answer this without further confusing you so sit tight and in the case that I do bring forward any confusion, do let me know.

In a nutshell, the point of manifesting (or moreso the purpose of life itself) is to appease hunger. That is, to free yourself from the feeling of desire (wanting something) by giving it to yourself whether it's money, the mansion, the dream life, appearance, I could go on and on because whatever you want to acquire is possible of being acquired (because imagination is limitless). If you know the law, you know imagination creates reality so imagination will always be your workshop and that is essentially how you change self (I AM).

Imagination isn't separate from reality because imagination is reality itself. Man's greatest downfall has been to separate the two as completely independent when that could not be further from the truth. When you turn to imagination and you use it to think about what it would feel like to have the face card and the mansion and the dream life, you are present in that moment to the point where it feels like a real experience. If you allow yourself to bask in the feeling of the wish fulfilled, it's as real of an experience as you reading this very post. Neville has previously discussed procuring the wish fulfilled in a way as if you are traveling through time to the end and witnessing the outcome firsthand, then you make your way back to the present and trust that it will unfold as you experienced. It's like when you watch a film you've previously watched and you already know what the ending is, you don't stop to think what could happen, you already know what will because you saw it yourself.

If time is a relevant concern for you and you're looking around to see if it's there, I'm afraid to say you haven't fully yielded to it. You simply thought of it and not from it. If you experienced it and knew that it was done, you would be appeased from hunger and you wouldn't desire it anymore. How could you want something you already have? Time is an obstacle that is standing in between you and the state of consciousness that asserts you as being someone who has the desire in question already in their possession. When you nail yourself to that state and I mean you fully yield yourself to it to the point where you don't feel separate from it anymore, the feeling of desire will vanish. You don't care about time, you don't care about the senses, nothing moves you. Why would it if you know it's yours? (Hint: this is the Sabbath)

I constantly receive so, so many "I did all of this, why hasn't it happened?" questions and I believe you when you say you really gave it your entire heart, but you should sit and ask yourself genuinely if you actually focused more on the thing itself versus quenching the desire you have for it.

I'm here once again to swear by the State Akin To Sleep and why I love it so much. I won't repeat the process since I went into it quite extensively so I highly suggest you read the post.

“Whatsoever you desire, when you pray, believe that you have received it, and you will.”

When I started understanding the SATS through the idea of it as "praying", it made so much more sense to me. You're not visualizing to get, you're visualizing to feel its reality so desire vanishes. If you use imagination to feel its reality (believe that you have received it), the 3D will follow and it shall materialize. This is one of the reasons why I love the state akin to sleep so much. It's such a simple and easy way to define the end and identify yourself with it.

When I use the SATS, I let myself sit with the wish fulfilled by thinking of what the end would look like, what would I hear, who would I be with, what would I see, etc. and I focus on it until I'm consumed by the feeling and acceptance of it and then bring myself back. I trust that my prayer has been answered because I felt the reality of it, so that must mean it's already mine. If for some reason I would feel doubtful or separate from that state of consciousness, I would simply induce the state again and focus on its reality. Do this as many times as you need to until you no longer feel compelled to because you're certain that your prayer has been heard (See: the Sabbath).

I highly encourage you to assess how you're going about manifesting and to use the State Akin To Sleep to catch the mood so you can nail yourself to it. You said it best yourself, you were meant to succeed and live the life of your dreams. Remember that failure is only an option if you let it be one. Don't give up, my love <3

yes, it is happening. yes, it is the law. yes, it has to happen. yes, you are doing everything right. yes, you did everything right. yes, you did it. yes, you manifested it. yes, it is real. yes, it is here. yes, you are god.