“Physical attraction is nice and fun; but have you ever been attracted to someone’s soul?”
— Hira
“We cannot change anything until we accept it. Condemnation does not liberate, it oppresses.”
— Carl Jung
I actually pay attention to the weirdest things in terms of nice gestures for example filling someone’s cup when you fill yours, walking alongside of them or pausing every now and then for them to catch up with you, showing them what you know now if it’s something they’ll need to know tomorrow, being gentle because you know they need it, CONSIDERING THE INCOMING DESIRES OF THE ONE YOU LOVE, you don’t need telepathy you literally just need to notice
Your state of mind is the most important aspect of living. Never forget that.
no other person on this planet was made for you, they were made for themselves. love is all about choices. no one is going to be perfect for you, and i think we need to stop raising everyone on the belief that someone out there, just one other person in the whole world, was “made for you” because it isn’t true. no one is made for you, besides you. other people belong to themselves. if you want to make it work with someone, it’s about hard work, understanding, compassion, communication, and choice
feeling safe with someone is so important to me
really do wish everyone finds peace within themselves
i hope the people you meet have the same heart as you. i hope they treat you like they should.
“If you love a person, you accept the total person. With all the defects. Because those defects are a part of the person. Never try to change a person you love, because the very effort to change says that you love half, and the other half of the person is not accepted. When you love, you simply love.”
— Osho
having self worth makes you unstoppable, you no longer care for people’s thoughts, you no longer seek validation from the wrong people, you are free. you are free to be whomever you want to be.