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Journaling Ideas!!

— the 2025 princess guide:

it's so fascinating how sometimes as a reader i channel the most random things and i almost don't include them in the readings because i think it has nothing to do with it but then someone comes out with the most crazy explanations for it and it turns out it was confirmation for someone.

you don't have to answer if you don't want to, but do you ever get tired of people only asking for romantic/sexual readings?

Not really haha. I do like to explore other things, but it's like when you love chocolate and have never got bored of it and once in a blue moon you decide to eat a hard candy, just because.

Topics that focus on the self are natural to me

Planning, self-introspection, determining the factors that influence my behavior, understanding individual's psychology, how best to study, problem solving, how to improve communication, life purpose, etc. I can do those without tarot. People can talk about random things in front of me and I can guess their insecurities. Oh, you have problems with executing your ideas? Check your time management, discipline, task breakdown, workload and limiting beliefs.

The solutions to these problems often need to be practical instead of just a pep talk to be effective. If someone wanted to ask for advice about how to choose between two paths, I would prefer to help them analyze their options logically instead, without using tarot; it would take less energy from me (thus enjoyable) and it would be more effective for them.

You can be detailed and practical with tarot about these topics if you try hard enough, but 'sitting with the person, confirming every relevant fact about their problem and constructing an action plan for them' will be a lot more effective and certain. I don't want to be spending extra energy decoding the cards when I know at the end of the day, it's not necessarily more effective than therapy worksheets, life tips and career guides you can find online.

It's not natural for me to see interpersonal dynamics

I was the kid who felt surprised when I found out two 'friends' hated each other because they seemed like they got along? I can see how Person A's personality can influence their decision in X situation, but it's harder for me to immediately see how Person A's decision will be influenced by Person B's personality in X situation. It's the shit I normally, in my day-to-day life, forget to consider.

Thus in this case, tarot is necessary and effective, because it helps me understand and get familiar with interpersonal dynamics (an interaction of variables such as personalities, status, power, etc and how they all feel) since I'm not natural at recognizing them in person. I can now see the power dynamic in a social group, I can now see how compliments I receive from authorities can influence my peers and their behaviors towards me, I can now see the differences between the influence water signs have on fire influenced people VS earth influenced people. I couldn't do this before.

TLDR:

I'm usually fine with those topics because they fit my goals. I like seeing interactions between different intrapersonal and interpersonal variables and see what can come out of those. It's intellectually interesting to note the similarities and the differences in each case, to recognize how they feel energetically and emotionally, so that I can improve how fast and how accurate I can spot them in real life, even without tarot.

I like all relationship readings, but people tend to like love readings, which are also fine because it's still the same thing and also lighter, which fits my fatigue.

King and queen of swords are strong as fuck because imagine going through that whole entire suit

How to make someone feel loved <3

Write them a cute letter.

Carefully listen to what they are saying and ask genuine questions.

Wait for them if you notice them falling behind.

Ask them how their day was. <3

Show them your favourite songs, films, and books.

“I miss you”, “I love you, “I’m thinking about you”.

Bake them something. Like the heart jam cookies from Pinterest (should I post the recipe??)

Make them a playlist. :)

If they get interrupted, ask what they were going to say.

Remember their favourite coffee/drink order.

Offer them encouragement and support.

Surprise them with a small gift, something that made you think of them.

Buy them flowers.

Send them links to stuff that you think they might like.

Let them know how grateful you are to have them in your life. <3

As always, Please feel free to add more suggestions and tips in the comments!

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩