As promised in the comments of the binder master list, I'm now compiling a more all-encompassing free resource public spreadsheet! So far I've got resources for binders, packers, STP devices, gaffs/tucking underwear, gender-affirming clothing, some DIY gender-affirming gear, and some resources on how to clean that gear and how to clean up makeup spills. I'll try to keep expanding things, and feel free to request a type of resource or a specific location in the comments or in an ask! (I can't promise I'll be able to find anything, but I'll do my best! <3)
The spreadsheet is called "Study sheet" to make it more inconspicuous in case someone you'd rather didn't catches a glimpse of the title. Do please note that once you're on the spreadsheet it is very obvious what the content is, so only view it when it's safe for you to do so! <3
Some links to videos on how to conceal and delete your history for those who need it (blue text indicates a link)
How to Clear your Youtube watch history (kinda loud at the start and actual info starts at about 1:33
How to Remove Shared Files from Google Drive
how to activate incognito mode on an Iphone , on an Android phone and on chrome on a computer.
And How to delete your Google activity history
Remember to delete your Youtube history after watching!
*Edit* I've added a new section for miscellaneous resource requests to serve as a semi-temporary place for more niche topics that I get resource requests for. If I get more requests for them or find more resources related to the topic I'll make a new separate section for them, but otherwise they can just stay there.
Remember: y'all can comment, tag, or if you want/need it to be more discreet you can send me an anonymous ask. I may not be able to find what you want, but I won't judge you <3
This is pretty neat
(Reblog and get people to submit a number, then answer the corresponding question.)
What is your aro-spec label?
Where do you fit in the aro community (ex, alloaro / aroace / nonSAM aro / etc)?
Do you consider yourself lgbt+?
Are you out as aro?
How did you figure out you are aro?
What is your favourite part about being aromantic?
What is your least favourite part about being aromantic?
Do you associate anything with being ‘aromantic culture’?
What is your favourite aro-spec identity flag?
How long have you known you are aro?
What is one thing you wish people knew about being aro-spec?
Do you have any friends, acquaintances or other people you know that are aro-spec?
What do you wish you could tell your younger self related to being aro-spec?
Do you have any other attraction labels (ex, sexual orientation / platonic orientation / etc)?
What advice do you have for other aro-spec people (or those questioning being aro-spec)?
What are your views on romance? Could include if you are romance repulsed / favourable / etc?
Do you have any aro related labels that don’t fit into the other groups (like loveless / lovequeer / amatopunk / etc)?
Do you have any aro-spec headcanons?
Is there a song that is very aromantic to you?
What kind of relationships are you interested in, if any?
Green curvy bug
i’d name him Squant btw. if u even care
Most of you know I am a transsexual. I do not hide it and I have never tried to.
I am also a college student. Like many Americans, I cannot really afford to be there. Many trans people like me cannot afford higher education either.
Transgender people don’t have the same kind of opportunities that cisgender people do. Either you live a lie and torture yourself because you know your family will forsake you if you say anything, you tell them everything and are kicked out, or you are lucky enough to get a neutral to positive response. Yes, neutral is lucky.
The trans folks that say nothing and live in agony being unsupported and trapped can maybe go to college but know that if they say anything their tuition might be out the door, that their parents or family or guardians will throw them to the wolves. So they either suffer in silence or end up committing suicide.
The trans folks that came out and were kicked out have basically no chance at ever going to college. You might be able to get government and private loans, but you’ll be drowning in debt by the end of it all. Debt you may never be able to pay off alone.
The remaining lucky ones most likely still come from low to middle income families that can’t really afford college anyways. It is a borderline no-win scenario.
How is this fair? Can’t everybody see this is cruel? This is a struggle faced by all queer people, but is intensified by the trans label. We are easy targets.
I was once talking to a girl who was also queer, but not trans. I said, “Rae, in my state, it is illegal for me to use a public restroom. It is illegal for public institutions to give me my life saving medication. I have almost no rights. We are witnessing a modern-day segregation.” I live in Florida.
She turned to me and said, “You know it’s hard for me too. There are like, no gay bars in my city. No fun ones anyway.”
I felt like I had been slapped. I never really talked to her again.
Of course, all queer people face oppression, but for her to dismiss the violent and dangerous actions that are being taken against my people in favor of her own problems highlights a deeper issue with the attitude towards trans people.
We are an afterthought.
We are different.
Other people are so far removed from the plight of trans people that they do not recognize how privileged they are by comparison and damn it I refuse to be an afterthought for much longer.
I do not want to live in quiet, secret moments anymore. I do not want to be in the shadows and behind closed doors. I want to feel comfortable out in the open. I shouldn’t have to hide. Let me wear what I want and be what I am. Let me hold my boyfriend’s hand in public. Let me be able to take off my binder or just not wear it at all. Let my people have healthcare and basic human decency. Let us get an education and let us use the goddamn bathroom. Let us. Let us. Let us.
Howdy y’all, It’s been awhile since I’ve updated my gofundme or talked about it for a myriad of reasons but finally found the time and spoons to sit down and do it. I hate to post it at all but I could still very much use any support I can get, and wanted to give my thanks for all of the attention and support I’ve gotten up to this point. Any interaction on this post is super appreciated, thank y’all so much.
Please reblog for sample size, even if you’re not autistic.
hi, if you'll do me a little favor and spread my little survey around i'd be grateful. i'm interviewing trans women on how they feel about dressing, as i want my final project at school, a five-look runway collection to be released next year, to be considerate of transfeminine bodies. so i'd appreciate your response! (i can release the responses at the end if y'all are curious.) and if you're not a trans woman, please do reblog this to help it spread round to someone who is. ^_^
Intersex people and the bodies they inhabit are WORTHY
They are AMAZING
They are BEAUTIFUL
Intersex is holy. Intersex is awe-inspiring. Intersex is worthy. Intersex is worthy. Intersex is worthy.
It would mean so much to us if you could please share this post. Dan is one of the kindest and most beautiful people I've ever met. They started T in 2019 but they haven't been able to get top surgery yet as it is so very expensive. Please help if you can, any amount would be sincerely appreciated.
Same.
This blog is a safe space for:
LGBTQ+ people
People on the spectrum
Systems
Trans people
Nonbinary people
People who use neopronouns
People who support the people mentioned above
And more besides
Why am I saying this? Because people don't say it enough. People tend to have a tough time knowing you're a safe space unless you explicitly say so and back that up with your actions.
hey gang i’m nat :(
i’m a black transfemme who has gotten covid and is burning through their savings fast in quarantine, i need maybe 150$ to get groceries and pay some utility bills for the time I can’t work
i have a really understanding boss which I’m grateful for but anything would very help
my cashapp is $heartyamala
i also have an amazon wishlist if you want to help get me some warmer clothing + vitamins
thank you so much please rt if you can’t donate, any amount helps.