so um we desperately we need $28 for food & $44 for my brothers insulin which he is out of and that he MUST take to stay out of an er? urgent as we need help for this and im not sure what to do. have no money after paying the overdraft fee with help from yall, paying my grandma, have no car, can’t get to food bank or store. the kids are hungry and i just have no idea what to do. a dollar or a penny is a big help or reblogging. send me hate, ill block you.
Let's see... writing my name sometimes brings on massive waves of gender euphoria. It's great
things are so dark for trans folks right now, and i hate waking up every day to see nothing but fear and depression in our comunity. id like it if you could flood my ask box or even reblog this with the last bit of gender euphoria you had, no matter how big or small.
If a transgender person asks you to deadname and misgender them in front of certain people. Misgender them and deadname them in front of those people. It doesn't matter how icky or gross it may feel, it doesn't matter you'd rather be honest. It doesn't matter if there's more of you there. Certain people aren't safe, and honesty IS NOT the best policy when honesty could put them at serious risk. It doesn't matter if there's a crowd, because when there isn't shit goes down.
Be an ally, do what they ask. Understand that the trans person knows more about their situation than you do, and this includes who's safe and who's not. Some one can be "trans friendly" to other people, but not to people they know or specific people. Do as the trans person asks, yes it's uncomfortable, but it's 10 times worse if the person we don't trust finds out. 100 times worse if they have access to us when you're not around.
Respect trans peoples safety. Misgender and deadname when asked.
hello luv, can I get a rblog from you please? ty
Best of luck
hello :)) this is so freaking stupid but I just want to ask for some h3lp spreading my post. this is so shitty but I hope that you dont mind me asking? happy holidays & thank u! #abortion
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I wish you luck.
Idk what trans man needs to hear this but you're NOT evil or disgusting for being a man. You do NOT have to suffer for the sins of the patriarchy committed by cis dudes. Being a man doesn't invalidate the misogyny you experienced growing up or experience now. Being a man doesn't mean you deserve to be isolated. Being a man doesn't mean you're inherently predatory or scary. You didn't "choose" this, and finding your true self is NOT "betraying the community" because you happen to be a man and/or masculine rather than a woman and/or feminine. You ARE allowed to be upset when people "affirm" your gender by malgendering you.
You DO deserve a community that uplifts you. You DO deserve to experience trans joy. You DO deserve to have your voices heard and your struggles recognized. Wanting the bare minimum of solidarity is NOT "making everything about trans men".
we don't have enough money in our account to even pay the fucking bailiffs off right now let alone heat the flat.
it's my birthday on the 4th and i just want to spend it not stressed out and cold. if you have anything to spare, it'd be greatly appreciated.
A couple of collages from my Stardew journal for all the Haley enjoyers out there (apologies in advance for the photo quality)
reblog to scare the aphobes