PSA That's It's Not Just Okay For You To Not Forgive The People That Hurt You. It Is Actively A Deeply

PSA that's it's not just okay for you to not forgive the people that hurt you. It is actively a deeply fucked up thing for anyone to expect or advocate that you forgive someone that hurt you deeply. The choice whether or not to do so has no business being raised or influenced by anyone but you, and it has fuck all to do with healing and moving on. Not saying hold on to every grudge and resentment ever, but you also don't have to forgive them to simply not let it affect your future.

Fuck. Forgiveness. And fuck the culture of unthinking cruelty that insists on it, even when the people in question are still actively being impacted and abused. Prioritizing an end to discord over the tending of the wounded is unforgivably malevolent.

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1 year ago

I´ve lately seen many young peeps in fandom spaces, worrying about openly shipping their ships because of what antis might do

so let me tell you something:

antis are huge losers who are gonna find something to hate you for no matter what you do

even if you ship EXACTLY what they ship, theyre gonna yell at you for "not shipping it right"

so, my piece of advice: just do whatever you want and tear up the house! antis are gonna hate no matter what, so ignore them and find some good companions by being yourself

1 year ago

You can always tell when an author is trying to "deconstruct" something that they think is stupid or boring or otherwise beneath them because they're unwilling or unable to develop the necessary understanding of the source material to properly rip into it and the end result invariably fucking sucks. You need to love a genre in order to truly do it violence.

1 year ago
It’s Hard To Go Alone. Take Your Bhaalspawn. Even Of They Have A Falling Out With Their Family And
It’s Hard To Go Alone. Take Your Bhaalspawn. Even Of They Have A Falling Out With Their Family And

It’s hard to go alone. Take your Bhaalspawn. Even of they have a falling out with their family and are extremely bad at what they’re doing.

1 year ago

"let people be wrong about you" is such good advice that i am unfortunately physically incapable of following. if i am incorrectly perceived by anyone i will simply start ripping things with my teeth


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1 year ago
Tav And Astarion Don't Have Place To Return After Their Bizzare Adventure And Gale Is More Than Happy
Tav And Astarion Don't Have Place To Return After Their Bizzare Adventure And Gale Is More Than Happy

Tav and Astarion don't have place to return after their bizzare adventure and Gale is more than happy and lonely to help them.

Of course he still has Tara ♡

PART 2

1 year ago

Reblog if you think public libraries are important and should be maintained.


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1 year ago

I can't be the only one surprised how casually you're just. Here. Mind talking about what it was like to like. Join Tumblr?

It was 13 or 14 years ago. From what I remember you just shouldered aside the mastodons, went into the Tumblr cave and carved your mark on the wall, telling people you were now signed up for tumblr, and then they would haul memes on animal hides past you. Back then it was mostly cats doing amusing things, obviously, but we would watch them by the flickering firelight, and chortle to ourselves hopefully before leaving the cave and trudging back to our lives.

1 year ago
A Little Self-indulgent Comic :>
A Little Self-indulgent Comic :>

a little self-indulgent comic :>


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1 year ago
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