fun fact of the day: anyone who tells you that "femme" and "butch" can only be used by lesbians took the terf pills- white cis lesbian separationists (terfs) are the ones behind the idea that only lesbians can use butch and femme when many lesbians of color have their own terms for masc and fem lesbians. this is also an effort to erase the history the terms butch and femme have had in including trans and gnc people, drag performers, bears, masc and fem gays into their preferred gender expression and community spaces. it's a historically inaccurate argument. have a good day!
i'm not really a hater so much as a disliker. occasionally the fires of hate burn within me but mostly i just encounter things and go hm. don't like that.
yeah sorry for the rain today i downloaded a new weather app it's pretty bad
Loveless, as in, am I doing this right? Am I feeling Love correctly? Am I performing Love correctly? Am I supposed to be thinking of it as a performance at all? No. <2
Lovecore, as in, my heart is still beating, and doesn't that count? I saw a thunderstorm so life-affirming, I cried. Doesn't that count? Yes. <3
Aromantic, as in I will walk this Earth alone. I will walk this Earth beside those I love. I will walk this Earth. Everything looks blue from far away, but from up close? It's all green.
when the capitalists die out either thru global warming or revolution will we be able to start homegrown internet
No but seriously as I’ve gotten older I realize more and more that although white gays do face certain levels of oppression they are still white people.....like does that make sense?
The keyboard does look tasty tho
How to tell a raven from a crow. Made with corvid researcher Dr. Kaeli Swift for her blog post on the subject!
Actually, I love coming into contact with cis people who have said trans people have taught them how to love who they are, and what their gender means to them. It's so heartwarming.
I love talking to cis men who say that trans men have taught them what being a man truly entails, that manhood isn't a predestined book written by the gods. That has taught me how to love being a man and, honestly, just seeing positive manhood being shared and celebrated has brought me closer to cis men I thought wouldn't ever accept me. It's taught me the opposite is often true.
Every url that reblog’s will be written in a book and shown to my homophobic dad.