Even if an asexual does find sex to be gross that still doesn't give you the right to infantalize them.
THANK YOU TILLI FOR THE TRANSLATIONS BELOW❤❤❤
You're finally home. It was almost the last train, so it was very late. You’re welcome, and thanks for hanging out with me too! Yeah, good night. See you tomorrow. Sorry. Still, wait. I just want to be around you a little longer. I guess not? I’ve been with you all today and I like you even more than before. I was kind of sad to leave you like this. Hah, what happened? Your face is red. Are you nervous because I pulled you close? Hah, I don't tease you. I’m serious. Can I kiss you? Don’t look so embarrassed. Don't worry. It’s just a light kiss on the cheek. It’s okay? Thank you. Then close your eyes. *kiss (on the lips I guess)* Are you surprised? I really meant to do a light kiss on the cheek, but you looked so defenseless that I ended up taking it from you. I’m not afraid at all when you get angry with red-face like that. Besides, it must have felt good to you too. Ah, wait, it hurts! I get it, I’m not going to do anything else! You’re really cute for getting upset over something like this. However, it is impossible for me to do nothing in this a situation. Hey, can I ask you for a favor? Can you stay with me until morning like this? I guess not?
What happened? Can’t sleep? Then, come here! Hah, that’s okay. I’m going to hold you forever until you fall asleep. You will probably fall asleep soon. No need to apologize. This way I feel safe too. Am I kind? Of course, you are my precious wife. How can you not be special to me? Don’t tell me things like this out of nowhere. U- ugh- c-cute? It doesn’t make me happy when you say things like that. The word “cute” is not something you say to a man. Besides you’re kinder and... cuter. Don’t surprise me "I love you so much" out of the blue! Oh, don't be sad, I'm not "unhappy"! Because I love you too, now when you mention it, I was very happy. Sorry. After all, today I can’t stay gentle. If you don’t understand, I’ll show you. The thing like this. *kiss* You finally understand. Hey, listen up. About you... Like this... Oh, why do you run away? You were the one who invited me. It's okay for me to not be kind sometimes, right? All you have to do is be obedient and listen to me. Okay?
Time flies really fast with you, it’s already this late. Hey, it’s about time... Eh, "I want to be with you some more?". Yes, I agree, but I’ll leave you now today. I want to stay with you too, but I don’t think we can stay like this forever. And being together shouldn’t be the only way to be lovers. We have each other even though we are far apart. Don’t think that’s too bad. Oh, oh, don’t look so lonely. Me too. Honestly I feel the same way you do. I always want to feel you close to me and see your smile. But I don’t want to be in a relationship where we’re ruining each other’s lives. We’re going to be together for a long time to come. A relationship where we can grow together is desirable anyway. Yes? Right? So, we have to say goodbye now. But a little more, come to me and let me hold you. It’s not like we’re saying goodbye forever. Even though I know we’ll see each other again soon. I wonder why it is so hard to say goodbye. I know the answer. Maybe because I like you too much. Love you. *kiss* I’m going to be thinking about you all the time until the next time I see you. I think it's good that I’m not the only one who thinks so. I’m glad you think about me a little too. So, see you again! Let me see your smile. Because I'll think about you all the time. Good night. See you tomorrow.
In this post, I will discus the following terms: AroAce, Angled AroAce, Oriented AroAce, AroAceFlux, and AroAceSpike.
Let's start with AroAce.
A person who identifies as AroAce experiences little to no romantic or sexual attraction. They don't look at someone and go, "Oh, they're cute. I wonder if they're seeing someone. And if not, I wonder if they'd like to go out with me." They don't look at someone and go, "Oh, they're hot. I wonder if they're down for Netflix and chill." They may, on the other hand, get to know someone and go, "Oh, they're such a cool person, and they share many of my interests. I wonder if they'd like to be my best friend for all eternity."
Now, let's move on to Angled AroAce.
An Angled AroAce experiences some romantic and sexual attraction, but this attraction falls solidly within both the aromantic and asexual spectrums. The romantic or sexual attraction they experience may feel nebulous and complicated. "Oh, that person's good looking. Would I want to ask them out on a date? Maybe not." In addition to experiencing some romantic and sexual attraction, they may also experience tertiary attraction, such as platonic, emotional (alterous), physical (sensual), and/or aesthetic.
Next, let's look at Oriented AroAce.
Oriented AroAces experience little to no romantic or sexual attraction, but they do experience a strong tertiary attraction. Many who identify as oriented AroAce will also identify with another orientation label, but they only identify with this label in a nonromantic and nonsexual way. For example, a lesbian oriented AroAce may look at an attractive woman and go, "Oh, that woman's hot. But not in a sexual way. Most definitely in an aesthetic way."
On to AroAceFlux.
Note: I don't know if this is the correct flag.
AroAceFlux individuals experience a flux between their romantic and sexual orientations, but it always stays on the aro and ace spectrum. The flux can occur simultaneously or independently of each other. One day, you could experience no romantic and sexual attraction; and the next day, you could experience some romantic and no sexual attraction; and the day after that, you could experience no romantic and some sexual attraction. As the name implies, attraction is always in constant flux and motion. You may see someone and go, "Damn, I wonder if that person's single." You may see that same person at a different time and go, "They have nice eyes, I guess."
Lastly, let's look at AroAceSpike.
Note: I don't know if this is the correct flag.
AroAceSpike individuals generally don't feel any romantic or sexual attraction, but they will occasionally feel a strong romantic or sexual attraction for a brief moment of time. Some will use only this term to describe their sexual orientation while others will use an additional orientation label. They'll use this additional label to describe the type of romantic or sexual attraction they periodically feel. For example, a biromantic AroAceSpike individual will periodically feel romantic attraction towards the opposite and same gender as themselves; whereas, a homosexual AroAceSpike individual will periodically feel sexual attraction towards the same gender as themselves. They may see someone and go, "Oh, they're so pretty. I could just drown in their eyes." A brief moment later, they look at this same person and go, "Oh, never mind. Whatever I felt for them before has gone."
I would like to close this post by saying that I fall solidly under the AroAce term. Never in my life have I experienced sexual or romantic attraction. I have experienced emotional and aesthetic attraction but not necessarily in regards to people. I react to a beautiful painting the same way that I react to someone who has very beautiful eyes. "Ah, that's pretty." And after that brief thought, I simply get on with the rest of my day. As a result, I may not have given the best descriptions or examples of Angled AroAce, Oriented AroAce, AroAceFlux, or AroAceSpike.
If you are AroAce and disagree with any of my definitions or would like to share your own AroAce experiences, please leave a comment in the notes. I just love connecting with all my fellow AroAces out there in the digital realm.
And if you're not AroAce, I'd still like to hear from you. Especially the other folks on the aro and ace spectrum. ❤️
Well, that's all I have for today. Until next time, take care and stay curious.
lmao god my friend described this as ‘dad, mum, the son, and the son’s awkward boyfriend’
❥ Twisted Wonderland Dormitory Songs
Why do my friends keep coming to me for relationship advice, literally all you will get from me is either "communicate", "break up", or "leave him in a ditch to die"
I had the reflection not long ago of why I was uncomfortable at school (regardless of grade level) apart from stress because of the oral to pass and being an introverted person :
Being aroace and have to stay stuck a whole damn day surrounded by allos pp horny asf and who will not understand me, who tell me about their s€x life (at what point do you think it’s fckin normal to talk about it as if it was a banal and interesting subject ?? Wtf ???💀) without taking into account whether it made me uncomfortable or not (I think they didn’t give a shit because it didn’t come to their mind, those dumbass...).
Being surrounded by queer pp but none of them had defended me when I had received acephobia from a straight guy one day and only watched the scene without saying anything. The fact that most of them with whom I hung out invisibilized or even forgot my aromantism by remembering only my asexuality (bitches I'm aroace dammit. I’m both. Not one or the other !) and couldn't remember or didn't know the definition of being aro or ace.
But the worst I would say is that by dint of receiving arophobia and acephobia in about twenty years in the face, as an angry person by nature and who doesn't appreciate disrespectful pp etc, I became allophobe...
But let’s be clear : I don’t hate all allos pp ! Even if I speak in general, be aware that : generality =/= globality !
I know that some of them are decent, respectful and open-minded and these are the pp I appreciate ! Unfortunately, I have never met someone like that before. Maybe one day...
So to return to the subject :
Am I the only aroace person to be uncomfortable at school ??
It's a bit rough sorry and sorty again if my english is bad, it's not my native language but I hope you will understand the essential !
IS ANYONE TAKING REQUESTS TO WRITE AKASHI x READER x NASH IN A POLYROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP ????
HEADCANON, FICS, ONE SHOT ??
SMUT AND FLUFF PLEASE ???
I use c.ai and chai x OC but it's not enough...!! 😭💔
I just wanna read something lovely, cute and sexy on them... 🥺💞
And writing good fics is not my strong point and I currently don't have the energy to draw them... (plus I have to learn Fujimaki's art style first... bc yeah I don't have a particular one, I’m a copycat...)
YANA TOBOSO I LOVE U, THANK U SM FOR CREATING TWISTED WONDERLAND AND THESE CHARACTERS !!!
I LOVE MY POOKIES, THEY'RE LOVELY !! 🥺💞💞
Everyone in this game has trauma or personal struggles and it's NOT a competition of who has it worse. Honestly, sometimes I wish everyone's traumas were discussed more in depth in the game like we get with each person who Overblots, but we don't have time for it. With the Overblot boys, their trauma is shoved directly into the spotlight and we hear exactly how their situations make them feel. But the rest of the cast, ALL of them, have personal struggles and/or trauma. This is just a small list of some of the issues each non Overblot student has.
Ace masks the fear he feels in a lot of situations, and he's got an inferiority complex on some level. Notice how he bullied the player and Grim in our first interaction? That is a sign of someone who is looking to feel better by pushing someone else down because they don't feel good about themselves.
Deuce grew up with a single mother who had to work multiple jobs to make ends meet, which causes him to worry about her, and he was a delinquent in middle school, which made his mom, the one person he worries over, cry. He lives with those regrets, but he's still got those old habits and he agonizes over the fact he's not academically where he'd like to be and his behavior regresses when in heated situations.
Trey has severe trauma at being screamed at for FIVE HOURS over giving Riddle ONE slice of tart, so much that his vitals are severely affected at the thought of Mrs. Rosehearts and he's heavily conflict avoidant.
Cater has had to move all the time and as a defense mechanism, refuses to be honest or get close to people because he doesn't want to get attached only to be ripped away from them.
Ruggie lives in EXTREME poverty when not at school. He struggles to make ends meet and he has to work so hard in a system that is DESIGNED to keep him in poverty, because many beastmen still prefer segregation in the Sunset Savannah.
Jack has one of the healthier mindsets, but he still struggles with being open and honest about his feelings, which makes it hard to have friends, and he struggled with watching Leona, someone he's idolized, fall short of what he believed of Leona.
Jade and Floyd are implied to have grown up in some form of crime family and both seem to have handled the fact their lives could be in constant danger differently. Both like things being interesting, but Jade seems to prefer seclusion and control, while Floyd enjoys scaring people off and having as much fun as he can before he goes.
Kalim is someone who has had multiple assassination attempts on his life, even from his own family. He masks behind a smile, but he's afraid to trust people, and when he DOES TRY to talk about it, it gets brushed off because he has money. Also, he has to deal with the fact Jamil has been undermining his ability to progress by not treating him as if he's capable at all.
Epel has been teased and bullied on how he looked to the point where he started instigating fights to ensure he wouldn't be teased. He also has to fall in line with what Vil wants because he made the error of picking a fight with Vil and getting his butt HANDED to him. To further add, Vil is NOT NICE about it when Epel resists, with one example being Vil grabbing him by the ear and pulling hard as a form of punishment.
Rook has deal with the fact that for being someone who is super perceptive and can notice details, he didn't realize Vil's feelings around Neige, likely because he was blinded by his own admiration for both of them and that's a bitter pill to swallow.
Ortho has to deal with being basically created as a replacement for dead Ortho Shroud, trying to figure out if he's just really a robot made by Idia with really good AI or more than that, and dealing with the fact he loves his brother so much, but his brother doesn't take care of himself and it's disheartening to watch Idia's self-destruction.
Lilia has so much war trauma, losing his loved ones, having been exiled, and so much other crap. Even so, he forced himself to put the war and his trauma about it in the past, where it belonged for the sake of his two sons who both lost so much to war, which is something Baur/Baul could NOT do which was to Sebek's detriment.
Silver has had to live with the idea that his adoptive father would likely outlive him, then is faced with the fact that his father is basically abandoning everything about their life in Briar Valley before he learns that his biological parents were the enemies of the person he serves and cares about, Malleus, and the only father he's ever known.
Sebek has grown up with internalized racism/speciesism against humans thanks to his upbringing and he basically rejects half of his heritage with how he treats his father. He does not even realize how hurtful his comments are until he's faced with those remarks being directed at him by a younger version of his grandfather.
And this isn't everything each student has to face. This is just broad strokes. Yana Toboso wrote a story about flawed people who all have gone through really hard and difficult things because that's the point. As Toboso said in a 2023 interview:
“Happy endings in Disney works come from righteous actions and love, but I believe that the villains are characters who do not get saved during the story. That is why, through this game, I want to portray the message that even if you get beat up all the way to a bad ending, you can grow from it and live your life without feeling discouraged.
Acting lame, obstinate, without hesitation, being open and honest—it’s not as bad as it sounds.
I would like to paint a positive picture of living honestly with yourself and not worrying about others.
In today’s society there are so many people who live in fear of failure and are always walking on eggshells, but nobody’s flawless. It is exhausting to try to live your life so that no one will hate you.”
Everyone, even people you don't know or do not like, have gone through things that shaped who they are. Sometimes, how we've adapted to handle the bad things that happen will force us to hit rock bottom. But you don't have to die when you hit rock bottom.
You can have terrible things happen to you and have maladaptive strategies to handle your experiences, but you aren't stuck that way forever. You can learn how to change your habits, learn to be okay with yourself, and work at being better than you were the day before.
Human growth is not linear. It's a bunch of taking steps forward and backsliding and learning and making mistakes over and over again and accepting failure, not as a testament to your character, but as part of the process of growth... and that's something all the students have to learn, not just the Overblot boys. Because all of them, every single one, are handling their own personal issues, even if it isn't shoved right in our faces.
GUYYYYYS I FOUND THE WHOLE PAGE !!! THANK UNIVERS !!
Thank to @/knb-imagine-fr who translate it !!
(If I'm not mistaken...?)
I share them here ⤵️
(I'm an otaku for a reason hehe 😎)
Ace wakes up on a random island two years after his death as a ten-year-old. But he has no memory of his adult life. Sabo just died, and he has a little brother to look after. Or maybe an older brother?
There is a bit of time between Ace waking up and Luffy finding him.
Sorry this is so long I'm still trying to figure out how to do comic-y things.
French / Introvert / AroAce/ Agender and Xenogender (I'm okay with all pronouns) / One Piece and KNB fan / Like mangas and animes + my comfort characters.
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