Youtube Is Pulling This Bullshit Again

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Thomas is like a Tumblr cryptid. He just comes online once a day and reblogs a bunch of random memes and then disappears into the void.

i see so many younger queer people on here asking stuff like “am i allowed to use this label??” “is it okay for me to use this term if it doesn’t 100% fit me?” and “am i valid if i use these labels?” 

and like honestly WHAT has the queer community on this hellsite BECOME?? why have we created this weird thing of constantly wanting to be “valid” and “allowed” like kids!! you are allowed!! i promise you you’re allowed!! it’s okay!!

you are allowed to be a nonbinary lesbian you are allowed to be both bi and ace you’re allowed to use he/him pronouns and be transfem you’re allowed to be transmasc and lesbian you’re allowed to be transfem and gay you’re allowed to be both mlm and wlw at the same time you’re allowed to be nonbinary even if you’re a little bit a binary gender you are allowed!! it’s okay!! 

put down your phone and go for a walk and breathe in some fresh air!! you don’t need to ask a blog on tunglr dot hell if you’re valid!! you don’t need to ask some stranger on the internet for permission to be your authentic self!! live your life! you don’t need permission and you don’t need someone to tell you you’re valid. you can live authentically and use whatever labels and pronouns you want, okay? you’re allowed. i promise. it’s okay.

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Ok but after Thomas & MJ adopt Thomas is in a fight or somethin that involves tv and says something to the extent of “come on, man! I needed baby diapers not a fight! I got a kid at home!” Or just like some other offhanded parent comment. It isn’t until later when he realizes because people LOSE THEIR SHIT. Just to stop the hounds, he posts a pic of her in a half-mask (Venom is the mask) and a onesie saying “super cutie” while she chews on the cape part. It’s the only official post of spiderbaby