Not A Lot Of People Know This But If You Say “be A Good Boy For Me? Please?” Boys Will Trip Over

nothing pisses me off more than men that think they can dominate me. i’ll make you cry on my strap, bitch.

DOMS NEED AFTERCARE TOO!!!

Tell them they did good

Remind them they didn’t hurt you and that you are mentally ok

If they did hurt you tell them how much you enjoyed it

Tell them you felt safe in your scene

Make sure they hydrate and refuel with a little snack if they need it

Thank them for fulfilling your desires

Cuddle them, pet them, hold them

If either of you safeworded discuss why you did so and how to prevent it from progressing that far in the future

Relax! Watch a movie play some video games together! Don’t just leave or ask them to leave afterwards…doms are not just sentient sex toys

Need someone to call me nice little soft names like pretty boy and good boy and puppy while roughly shoving their fingers into me and biting me and slapping me and pinning me down and pounding into me until I’m crying and sore :))

Call me sweet names while you break me, please

For the love of god, praise and reassure your Dom after sex. I cannot tell you the amount of times I’ve told a Dom they did a good job after sex and they’re like “???? Why are you saying that???” It’s INSANE. Aftercare goes both ways! Praise! Your! Dom! Tell them the specific things you liked! Tell them how hot they were! Tell them that you appreciate them taking control! It goes such a long way, trust me.

she pushes you against the wall and begins to kiss you. You don't know what to do with your hands so you try to put them in several different positions, her waist, her hips, her neck, but none of them feel right until she takes both and pins them above your head "Isn't that better baby?" she asks in a condescending tone, but she's right. it is better

Sometimes I worry about the young, sexually inexperienced trans people into hard kink on this website. Please remember "any sex" isn't necessarily worthwhile. You deserve sex with someone you trust who cares about your safety and respects your boundaries, or checks in frequently if you aren't sure what your boundaries are.

Experimentation is great, but try to avoid putting yourself in a situation that ends up being traumatic for you.

make! your! sub! speak! positively! of! themselves! before! you! let! them! cum!

adjust language for pronoun, title, and pet name preferences as needed but things like

- “who’s my beautiful girl”

- “i am, i am”

- “you’re what?”

- “i’m your beautiful girl”

- “say it again, what are you?”

- “i’m - ah - a beautiful girl”

- “that’s right, beautiful girl. now be even prettier and cum for me.”

are everything, don’t let up on asking, repeat the phrase you want them to say often, and don’t let them cum until they’re kind to themselves. you can work as much teasing as you want into this, make them say it until they convince you they mean it, make them say all sorts of good things about themselves. the point is for your sub to associate loving themselves with the dopamine rush of their orgasm (i would not recommend doing this if you plan on ruining their orgasm, let this chemically play out all the way through for your sub), and this can be such a gift for dom’s too because you’re helping your sub see themselves the way you see them and making them more confident in themselves, especially as a creature of beauty, pleasure, and desire - not to mention the wonderful bonding opportunity this all can be for you both

tl;dr: take the praise kink to the next level by pulling an uno reverse card and making ur sub praise themselves

The feeling that the smartest boy you know turns into a brainless mutt when he’s around you is ughhh. 

Knowing he trusts you enough to give in and let you fuck his pretty little brains out, tease him, grope him, mark his soft pretty body, humiliate him like the dumb puppy slut he really is feels intoxicating. 

He deserves praise for being such a hard working puppy, his poor little head needs a break from such big responsibilities. 

Collaring him, smothering him in attention and praise to the point where his first instinct is to drop to his knees as soon as he gets through the door is, well, the best thing to do really. 

I want to dominate a man bigger than me, I want to watch him fall apart and cry and whine as I fuck him into oblivion. I want him to look at me with wet eyes and beg me to keep on going, for him to pull me closer and spread his legs even wider. For him to tighten up around my strap and beg me to breed him, over and over and over and over.

i didn’t know objectification was a kink! i thought i was just Being A Sub. thank you for answering and introducing me to it i’ll definitely look into it and maybe someday bring it up (im a shy whore) 🥰

Objectification is a little more than just being submissive. It's very much a de-personalization of the submissive, making you more of a vehicle for the dom's pleasure than an active participant in the scene. It's a specific dynamic that often needs specific aftercare as well, but it can be really nice for knocking you out of your head.

Do you enjoy being a toy, or having your dom ignore you while they use you? You might have an objectification kink! Do you enjoy the idea of being treated like furniture? You might have an objectification kink! And if the idea of free use seems appealing, but you want there to be a little bit of a non-con element to it as well, you might have an objectification kink.