when he casually gropes your tits and pinches your nipples mid-conversation to remind you that your body belongs to him…… wow, yes please.
All I can think about lately is taking care of a pretty boy. Being soo gentle and sweet with him. Spooning him while I stroke his pretty cock. Whispering praises in his ear. Giving him whatever he wants. How could I not when he sounds so cute when he begs? You want it faster? Of course, angel. I just want to make you feel so good.
Swiping my thumb over his tip, cooing over how messy and leaky he is for me. Wrapping my other arm around his waist to pull him back against me, as close as possible. But it's never close enough. Kissing and biting his neck while I whisper in his ear about how he drives me absolutely insane.
Calling him all sorts of cute pet names. Pretty boy, angel, sweet boy, sweetheart, baby boy...there's so many good options.
You're always such a good boy for me, baby...so fucking perfect. I could touch you like this all day long...
i didn’t know objectification was a kink! i thought i was just Being A Sub. thank you for answering and introducing me to it i’ll definitely look into it and maybe someday bring it up (im a shy whore) 🥰
Objectification is a little more than just being submissive. It's very much a de-personalization of the submissive, making you more of a vehicle for the dom's pleasure than an active participant in the scene. It's a specific dynamic that often needs specific aftercare as well, but it can be really nice for knocking you out of your head.
Do you enjoy being a toy, or having your dom ignore you while they use you? You might have an objectification kink! Do you enjoy the idea of being treated like furniture? You might have an objectification kink! And if the idea of free use seems appealing, but you want there to be a little bit of a non-con element to it as well, you might have an objectification kink.
having a boy on his knees looking up at me, holding his face in my hands and running my thumb over his cheek, "youre such a beautiful boy, so handsome giving in, knowing that your place is on your knees for me. are you ready to follow orders? be my good boy?" and he whines from the praise, nods, "yes sir"
"perfect, open your mouth and stick out your tongue darling." he immediately obeys, looking up with big pretty eyes, his soft warm tongue ready for my tcock, "thats it baby boy." and i grab his hair at the base of his head and pull him in. his tongue right underneath my tcock, and my well trained boy immediately starts licking. lapping at my tdick while i shudder at how good hes making my cock ache. he wraps his lips around my cock, takes it all into his mouth, hes swirling his tongue and making me weak in the knees, i grip his hair tightly and start humping his face, fucking his mouth, moaning that hes such a good slut, that his mouth is so good he must be built to take cocks, until im twitching in his mouth, my tcock so hard and swollen, my boys face flush and warm, and i cant help but cum while he moans for me
I have said it SO MANY TIMES and I will SAY IT AGAIN.
AS A DOM. YOU DESERVE CARE TOO.
aftercare is often times sub-focused, and while that’s always great, it’s often seen as “only subs need aftercare because they’re the ones that took the brunt of the acts.” and as a disabled dom, that’s absolutely not true.
dom drop is very real. I often experience it as guilt for hurting someone, or being “too aggressive,” as trans women are often seen. especially for doms that take care of subs, pretty please take the time to take care of yourself too!!
and for all the subs out there, if you’re able, please please please go get your dom some water or a snack. even if neither of you can walk, it’s imperative that you *talk to each other.* in my past, even the smallest things made me feel so much better. I’m going to list off some great things to say to your dropped dom here (feel free to add in reblogs!!)
“I’m okay. You didn’t hurt me too much.”
“Thank you for doing (self care act) for me, do you need anything?”
“I liked everything you did.”
“everything was within my boundaries.”
“you did great, (name/nickname).”
“do you need anything?”
“would you like (self care act)?”
“can I help (task: clean up, get water, etc.)”
just doing something like talking, showing physical affection, kisses, comfort, etc, is so so so important, and everyone deserves it!
and to all my fellow doms out there, don’t feel guilty for asking for help! if you need it, ask for it! your partner is there to show you love and care too!
Actually can't stop daydreaming about being a free use toy for all of my friends. Playing games with friends when one of them tells me I have to turn on a camera for the rest of the call and strip so that I'm completely vulnerable to everyone in the call when they give me perverted orders throughout the call~ "Bend over let's see you spread yourself" "edge yourself before our next match" "Put on a toy and give me control I'm just gonna watch you play this next one~"
Baby boys with a praise kink are so adorable! You can literally see the sparkle in their eyes when you tell them that they are a good boy.
They get so squirmy and excited, covering their faces with their hands and getting all flustered while whispering thank you mommy.
Oh, and by the way, if you call them such good boy, they might start grinding on your thighs, so be aware of that.
And if they are super shy and in a super good mood and you call them my good baby boy and get a little possessive over them and shower them with attention, you might end up with a moaning mess underneath you.
“awh what a good boy” please bend me over the nearest surface
I’m not an exhibitionist but the thought of pushing a pretty puppy up against a window and pounding him from the back is very appealing. His gorgeous body is on display for anyone to see when they walk by, his dick is leaky and pressed up against the window and leaving a mess on the glass, his cheeks are flushed and his mouth is agape and drooling. What a pretty sight for everyone to enjoy. ‘Sir what if someone actually sees me ?’ he asks through whimpers as I abuse his hole. I grab his throat and whisper in his ear to make sure it’s getting into his dumb little puppybrain, ‘I can display my property however and whenever I like, am I making myself clear mutt ?’. All I get is a pathetic little nod as I continue ruining his body
obsessed with that face tops make when they accidentally discover a weak spot of yours or a kink of yours through something they did. that little surprised face and then the WICKED grin and then they say some shit like “oh? so you like this? yeah?” and then they do it again??? it gets to me every time on god