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How do I know if I'm dealing with a bad or fake Dom? And is it possible to be used by a bad Dom for sexual purposes?

I'm going to answer the second question first then the first question.

Yes. Absolutely. 100% yes. Bad doms are primarily only interested in sex. They only care about their own pleasure and their own comfort. Bad doms have little to no consideration to others about how you feel and what you want out of a dynamic.

Dynamics are about structure, safety, and communication. With bad doms some of this maybe missing.

Some bad doms will give you "structure" but not enforce it. For example you have to drink 32 Oz of water Per day. But they don't check in on it and they don't enforce with a agreed upon punishment when you dont complete the task.

Some bad doms won't be safe when playing. Using toys in an improper and unsafe way like using belts around your neck, using unsafe rope putting you in a compromising position not checking in on you during a scene.

Some Really Realy REALLY bad doms will cast aside or just ignore what you've communicated to them. For example if you don't like anal then either preessuring you to do it or just doing it when you don't have the ability to say no or when your in a position you can't move. Or if you say your safeword and they don't care and keep going. Or if they punish you when you use a safeword.

Bad doms may miss a couple of these or just miss one of them. But they will show themselves eventually. And it's never your fault. It's never the fault of the submissives for what's done to them. It's the fault of the dominant that you have given the power to that needs to act accordingly.

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Please know you do not owe anyone an explanation on how and why you regress or dream. Whether it stems from childhood trauma, growing up too fast, always setting the needs of others before your own, coping with the hardships of everyday life or simply wishing to have fun—what matters most is that you are healing and enjoying yourself.

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