Reblog If You Think It’s Okay To Platonically Say “I Love You” To Your Friends

Sometimes people use “respect” to mean “treating someone like a person” and sometimes they use “respect” to mean “treating someone like an authority”

and sometimes people who are used to being treated like an authority say “if you won’t respect me I won’t respect you” and they mean “if you won’t treat me like an authority I won’t treat you like a person”

and they think they’re being fair but they aren’t, and it’s not okay.

An Idea To Prevent A Nuclear War

happy Thursday the 20th

Hey Ninjago fandom, I noticed that the majority of you are dramatic threat making haters and trolls and I’m losing confidence in the whole fandom itself now. I wanna see how many of the few there is that just might be like me.

Please like/reblog or comment if you’re the following

- Not at all manipulating or controlling in the slightest

- You are supportive and respectful for all hcs and ships

- You simply ignore things you don’t like instead of posting threats and screaming

- You believe ocs and oc x canons are valid and respect them all

- You respect mental illnesses and don’t call people awful names

- You don’t ghost out people who try to be your friend or talk to you

- You don’t spread rumours about people and make really really really bad assumptions about them

- You don’t make death threats

- You don’t scream at people in all capitals

- You don’t block out friendly people just because they’re slightly different to you

- You don’t force people’s ocs who they should and shouldn’t be with

- You don’t support domestic abuse and violence

- You don’t make a hate post filled with endless lies to ruin someone’s reputation just because you disagree with them

- You don’t participate in wars

- You don’t randomly go to people and harass them

- You don’t think mental health is a joke or a cry for attention

- You are willing to be friends with someone even if they have a different hc than you or if they may either dislike a ship you like or like a ship you dislike

- You respect OCs and their owners right to ship them with who and their right to decide how their oc should be, how they look, talk etc. You never say that someone’s oc is crap or they should be this instead

- You respect ALL sexualities, Homosexuality, Bisexuality, Pansexuality, Ace and many many more! This even includes Hectrosexuality, it is not part of the community but I still notice that hectrophobia is actually a thing and it’s very common in this fandom

- You believe the less popular and generally ignored Ninjago content creators are still extremely valid and precious

- You are friendly and just want the fandom to be peaceful and full of harmony.

If you are lying about any of these I will hate you forever. I need to know if there truthfully and is actually anyone at all in the community who isn’t a toxic cyber bully or a threat making troll. If you are like this at all leave behind a note or something on this post please so I can see how many are actually more like me. And also to reassure me that maybe not everyone in the Ninjago community isn’t so bad after all.

Stuff kids on tumblr better relearn

1. You are responsible for your own media experience. 

2. There is such a thing as a healthy level of avoidance towards topics that make you feel unwell or even (in a real-life clinical definition of the term) trigger you - but you are the one to actively take care of what you view.

3. Avoiding does not mean policing others.

4. You have no right to tell artists to censor themselves - you may criticize what others do, you may dislike it, that’s fine - but actively asking for censorship when you could easily unfollow or block a person just makes you look incompetent in your use of the internet.

5. Do not give people on tumblr or /any/ website the responsibility for your emotional well-being. Because these people do not even know you so no, you have no right to ask them to take care of you.

This tiktoker shared some simple ASL for people to know to help deaf/hoh people communicate their needs while everyone is wearing masks !

Source 

Farewell online privacy

RSD check

Your friends don't secretly hate you

You're not a bad person for things you did and said months or years ago that you now recognize as bad

You aren't cringe for being excited about things

You don't talk too much

If you feel sick from intrusive thoughts/rsd please sip on some water, get a blanket or plush to cuddle, put on some music or a video that makes you feel happy

You are loved <3