I wrote a post about what kind of a man wants to be a cuckold. Just like there are certain characteristics or demographics that are common across most cuckolds, there are similarities in cuckoldresses.
The same sociologist who conducted the cuckold survey, Dr. Angela Lewis, conducted a survey of 200 women who self-identified as cuckoldresses.
The highlights of her survey results showed the typical woman who becomes a cuckoldress:
Demographic • is white (caucasian) • is college-educated • has a white-collar job • is several years into her first marriage • has a husband who is an alpha male
Keep in mind, the men who wanted be a cuckold had the same demographics. She lives a rather comfortable lifestyle and has a good job, just as her husband does. Few are stay at home wives. The can support themselves financially if needed.
Non-cuckoldress sexual characteristics • has a husband with an average-sized cock
Reasons for becoming a cuckoldress • because her husband initiated it (however a close number initiated or mutually agreed to it) • wasn’t sexually satisfied by her husband • wanted to have sex with a man with a larger cock than her husband • wanted to have sex with multiple men
Cuckoldress sexual characteristics • chooses other men to have sex with by herself, without her husband’s input • chooses men of the same race • prefers to be submissive in bed with other men • chooses men who have a large cock • has no rules about whether the husband can be present or not during sex with other men • encourages her husband to clean her creampie after sex with another man, when condoms are not used • has sex with other men in the marital bed, when choosing to have sex at her home • has not told anyone or only told a few select people about her activities
Long-term effects from continuing to be a cuckoldress • is able to separate love from sexual desire • becomes dominant in her relationship with her husband • enjoys seeing her husband lose control of her sexually • enjoys denying her husband sex • enjoys the fact that having sex with other men tortures her husband emotionally
Here are a few quotes from the survey:
• “I have a high sex drive.” • “I love to fuck.” • “I love having sex with new, fresh partners, it makes me feel sexy and on my game.” • “My husband is completely hot for me when he knows someone else wants me.”
Benefits of Cuckold Dating
Fulfillment of fantasies and satisfaction.
One or both partners in the partnership fulfill their lifelong fantasies since the couple shares in many different activities. Moreover, the female partner enjoys the freedom to engage in sexual adventures with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the man enjoys by knowing and/or watching his partner being intimate with another man outside their relationship. Men are satisfied when their female partners are enjoying. Therefore, even a woman in a committed relationship can go out on a date and the man loves it.
How Far Will You go For Me?
You know that I crave your submission. You know that when you do as I please, it makes me wet. So how far are you willing to for me, cuckold?
You’d be willing to watch someone else fuck me, wouldn’t you? You’d be willing and eager to see his cock fill me, right?
Would you be willing to lick my pussy after he fucked me? Would you be willing to taste his cock inside me?
What if I wanted you to lick my pussy while he was inside me? Would you do that, cuckold? Would you lay beneath him and lick my clit while he fucked me?
Would you be a cocksucker for me? Would you be a good cuckold? Would you blow my bull and then place his cock inside me?
Would you clean a cream-pie from my pussy? Would you lick his cum off my tits?
Would you bend over and get fucked for me, cuckold? If I wanted to see his big cock in your ass, would you let him fuck you? Tell me how far you’d go for me, cuckold.
Cuckold dating mainly involves the female’s assertion of her sexual relations with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the male partner knows and/or watches his partner having other sexual adventures outside their partnership or relationship.
Cuckold relationships are based on loyalty, trust and intimacy. However, the man still remains faithful to his female partner and therefore he is in a subordinate position. Although cuckold dating can be difficult, it has various potential benefits for the couple.
Benefits of Cuckold Dating
1. Fulfillment of fantasies and satisfaction
One or both partners in the partnership fulfill their lifelong fantasies since the couple shares in many different activities. Moreover, the female partner enjoys the freedom to engage in sexual adventures with other male partners outside the relationship. On the other hand, the man enjoys by knowing and/or watching his partner being intimate with another man outside their relationship. Men are satisfied when their female partners are enjoying. Therefore, even a woman in a committed relationship can go out on a date and the man loves it.
2. Builds trust
The man is fully aware of his partner’s sexual adventures and this helps to get rid of jealousy. This helps to increase trust and effective communication among partners. Additionally, both partners enjoy increased faithfulness due to the reduced thought of infidelity.
3. Builds confidence
The man feels that his wife is quite attractive since other men are ready to be intimate with her. Women gain the freedom and confidence to express their thoughts and feelings freely and openly.
4. Improved intimacy
As the cuckold couple gains intimate knowledge, their intimacy grows stronger too. This is because the couple enjoys new excitement in a variety of ways making it quite easy to attain physical satisfaction.
5. Increased interest and attention
The man wants to please his female partner more in many ways. Therefore, during cuckold dating his interest in his partner’s looks and clothing increases and as a result his partner’s wardrobe improves. Most importantly, the man becomes more caring and romantic.
6. Closer friendships
The couple enjoys intimate relationships with other people outside the relationship which helps to create stronger bonds with such friends.
Despite having many benefits, it is very important for the couple to fully understand what cuckold dating involves and come to an agreement before attempting any encounters. Most importantly, it is vital for the couple to understand how they can make the most out of the cuckold relationship.
How to Make Cuckold Relationships Work
1. Practice cuckold dating in the right way
Since the male partner gets sexually aroused by knowing and/or watching his partner getting intimate with other men, there should be a level of intimacy and trust in the cuckold relationship. Trust issues should be addressed first in order to decide if the cuckold relationship is best at the moment. This can be determined by; the state of your sex life, how long the relationship has lasted and the level of trust. This is very important especially for married people who want to have cuckold relationships.
2. Be loyal and set down the rules
Each partner needs to clearly understand that the practice is sexual. Therefore, other feelings and emotions should be on one side in order to reassure the man that his female partner will not develop any emotional relationships with third parties. In order to be on the safe side, this fear should be addressed before any encounter occurs. Cuckoldry should be a healthy and normal sexual fetish and not a practice that can damage the lives of those involved. In order to differentiate between the emotional aspect and sexual acts of the practice and secure the relationship, the couple should have a certain level of confidence and self esteem. Therefore, the couple should have a frank discussion about their concerns, what they want out of cuckoldry, and what it will entail. This helps to determine whether the practice will have any effects on the relationship and its future.
3. Keep it fun
There should be no feelings of guilt and betrayal during or after the act. This can only be achieved if the couple views their relationship as a sexually varied relationship that is open to experimentation and fun rather than a shameful or sinful one. Cuckold dating has many components besides sex. Components such as loyalty, devotion and trust should take precedence over sexual acts.
4. Be safe
Cuckold couples need to choose the third party once they have decided to practice cuckoldry. Since it’s the woman who normally has sexual relations with the third party, she must be completely comfortable with the new partner. The third party should be a like-minded person who can be trusted. This makes it easier for the three members to discuss in detail what they want out of the practice.
5. Communication
Communication is vital in cuckold dating since issues will have to be addressed in a timely and sensible manner in order to avoid complications.
The benefits of cuckold dating are greater than what most people imagine. The benefits listed above should give couples an idea of how cuckolding can be of great value especially to their relationship. Several swinger couples are also into cuckolding. Several join sites to meet other like minded individuals. The only advice here is that when you create a profile for free, simply let other member know that you are looking for a cuckold relationship.
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Thanks to @sexyokgirlfriend for the awesomeness of the pics.
I never have to worry of him straying or cheating on me. It is literally impossible for it to happen. With him locked in his chastity device, he isn’t going to get naked in front of another woman as he would be fearful of her just laughing at him. It would also be damn near impossible to find another woman who is kinky enough and likes to dominate males in the way he enjoys it. Most women tend to be submissive in nature.