I Respect Those People Who Have Sideblogs For All Their Different Interests, If You Follow Me, You’ll

I’m always feeling like wait did I just do something unforgivable? But all I did was walk somewhere or turn in a paper late

what the hell

Did you guys know there's nothing inherently wrong with selfish thoughts and desires and there's no such thing as thought crimes or thought sins and a balanced amount of selfishness is healthy and adaptive for living things to have and it's fine to act selfishly as long as you don't harm others

If I hold off on texting someone back there's a good chance I'll completely forget about it until weeks later, and by then it just feels awkward.

Yes, I watched Puss in Boots: The Last Wish, what gave it away?

Hey. It’s super valid to have big feelings about boundaries your loved ones put up. It’s super valid if you feel hurt or caught off guard by an unexpected change.

But please don’t take this out on the other person.

Them putting up boundaries is something they’re doing because they want to keep you in their life. Boundaries help build healthy and fulfilling relationships. It isn’t a personal attack at you.

It’s okay if you need to ask for some reassurance, or something like that. But please don’t guilt them or make them responsible for your feelings.

Me when I'm with my friends