Small Ways To Improve Your Life

The types as I know them

ISFJ

-wants to cuddle always

-loves fuzzy socks

-gives you gifts when you’re sad

-wonderful baker

-SO BOOK SMART

-takes ten minutes to get a joke

-super athletic

Istp

-tough as nails

-doesn’t really care about humans

-would take a bullet for a dog

-really loves food

-super smart but won’t admit it

-good at literally everything, but gets bored and drops whatever it was.

-SUCH A GOOD WRITER WOW

-has such an edgy dark vibe

Entp

-Vegan (not for animals just to be different & “healthy”)

-gainsss fanatic

-obsessed with plants

-probably a psychopath

-hyped when around friends

-tries extremely hard to get their crap together, but their organization fades away.

-we share the same humor

INTJ

-so, so many puns

-sends the most bizarre IG videos to the group chat

-everybody LOVES her, but she hates 99% of people.

-loves vanilla shakes

-reads so freaking much

-has at least 5 guys in love with her and her reaction is “meh”

-blushes a lot

ENTJ

-such a douche, honestly

-SO GOOD AT LITERALLY ANYTHING

-wants to own a coffee shop one day

-finds everyone inferior

-never tries because there is no competition

-got a 32 on the ACT and isn’t going to college just cuz

-actually really romantic

-has your back like nobody else

INTP

-in his head ALL the time

-actually cares a lot

-snarky comments constantly

-really logical

-can figure anything out

-he is impossible to read

-told me he hasn’t cried for 4 years

-can’t figure out what to do in life

-LOYAL AF

ESFJ

-Done with bs before it starts

-such a goober

-really easy going but a lot of fun

-mediocre intellectually, but could get amazing grades if he applied himself

-has been saying he’s gonna break up with his gf for months and still hasn’t

-plays baseball

-JOCK®

ENFP

-makes weird noises constantly

-so sweet to everyone

-every girl I know is in love with him

-very protective over family/friends

-has a good heart

ENFJ

-just wants the world to be a better place

-in color guard

-so smol

-blames herself for anything that goes wrong

-the SWEETEST

-posts wayyyyy too many heartfelt IG pictures

-loves to paint

-cares

INFJ

-SWEET

-feels awkward

-when she gets mad it’s really funny because she doesn’t look mad at all

-loves nature

-SUPER SMART

-so humble

Lololol the bookstore scenario

personal study moodboard

what to do when everything’s a mess

Wash your hair. Don’t worry about all those articles online about the best haircare products of 2019 and whatnot, get in, wash it like you usually do, get out. Leave it to air dry, it’s less work for you.

Brush your teeth. Even if you brushed them this morning and are probably going to brush it tonight, do it anyway. Especially if it’s exam time, all that tea or coffee you’re most likely downing (props to you if you only study with water) probably makes them feel kind of gross.

I know most of these lists tell you to run a bath, but let’s face it, for those of you who even have a bath in the first place, the thought of filling that tub and sitting there in complete silence for a couple hours seems like a trek. And ironically exhausting. So instead, just brush your hair, take a nap (set a nice soothing alarm) and once you’ve gotten out of bed, wash your face or at least splash cold water on your face.

CLEAN clean clean clean CLEAN. Easier said than done, but at least start by clearing one messy component of your area; it could be your floor, your desk or your bed. You don’t need to clean and re-organise your entire room marie condo-style for you to actually have a reason to take the time to clean in the first place. A little goes a long way, and you don’t ALWAYS need to do the hard yards ya know.

I would say read a book, but sometimes your brain is melting or buzzing so it can’t really focus on anything lengthy. So instead, find someone reciting a poem online, and just listen to it. I recommend Jeremy Irons and his voicing of tons of T.S Eliot poetry, or Allen Ginsberg reciting his own poetry (Howl is a classic).

If you’re one of those people who drowns their sorrows by listening to music, don’t listen to music!! Don’t reinforce your pain!! So to that I say, listen to a podcast. If the classic podcast genre of true crime is a little too stressful and you’ve already cried twice today, listen to interviews with actors, screenwriters and directors. It can be really refreshing to listen to people you already enjoy the content of talk about their work. I recommend Awards Chatter and Happy Sad Confused.

Stop staring at screens! Just physically sit outside for a bit, you don’t need to go for a jog or do a general workout, just…sit. People-watch, try and memorise the exact scene in front of you, from the mis-en-scene to all the colours and sounds and the way the sunlight feels on your eyelashes. Write it down if you want to, you could even denote a single notebook to your little outdoor descriptions. Or just write on a napkin. To each their own.

Have you eaten today? And I mean something hearty, something that isn’t primarily made out of air and salt. Something that falls under the umbrella of snack does not count; meal is more like it. If not, eat. Preparing food might feel exhausting, but so’s going a relatively long amount of time without something nutritionally substantial.

If you’re feeling emotionally heavily, get out a notebook or even just a scrap of paper, a pen and cry until your eyes are as blurry as can be. With tears down your cheeks, scribble out how you’re feeling. Don’t bother with how neat or messy it is, whether the sentences even stay on the lines, it’s not about being aesthetic. In fact, it’s about being as messy as possible. Let all of it out, and let is act as a physical manifestation of what’s going on in your head. Don’t fight it or deny it, relieve yourself by both constructing and understanding yourself. 

Readers are usually the people with the best ideas.

(via bookeworm94)

Everyday he waits for his owner.

If you get tired learn to rest, not to quit.

Banksy (via barbellsandfortitude)

I’ve never identified with something more than this

“My heart is not captured easily. I am disinterested in small talk, disillusioned with love, and too focused on my dreams and aspirations to lend anybody my attention for long. But if we make that connection, if you find your way into my heart, God, I will fall for you like gravity has let go of the Earth.”

—

Beau Taplin

Praying for the woman I’ll be in 5+yrs I hope she’s happy, and loved, living life unapologetically, doing what she loves.

NTs as Mythical Creatures

ENTP: Manticore. Strong, chaotic, and fierce–with deadly quills of sarcasm

ENTJ: Siren. Beautiful, confident, and charming–may or may not being trying to kill you

INTP: Elf. Illusive, secretive, and curious–might be causing mischief, might be too lazy

INTJ: Basilisk. Quietly bold, cold, cunning–can also kill you with a single glance