women! be difficult! be mean! they’re gonna hate you either way!
Get over the fear of being seen.
Stop caring about how you’re gonna be perceived. Stop doubting yourself. Stop aiming to be perfect. Stop ruminating.
Accept who you are. Hype yourself. Invest in yourself. Be audacious. Trust in the greater outcome. Allow yourself to be seen as you are.
— v, excerpts from a book i’ll never write #2 (via letsbelonelytogetherr)
One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.
negative affirmations
I can be worse
I still have time to fuck things up
I can kms any time I want
16 April, 1939 Letters to Véra by Vladimir Nabokov
"It’s just me. It’s just me. It’s just me. I’ve got you. I’ve got you. Look at me."
MY FAULT: LONDON (2025) dir. Charlotte Fassler, Dani Girdwood