the next 4 years will be dark for americans. to all of those who are in a dark place right now, please remember that if you give up, if you let go, and if you stop being who you truly are, you'll only be giving conservatives what they want. please remember to take a break and do something you enjoy to take your mind off of things, surround yourself with people who love and protect you; and if you don't have anyone like that, always love and protect yourself.
you don't need to always be up-to-date on the political state of the country and how things are going, especially not if it effects you mentally. you're allowed to disconnect, you're allowed to put your head in the sand and block it out, because you need to stay strong.
or, maybe staying up to date helps you stay strong. maybe it motivates and encourages you to push through and hope for a better future. you are more capable than you think.
remember: don't snitch, take things easy when you need to, use your resources, and put yourself first. if you ever need to talk, mine and many others' messages are open.
sick of ppl calling themselves feminists and then being highly uneducated. just halfassing it. i wish to be that peaceful and ignorant but unfortunately im not dense like that :/
or worse they say feminism is for everyone and not just for women
this.
At its core, “gender critical” ideology has nothing to do with transgender ideology. There’s three main beliefs that create a gender critical ideology and none of them have anything to do with or stem from trans issues.
1. Sex is a physical and material reality. You can touch and hold a penis or vagina. You can measure testosterone or oestrogen differences between men and women. You can study any inherent differences in the brain. Yes, intersex people also exist. That difference in sex development is also a material reality.
2. Gender is a social construct. A conservative, patriarchal invention that believes (as a modern example) women must like dresses and men must like pants. Women like pink and men like blue, or in other cultures or times, other ideas. This is not a material reality, it’s only socialisation. Nothing about material reality makes women like pink. There may be some debate regarding where sex stops and gender socialisation begins, as scientific analysis of the brain has not developed enough to know exactly what is inherent and what is part of the socialisation which starts at (or before) birth.
3. The social construct of gender should be abolished, as it is the foundation of a patriarchy. Women are given gender roles which revolve around being subordinate and submissive, as to obey the patriarch, and men’s gender roles are to be aggressive and strong, as to serve in the military. Sex differences are to be respected and gender is to be abolished. Decisions regarding safety, medical care, and other treatment of people should be based on sex, material reality which effects everyone, not gender.
The issue with trans ideology only comes in where in order to transition gender, gender as a social construct must be maintained. To feel “validated” in changing gender, gender must become more important and more recognised than sex. It pushes that decisions regarding the treatment of and protection of people should be made based on gender rather than sex, entirely opposite to the gender critical belief. Gender needs to be reinforced and protected for the ideology to make any sense at all, otherwise, what are you transitioning to?
Gender critical ideology does not target trans people or ideology. It targets a misogynistic social construct. It is not about trans people or ideologies. It is about a misogynistic social construct and its abolition. It’s just that trans ideology happens to rely on that misogynistic construct which gender critical ideology aims to abolish, and thus, they are opposed.
Gender critical ideology is only anti-patriarchy and anti-conservative. Gender belongs to patriarchy and conservatism. Transgender ideology only has issues with gender critical ideology because it is built on gender and falls apart without it.
I am aware gender dysphoria exists. Gender dysphoria would not exist if gender did not exist. Would you rather children develop gender dysphoria and spend thousands of dollars attempting to free themselves of it, suffering for years in the meantime, or that that suffering not exist in the first place? You can argue all you want that sex dysphoria is the real issue, but if that’s the case, call it such and we can learn to deal with it, but for now it’s an entirely different topic since gender ideology chooses to revolve around “gender” instead.
oh thats great! but your daughters wont feel very safe when they go to school and a man with a gun enters the building! your daughters wont feel very safe when rapists continue to go mostly unpunished and roam the streets freely! your daughters wont feel safe when men are able to beat their girlfriends and wives and get away with it! your daughters wont feel safe when they risk not getting a job or losing their job just because they're women! +++more. but you seem to be in a happy privileged position, so that excludes hundreds more that would impact daughters and sons born in lower-class families.
i wish that there were female only vacation resorts. even if there were i dont think id be able to go any time soon, but still. imagine how amazing that would be. no worries about creepy men at beaches. my dream
Kink culture isn’t liberation. It’s the pornified, capitalist, patriarchal repackaging of male violence, sold back as liberation. Whats up with u eroticising ur subjugation and calling him daddy while he chokes you like a victim in a femicide case? Strangulation is the first predictor of domestic homicide, but sure, slap a safe word on it and call it empowerment
sure have your neoliberal “choice” bullshit but consent under patriarchy is coerced by default… conditioned from birth to submit, to please, to accept pain as sexy
its pumped into every aspect of mainstream media, normalizing it so thoroughly and, no, im not about trying to policing your sex life it’s about recognizing that if your pleasure depends on the ritualized humiliation of women, then your pleasure is political, and your politics are shit
idk interrogate ur desires
Things were leaving in 2024 fic edition
“Cock splitting you open” rapey
“Cunny” ew
“Tongues battled for dominance” overused
“His voice lowered an octave” that doesn’t make sense
“Titties” ew
“Fat cock” just say thick pls
“Bunny” this isn’t wonderlandsystems or whatever
“Fuck me like a pornstar” double ew
“Gummy walls” please stop
“Puffy cunt” what
“Your sex” just say cock/vagina istg
“His tip touched your cervix” owch??
“It hurt at first” THEN STOP??? ITS NOT SUPPOSED TO??
“Daddy” you need to leave!
bitch is a slur cunt is a slur and I think men should face the same level of scrutiny for saying those words as any other slur
i believe you MIGHT just be 5ish years late !! lmk if im wrong tho :)