Not that anybody asked, but I think it's important to understand how shame and guilt actually work before you try to use it for good.
It's a necessary emotion. There are reasons we have it. It makes everything so. much. worse. when you use it wrong.
Shame and guilt are DE-motivators. They are meant to stop behavior, not promote it. You cannot, ever, in any meaningful way, guilt someone into doing good. You can only shame them into not doing bad.
Let's say you're a parent and your kid is having issues.
Swearing in class? Shame could work. You want them to stop it. Keep it in proportion*, and it might help. *(KEEP IT IN PROPORTION!!!)
Not doing their homework? NO! STOP! NO NOT DO THAT! EVER! EVER! EVER! You want them to start to do their homework. Shaming them will have to opposite effect! You have demotivated them! They will double down on NOT doing it. Not because they are being oppositional, but because that's what shame does!
You can't guilt people into building better habits, being more successful, or getting more involved. That requires encouragement. You need to motivate for that stuff!
If you want it in a simple phrase:
You can shame someone out of being a bad person, but you can't shame them into being a good person.
Seen a couple posts on the dashboard lately about writing with ADHD. So, for the ADHD and neurodivergent folks who like writing but struggle sometimes… check out StimuWrite.
You can set it to make little sounds as you type (or leave them off), and emojis pop up in the corner. You can change the background, dark and light themes, set your word goal, and it gives you a percentage and total word count at the bottom. Though it’s more meant for getting a draft written up, so it doesn’t have spell check or anything like that. You’re meant to just copy and past what you write here into Google Docs or Word or Scrivener or whatever else you use and go from there. Honestly love it when I’m struggling to get words down, though. And apparently there’s an update now for StimuWrite 2?👀
Anyways, give it a try if it looks like it may help. It’s currently name-your-own-price.
Spent a long time on this art resource/reference masterpost! Finally starting to edit to add more. This will be REGULARLY updated so it’s gonna get huge. If you have a request for resources for me to find OR have a resource you want me to add, just send me an ask :D
General Anatomy/Human stuff:
body quick tips
painting/drawing straight hair
how to draw eyes
arm squish/bend tip
chest/pecks with raised arms tip
long hair how to
male torso anatomy (back)
learn manga male anatomy (torso & arm)
male torso anatomy (front)
head and hair tips (scroll a bit, it’s in one of the images!)
how to draw noses
ears tilty tip
arm tips
two tips for drawing women’s hair
drawing teeth
anatomy tips
random hair and mouth ref anime
leg muscle anatomy ref
arm muscles anatomy ref
knees reference
arm ref study
quick arm tut tip
how to draw arm
shoulders n sleeves
Poses:
umbrella poses
random female poses
random anatomy pose thing
chibi sleeping in hands pose
laying poses
elf (?) with staff poses
holding phone half bod
peeny wolf pose set
perspective pose sheet
anatomy poses
crossed arms ref sheet
holding baby poses
Hands:
how to draw hands 1
hand refs & tutorial 2
hand tutorial 3
hand tutorial 4
36 hands
how to draw hands in 10 minutes
hands ref 2
hand gestures and simplifying the hand
arm & hand ref
500 hands
Diversity:
stop drawing natives red
wheelchair tutorial
drawing fat people
vitiligo notes for artists
darkskin palms
epicanthic folds
biracial characters
do’s and don’ts of thick lips
Animals/Creatures:
how to draw falcon beaks
canine studies (broken down into parts)
feline tiger ref
Insect wing venation
Musculature of a T-Rex
Pony bodies tutorial
Hyena Nose tutorial
horse reference
drawing horns
Flesh tutorial
bird tips
wing basics
making mythical creatures look realistic
pony heads tutorial
dragon designing tutorial pt 3/3
pony wings tutorial
hedgie bodies
Furry/Anthro:
dogquest’s pixel tutorial
furry portrait tutorial
furry pants tutorial
how to draw paws/pawhands
fur direction reference
anthro tips
muzzle shapes
furry styles
anthro expressions
f2u chibi-ish furry base
furry / cartoon head tutorial
f2u furry base/pose w three different ears
drawing humans! for animal artists
Backgrounds:
how to draw debris
fire tutorial
night sky tutorial
materials study with notes
tree tutorial
water tutorial
tangents??
ocean painting
clouds tutorial
bubbles
painty background studies tips
peony tutorial
lakeside tutorial
quick flowers for the lazy
mistletoe vs holly
Perspective:
foreshortening coil technique
foreshortening tutorial
Webcomic:
medibang comic panel tutorial
how i make webcomics/webtoons
how to color comics
the art of lettering comics
comic/doujinshi paneling
in depth webcomic tutorial
Coloring:
The colorpicking problem
72 Color Combinations
How ViPOP uses color
Hair coloring tutorial by rosuuri
Gurochii moe quick eye tutorial
Anime eye tutorial
Mermaid tail tutorial
Grayscale to Color painting tutorial
chibi eye walkthrough
skin tone tutorial 1
curly hair tutorial
color palette
coloring tutorial
light, it gets everywhere
comfort color
skin coloring tutorial
holographic tutorial
dappled lighting effect
cute/bright coloring tutorial
pattern trick
arcana character coloring tut
Expressions/ Meme / style:
small body language study
expressions reference
how to cute
Platonic cuddles meme
expression reference : nervous
flustered expression meme
drawing expressions tutorial/key
Pixel Art:
Pixel icon tutorial
Ice cream
Moving clouds tutorial
50x50 pixel doll tutorial
pixelin’s pixel process
pixel expression ref
pixel eye blinking tutorial
how to pixel liquids
Clothing / Accessories:
Shoes
Fancy color tip / ref
Chainmail
short reference
learn manga basic pleated skirt tutorial
learn manga basic frills
random clothing refs
chainmail brush
clothing ref masterpost
pinstripes tips
cloth texture tips
how to clothing folds
Misc:
Sketchfab 3d Models
Mikeymegamega on YT for anime/ecchi/etc
Gentei_sozai on twitter for chibi poses
S0zalsan on twitter for random poses
mecha basics
75 tutorials
Obvious art tips you might have forgotten
Mosaic effect
how to draw a cute chibi
fighting artblock
cute pikachu base
painting a face tutorial
volume commissions mini tutorial
arcana characters tutorial reference
notes from the “animators survival kit”
concept art tutorial
another art resource masterpost
MS paint tips and tricks
Reference table for drawing CONSISTENT faces
@hanari0716 on twitter for HELLA references
animation guide for beginners
Brushes:
Foliage brushes
cityscape brushes
ghibli brushes
clip studio paint assets
PS brush pack
In Yemen the death count stagnated at 15,000 until the war ended and the people were able to count their dead. Today, it's commonly accepted that over 300,000 Yemenis have been killed by war and famine. We will see a similar situation in Gaza after a ceasefire.
marginalized men: i don’t like jokes about hating all men. i recognize where they come from but they make me feel unsafe. the way im degraded for my manhood’s interactions with other identities doesnt mean that women have it easier, but i would also like to feel safe.
butch transmascs: yeah i had to fight for my masculinity to be accepted and am still struggling to find room in feminist spaces without having to be butch and trans and a man. i need that activism and i’d like my experiences to be considered by people in that space. i dont like being treated as a gender traitor or lesser now that ive transitioned.
dozens of bloggers on their way to get thousands of notes: i cant believe #notallmen is coming back. these people just hate women. intersectionality and solidarity is a distraction from real issues. women are facing these real problems while you guys primarily trans men and men of color are complaining about jokes.
Mr Jonny Sims sir, who is Rosie named after? Because I try to google her last name and all it shows up is house of leaves
Look, man, cards on the table, I don't remember what surname I gave Rosie. The wiki says Zampano, so I guess, yeah, I gave her the name of the fictional writer in House of Leaves.
reblog to pet prev
visual gag where a character knows they’re in a movie but doesn’t know where the camera is so they keep just staring cryptically at random places that are nowhere near the actual fourth wall
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