I Thrifted A Bunch Of Boxy Girls Ages Ago And This Is The First Hybrid I Finished.

Nearly every autistic person on the face of the Earth has been groomed for abuse from an early age.

We don’t attract abuse by being idiosyncratic or sincere. To say that is to blame our personalities. To say that that is to make yet another attempt at getting us to suppress ourselves, ruining our emotional and physical health.

We don’t stumble into abuse because we’re naive or poor judges of character.  To say that is to infantilize us. To say that is to make yet another attempt at robbing us of our independence and agency, impoverishing our life experiences.

We find ourselves in toxic, abusive friendships and relationships because we are groomed for that shit by the authority figures in our lives who teach us how to behave and blend in while ignoring the nuances of interpersonal interaction - particularly the nuances of the sorts of interaction that happen when acquaintances become friends, when friends become close friends, or when our relationships with those friends become romantic and/or sexual. They simply don’t see those stages of relating as something we want, or, if we do want them, however desperately, they are dismissed as something that’s simply not in the hand we were dealt. We are taught only how to get by in shallow interactions, and left to trial and error should we wish to pursue anything beyond that.

Unfortunately, a lot of that “error” entails emotional, psychological, physical, and sexual abuse.

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Unsplash -  photography, illustration, and art

Pixabay - same as unsplash

Pexels - stock photos and videos

Stockvault.net - stock photos

Veceezy - vectors and clipart

Getdrawings - simplistic images and drawing tutorials

Gumroad - photoshop brushes (and more)

Canva - needs login but has lots of templates

Library of Congress - historical posters and photos

NASA - you guessed it

Creative Commons - all kinds of stuff, homie

Even Adobe has some free images

There are so many ways to make moodboards, bookcovers, and icons without infringing copyright! As artists, authors, and other creatives, we need to be especially careful not to use someone else’s work and pass it off as our own. 

Please add on if you know any more sites for free images <3

This machine kills AI

This.

Games like Animal Crossing that give you a reason to play every day are great for coping with anxiety/depression because yeah life is terrifying but that bush you planted today? It’s gonna be slightly bigger tomorrow and that at least is something to look forward to

BEHOLD

MY NEW SON.

HIS NAME IS LONG LUSCIOUS LEGS

some perfectly average black cats

To people who are desperately asking for fundz/donations on tumblr.

USE THESE REDDIT SUBS INSTEAD PLEASE FOR GOODNESS SAKE!!!!!!!!!

Hate Reddit if you want, but using these subs are your best chance. People gather in these subs because they have charity to spare:

/r/Assistance /r/legaladvice /r/RandomKindness /r/Charity /r/care /r/Random_Acts_Of_Pizza /r/Food_Pantry https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfPetFood/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RandomActsOfChristmas/ https://www.reddit.com/r/almosthomeless/ https://www.reddit.com/r/homeless

/r/freelance  /r/povertyfinance /r/thrifty /r/borrow /r/gofundme

/r/depression /r/familysupport /r/transitions 

I never see anyone actually getting any significant donations on tumblr and to be honest, tumblr is the worst place to ask for assistance. Use it as your last resort, it frustrates me to no end seeing people begging for help, reblogging the same post over and over, the same types of posts over and over, to no avail, when people are waiting to help you on a different part of the web  GO TO WHERE THE HELP IS. IF YOU WANT DIRECT ACTION TO WORK STOP WITH TUMBLR AND USE REDDIT.

PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF SATAN REBLOG THIS SO WE CAN START REDUCING THE AMOUNT OF DONATION POSTS THAT GET STUCK FLOATING AROUND THIS WEBSITE

A cubby bjd.... want! <3

Ringdoll - Fat Peanut Event March 01 ~ April 15

If your order is over $600 (not including shipping cost),you can choose a wig for free +receive $30 off shipping+get a free Fat peanut.

If your order is over $880 (not including shipping cost),you can choose a wig or a pair of glass eyes (except RE32 and RE33) or a pair of shoes + receive $30 off shipping+Fat peanut*2 or Fat happiness.

Dealers can join in this event.

Contact:sales@ringdoll.com/jenny@ringdoll.com

10cm Fat Peanut: http://www.ringdoll.com/product/RingSpecial/Fat%20peanut.html

20cm Fat Happiness: http://www.ringdoll.com/product/RingSpecial/Fat%20happiness.html

I really enjoy the amount of personality in this custom. And making a descendants doll body look good.

My new (end of) summer creation!

It’s been a while since I created an original doll like that, and I also wanted to make one with a prothesis limb. And here she is! 

She’s one of my OCs, I named her Ruth.

My mom saw her and said “Ho, this one is cute :)” so I went “Thanks! She got POCKETS :D!!!”

I also made a quick sketch of the original idea I had of her, I think its close enough!

She was originaly a Descendants Doll but I had to modify multiple parts of her body so she could be more articulated (like in the legs and torso, she can even slouch now) and added teeth (yeah, that part was fun) and eyelids. I can also “unscrew” her prosthesic leg. I’m thinking of making a post explaining her transformation step by step.

Anyway, really glad I was able to finish her for the end of summer, she look really cool!

P.S.: don’t smoke kids! 

then the seven angels who had the seven trumpets prepared to sound them