Can I Have Everyone’s Attention Please? Especially Australians

usually if i drink while i have a migraine it goes away (i don't drink often... the last time i did was my birthday in september last year)

People that get migraines: Is alcohol/liquor a trigger for your migraines? Doesn’t need to happen every time you drink

Yes

No

No migraine (lucky you!)/don’t drink option

Reblog if you're a cuddler.

If they refuse to respect you for who you are they aren’t friends, if they want to keep you in their life they will put aside the “it sounds weird” stuff and learn your new name and your new pronouns and stuff.

I personally have a 3 strike rule, deadname me once I just correct you and move on, twice I correct you and give you the stare, three times and I either throw you out or leave myself and refuse to speak with you till you learn.

If you’re too concerned about how inconvenient it is to learn my name and pronouns you’re not someone I want to be friends with.

It didn’t used to bother me much.

The name thing, I mean. I figured, you know… people need time. Time to adjust, time to relearn, time to forget and relearn again. I gave them that time—generously, patiently. But now I’m at that point where if someone deadnames me, I will correct them. Every time. Again. And again. And again.

Like Tuesday. I was playing Magic with some friends. One of the guys at the table—I’ve known him for years—he’s not mean or malicious, just… a bit slow on the uptake. Not exactly tuned into social cues, bless him. But gods, I’ve never been so close to flipping the table over a name.

Everyone else at the table called me Terra. Naturally. Because that’s my name. But he kept deadnaming me—over and over.

“Hey Deadname, your turn.”

“It’s Terra.”

“Hey Deadname, don’t forget your extra card.”

“It’s Terra.”

Repeat until madness.

By the end of the night, I was massaging my temples, staring up at the ceiling like the answer to why I bothered was written in the damn fluorescent lights. He finally noticed I was upset—and instead of realizing why, he thought it was because he kept killing my commander.

No. No, sweetie. My frustration wasn’t game-based, it was existential.

I finally just… snapped a little. Told him flat-out, “My name is Terra. You’ve been calling me my deadname all night. I’ve been correcting you all night.”

And he blinked at me, confused, and said, “Sorry. I forgot.”

I slumped back. Like, girl, really? You forgot?

My other two friends leaned in from opposite ends of the table, bless their sassy little souls, and said, “Dude… we’ve been calling her Terra this whole night.”

And he just shrugged. Said he didn’t get it, but he just wanted to play Magic.

And I guess that’s what stings, doesn’t it? That I’m not important enough in his head to remember. That I’m background noise. A name that just doesn’t click, because his desire to play cards outweighs my need to be seen.

But I will keep correcting people. I will keep saying “It’s Terra.” Because every time I do, I take my name back. I remind myself—and everyone else—that I exist. That I matter. That I’m not going to fade just because someone forgets to look closely enough.

So yeah. It sucks. It drains you. But we don’t owe anyone our silence. Especially not when we’ve fought so hard to finally hear our name and feel right.

I’ve never been wizard high but when making edibles I do feel like a witch >:3

*looks at self* if only I had a pussy

They're ALWAYS trying to pull this shit @ parties

… fine…

Do you view the word "dude" as gendered?

If I could self train my voice I would… sadly the second I hear my voice outside of my head it makes me feel so much dysphoria… the last time I tried I threw my headset off my head in panic breaking said headset… and I imagine even if I get professional voice training I’m still going to have to hear it… the best option for me is surgery and then voice training, but to get it I need to prove I can’t do professional voice training if I want it to be semi affordable. So really the best option is for me to go mute until I can actually pay upfront for surgery in full.

Alright, hear me out, my gorgeous trans girls—voice training isn’t just for passing, it’s for making your lover weak in the knees. Imagine it—low, sultry whispers that send shivers down a girl’s spine, breathy moans that melt her resolve, needy little whimpers that make her desperate to pin you down and ruin you.

This is more than just practice—this is "whoremoan replacement therapy". A symphony of desire. So train those voices, my loves, and let the world tremble at the sound of your pleasure. 😉

Oh no… SHE’S HOT

shadow doodles

the illuminati symbol is just an old freemason symbol (a group of bikers that also happen to be stonemasons)

Do you think there's a possibility the Illuminati is real?

So, you know that feeling of when you’re in bed and you’re comfy and all of a sudden you feel something hard and sharp poking you, I just had that happen to me with a stick of ddr1 256mb 266mhz ram… what in the actual Fuck, the fact that there is ram this old On My Bed is concerning.

And if you’re wanting photo proof, here (the cable is my switch charger that I use primarily for my phone because my switch is actively dying)