Npd culture is no pressure! :3 (but if you do not do the thing I want you to do I will be very upset and resent you, maybe even hate you for a bit.)
/not aimed at you
- š§ļøhydra
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"actually all pwnpd are abusive because they have low empathy and don't care about anyone but themselves-" I will eat you.
Woe I made a hyper specific NPD bingo
Egotypicals can interact just dont be weird
NPD is also about having learned so much on how to present yourself because you were forced to perform at an age far too early for that, then growing up and looking down at everyone who cannot perform as well as you do and considering them weak and unprepared for life. How dare you not have the horrific experience of lacking any sense of self unless youāre praised and elevated.
I feel like there are a lot of people out there who needs to hear this:
If you dropped out of school because of diagnosed (or undiagnosed) ADHD, Autism, ADD, OCD, Dyslexia, Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar disorder, psychotic disorders, schizophrenia etc⦠You did not fail. The education system failed you.
HELP THE TIKTOK ABLEISTS ARE SAYING NARCS EYES CAN STRAIGHT UP GO BLACKāļøāļøāļø
bro they think we're mythical fucking demons im doneššš
NPD is never being good enough.
NPD is being isolated from everybody else.
NPD is knowing you will never form connections to people like egotypicals do.
NPD is never being authentic.
NPD is feeling empty inside.
NPD is constant paranoia and the sickening feeling of thinking everyone is going to sabotage you.
NPD is constant distrust.
NPD is self hatred.
NPD is feeling sick when others succeed.
NPD is knowing love will never be enough for you, you need obsession, devotion, to be the most important person, to be the air they breathe, to be worshipped but knowing they will probably never be that to you.
NPD is needing control.
NPD is constantly feeling underestimated and belittled.
NPD is having to be admired by everyone.
NPD is the want to be feared and respected.
NPD is never feeling satisfied.
NPD is competing with socially assertive people and getting unbearably angry at them for purposefully stealing your spotlight.
NPD is nobody understanding your struggles irl.
You wouldn't believe how much respect Narcissists deserve.
I respect you so much! You are amazing and spectacular!
Fuck the stigma around NPD.
I love narcissists.
I want narcissists to succeed in life.
I want narcissists to find happiness.
I want narcissists to have healthy and effective support systems.
I want narcissists to be able to say they have their disorder, and it be treated the same way as someone saying they have autism or ADHD.
I want narcissists to take care of themselves.
Because that's what narcissists deserve.
Because narcissists are people.
If you advocate for mental health awareness, but joke about things like intrusive thoughts and schizophrenia, think itās disgusting and lazy when people who are depressed canāt do things like showering or cleaning their room, use terms like ānarcissistic abuseā, and believe that having ASPD, BPD, or NPD makes someone a bad person, you are not a mental health advocate. You donāt actually care about helping people or de-stigmatizing mental illness, you just want to make yourself feel like you do. You canāt pick and choose what disorders and symptoms are acceptable, and which ones make someone a bad person. Either you support everyone, or you support no one.
and if youāre neurodivergent/mentally ill and you do any of those things, you are part of the problem. thereās no such thing as āgood/moralā disorders, or ābad/immoralā disorders. We all need to have each otherās backs.
"my ex was a narcissist!" and it's just a random dude who can't take accountability because patriarchy
Crow | 29 | System | Diagnosed BPD | Questioning NPD | Physically Disabled
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