The Rates Of Abuse That Trans Identified Males Face Are Irrelevant To The Discussion. It’s Not An Issue

The rates of abuse that trans identified males face are irrelevant to the discussion. It’s not an issue that will be solved by allowing anyone who simply identifies as a woman into female exclusive facilities. I’m sorry, but women’s spaces do not exist to protect men from male violence.

Trans identified males cannot experience misogyny. Misogyny is sex based discrimination, hatred, subjugation, and oppression. Women don’t experience misogyny because we dress or present a certain way. We experience misogyny because we have female reproductive organs, and our bodies and unpaid labor are valuable resources to men that they seek to control for their own gain. If a passing TIM (exception, not the rule) is the butt of a misogynistic joke, or has misogynistic slurs thrown at him, that is not the same as centuries of women and little girls being forced into domestic servitude, raped, repeatedly forced to birth children, denied the right to vote, attend school, divorce, own a home, work to earn a living, murdered by their fathers, brothers, and husbands, lobotomized, hidden away by religious extremists, sold like cattle, used as wombs by the elite, prostituted, and every other inconceivable abuse women and girls have endured for nearly all of human history, all over the world. If someone calls me the f slur, it doesn’t mean I’m the victim of homophobia (they’re still a homophobe).

Men choosing to undergo extensive cosmetic surgery and hormonal therapy (or simply socially transitioning) are not entitled access to spaces that are meant exclusively for women and girls.

I agree, build more trans spaces. Unisex, single occupancy, lockable bathrooms and changing areas, open categories in sports, shelters that are intended for transgender people, making shelters that have a primarily male population safer, sections in men’s prisons that are safe for homosexual and transgender males. Really, the issue isn’t solely that trans people are lacking a safe space, it’s that males make every space they occupy UNSAFE. Which is exactly why women want our single sex spaces left single sex.

It also needs to be acknowledged that trans identified males retain male patterns of offending. Women (who are labeled TERF bigots and disregarded) have tried to call attention to the issue of men and boys who were granted access to our spaces by lawmakers and activists committing sexual and violent assaults against women and girls.

I’m so tired of seeing women defending men. Not angry, not frustrated (okay maybe a little) but tired.

Cuz I used to be the “not all men” type, then I realised, how many men do the same for us? Sexism is ingrained in meme culture: girls like titantic, boys like cool thing; women ☕️ amiright?; I-hate-my-wife culture; FEMINIST KAREN DESTROYED 🔥🔥BY SIGMA LOGIC; Uhh actually 🤓 being kicked in the balls hurts more than child birth.

THE EXISTENCE OF ANDREW TATE.

But as soon as women go “yeah I’d pick the bear 🐻” they lose their minds. How dare they prefer to be torn apart by a bear than encounter a man! Should we use this as a way to reflect on our behaviour as a sex and WHY they think this way? Nah, let’s describe the brutal ways in which we’d like them to be killed by said bear and joke about how we’d sit and watch.

People misunderstand: men like *sex* but they do not like women hence why they’re advocating for sexbots and ai companions. Unlike women, men would not defend you in an argument out of the purity of his heart.