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forgive yourself. forgive yourself for not being where you dreamed you would be. forgive yourself for all the wrong things you said. forgive yourself for the times you messed up even when you’ve tried your best. forgive yourself for the way you hurt, belittle, or abandon yourself in the past or in the present. forgive yourself for not being perfect. you don’t have to be perfect to be worthy (of love, understanding, compassion, kindness).

I can imagine what I want, and therefore it is possible for me.

—Abraham Hicks

I love Bashar❤️

A little tip that has been working WONDERS for me!! 🦭

✨I say “what if (insert my desire) right now?” & as soon as I say that I get that feeling in my stomach! The feeling Neville talks about!! The feeling it real!! I say it a few times & then I affirm my “I am” affirmations. Honestly it’s amazing for getting into the state and feeling good!! So many things have shifted since doing this!! ✨

E.g. “what if I made over £500 a day right now?” “What if I made over £500 a day right now?” “I am so rich” “I am so wealthy” “I am so successful” Do it as many times as you want too💞

Gurllllll it fucking works🦭

Thinking about how the temporary nature of some things, relationships, experiences, etc. can actually make them more beautiful. What felt soul-crushing before is now a fond memory that I carry with me everywhere i go.

Shoshin

Shoshin (Beginner's Mind/Spirit) is the Zen concept of maintaining a beginner's mind, a state of childlike curiosity and open mindfulness that allows us to let go of biases and assumptions in order to further progress in our understanding of a subject or skill. When we think we already know something we tend to reject or challenge new information, blocking us from going deeper. It is important to allow yourself to listen and to view something from a new perspective, then you will be able to gain deeper insights into your own way of doing things. It is like having a cup that is already full, you cannot fill it again until you have absorbed the previous cup. The mind must be emptied before it can be filled once again. By using this process of open mindfulness and childlike eagerness to learn, you can acquire and improve your skills and abilities much faster if you realize there is always more to learn.

the 3d absolutely has to obey the 4d.

ever heard of the "the universe can't exist without us being consciously aware of it" ?

basically if we aren't here to acknowledge something, technically it never happened/doesn't exist. "if a tree falls down in a forest, and nobody was there to hear it, it didn't make a sound" is true because...a "sound" is defined as something we can hear. without the presence of ears being there to acknowledge the sound did it really make a sound? or just release a pattern of vibrations?

note: this is just a philosophical theory , still quite interesting.

without awareness there is no "reality". awareness is reality. consciousness is reality.

what you are consciously acknowledging will absolutely be the thing to exist. the 3d simply cannot exist without the 4d. it is not a separate entity, the 3d is quite literally a mirror standing infront of your 4d. and the rest of the world is behind it. what your 4d is, the 3d reflect for the rest of the world to see, as neville has said

Block Gaslighting:

Don’t tell me what happened, I was there.

Now on top of saying that, you claim you didn’t, that’s two lies in a row.

I heard you the first time. If you can’t stand behind your words maybe keep them in.

Do you honestly think I don’t have a working memory? I know exactly what happened

It’s a little late to revision the past now, don’t you think?

You don’t get to change the past, sorry.

Maybe if you wish thats how it happened, you should have done it that way? And not pretend later

You seem to think you can convince me that my memory is wrong. This will not happen.

Facts will stay the same no matter how many times you say that.

Don’t smile expecting me to take this as a joke.

Sure, except that’s not what happened.

Yeah, and then we all climbed on top of the easter bunny, sure.

Stop insulting my memory.

Regretful for you, I know what happened, maybe you should try convincing the dog.

Even you know it didn’t happen that way. Don’t lie.

And now how about you tell the truth? I’m tired

Tell the truth or leave me alone. You’re sickening.

I will not have you change what happened just because it makes you look better. You did what you did. It’s time to live with it, as I have lived with it. You don’t get a revision.

(Only use those in non-dangerous situation, I know a lot of abusers will turn more dangerous and violent if their gaslighting is rejected. You can still say these in your head to keep yourself sane. You can always, in 100% cases trust your memory over what they say happened. And know if they’re trying to get you enraged with their lies they’re only doing it because it’s easy to manipulate a person once they’re overwhelmed with emotions, keep aware that their words hold no ground at all.)

i saw two success stories where they 'detached' or 'gave up' on their manifestation, (essentially they both stopped thinking about it, but the one who 'gave up' literally gave up because they thought that they weren't doing it right), and then it manifested, but how do i do that if i'm really excited about what i'm manifesting? like i always think about it or it comes to mind on its own

Detachment refers to the understanding that you have what you desire. It's less "if I stop thinking about it, then it will come" (very conditional, don't do that to yourself) and more "I know I have it, what's there to worry about?"

So you can be excited and think about your desire as much as you want. Nothing wrong with that. Just make sure to remember you already have it and that you don't have to worry about it.

Example: Being in love with someone. Your hypothetical SP in this scenario can be running through your mind nonstop because you love them, but you wouldn't worry about whether or not they liked you and wanted to date you, because you know they already do.

EIYPO

“Change your conception of yourself and you will automatically change the world in which you live. Do not try to change people; they are only messengers telling you who you are. Revalue yourself and they will confirm the change.”

– Neville Goddard, ‘Your Faith Is Your Fortune’