A Word Of Positivity For My Fellow Men (and Nonbinary Ftnbs) Who Want Bottom Surgery

a word of positivity for my fellow men (and nonbinary ftnbs) who want bottom surgery

you don't have to live with bottom dysphoria all your life. go get that surgery. post-op dick is so cool. don't feel like you aren't allowed to get it, it's your body.

some media recommendations

I haven't read it myself, but I saw this recommended here: Hung Jury by Trystan T. Cotten. It’s a collection of testimonials from FtMs who have had bottom surgery, including their reasons, details about some of their procedures, and individual satisfaction ratings, and it includes testimonials from several trans men of color!

on Tumblr I know the user virgo-cocks posts about their bottom surgery.

on YouTube I know Jammidoger posts about his bottom surgery (and other trans stuff)

subreddits: r/EverythingPhallo and r/ftm_phallo

if anyone has any other recommendations please add on

(not verified by me), suggestions:

@ Answersfromtheshadows, dedicated to answering questions about their phallo

FinnThelnfinncible (Finlaygames) has a series of videos about his experience with phallo over the years

edit 2: another suggestion

finlay games wrote a book about his experience getting phallo titled "top to bottom"

edit 3:

r/Metoidioplasty is another great subreddit about bottom surgery!

edit 4:

tumblr user nyo-hoho is also post-op and accepting questions

edit 5:

r/phallo is apparently back up!

edit 6:

I just remembered phallo dot net and metoidioplasty dot net exist

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1 year ago
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me
The Inherent Homoeroticism Of War Media: A Completely Unserious Presentation By Me

the inherent homoeroticism of war media: a completely unserious presentation by me

[note: some slides have been removed because they're literally just fancams and also i had more than 30 slides boo tumblr image limits]

BIBLIOGRAPHY (just going in order of slides)

and your knees are driving me wild - mash s02e08

george mackay has found his niche in homoerotic war movies

war stories are inherently homoerotic. that's how we got stucky

hangman you look good - top gun: maverick (gif by babyrooster)

letter of recommendation: watching masters of the air secondhand

it's not just sports - masters of the air e02

1 being not gay at all, 10 being liberace in an f-16

we'll go to chicago - band of brothers e01 (gif by @fkmylif3)

it is the law that every piece of war media

kim is a homoseggsual - kath & kim s01e02

Untitled (You Construct Intricate Rituals) - Barbara Kruger

The Secret History of Australia's Gay Diggers - Ben Winsor (+ Paul Fussell quoted within)

Sexuality, Sexual Relations and Homosexuality - Jason Crouthamel

Soldiers bathing in Malaya - AWM

Private Frank Crocker letters featured in Sebastian Faulks and Hope Wolf, A Broken World: Letters, Diaries and Memories of the Great War (2014), pp. 75-78.

mike's mic screencap my beloved <3

winnix gifs by @bandofbrothers2001 @preacherboyd @galebucky

winnix art by @andromeddog

winnix art by @onefineginger

In storms and at sunset by jouissant

winnix memes/text posts: 1 (@bleedingcoffee42) 2 (@krakerjaksstuff) 3 (@claudycod) 4 (@lewis-winters) 5 (@mon-mothmas-collar)

man is a hopeless creature i don't like much of anyone (@sluttyhenley)

You Create Intricate Rituals: The Homoerotic Action Movie - Rebecca Radillo (Lyvie Scott featured)

val kilmer icemav warrior compliation by @mavernick2

t as in top gun: maverick (@misaothewitch)

which is gayer (@holypowell)

we're fools to make war by whimsicule

all my roads lead back to you by liadan14

m*a*s*h video by @amrv-5 (+ reblog tags)

clegan/buck(y) gifs by @4o4notf0und @rcbertleckie

clegan fanart by @ifapromise <3

clegan memes: 1 (@rcbertleckie) 2 (@season-two) 3 (@ww2yaoi) 4 & 5

bomber's moon by moonrocks

**i tried to tag/link everything, if anything is broken or unsourced please let me know and i will endeavour to fix it! standard disclaimer that a) any discussion about war media based on real life people is based upon the fictional portrayals of those people and not the actual dudes. and b) this powerpoint was made for fun, it is not rigorous academic analysis. all opinions expressed are my own. please do not take it too seriously! that's all <3

1 year ago
They’re On Leave :)

they’re on leave :)

1 year ago
There’s Just Something About Blond Dudes Nicknamed Iceman
There’s Just Something About Blond Dudes Nicknamed Iceman

there’s just something about blond dudes nicknamed Iceman

1 year ago

Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost

The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.

The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.

The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.

The “get stuff done while you wait” method.

The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.

The “break the task into smaller steps” method.

The “treat yourself like a pet” method.

The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.

The “put on a persona” method.

The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.

The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.

The “wait for a trigger” method.

The “do it for your future self” method.

The “might as well” method.

The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.

The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.

The “make it easy” method.

The “junebugging” method.

The “just show up” method.

The “accept when you need help” method.

The “make it into a game” method.

The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.

The “trick yourself” method.

The “break it into even smaller steps” method.

The “let go of should” method.

The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.

The “fork theory” method.

The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.

1 year ago
Two Men And Their Model Planes
Two Men And Their Model Planes
Two Men And Their Model Planes
Two Men And Their Model Planes

Two men and their model planes

Two gifs, and two stills. Just loved that parallel between them. More gifsets and stills on my blog/mostly focusing on TG and M:I. Any gif or still suggestions? Ask Box is open Bonus: Hangman switched planes inbetween shots.

Two Men And Their Model Planes
Two Men And Their Model Planes
1 year ago

sketching while watching top gun >>>

Sketching While Watching Top Gun >>>
Sketching While Watching Top Gun >>>
1 year ago

50 WORDS TO USE INSTEAD OF “SAID”

Do you ever find yourself over-using the word “said” in your writing? Try using these words/phrases instead:

stated

commented

declared

spoke

responded

voiced

noted

uttered

iterated

explained

remarked

acknowledged

mentioned

announced

shouted

expressed

articulated

exclaimed

proclaimed

whispered

babbled

observed

deadpanned

joked

hinted

informed

coaxed

offered

cried

affirmed

vocalized

laughed

ordered

suggested

admitted

verbalized

indicated

confirmed

apologized

muttered

proposed

chatted

lied

rambled

talked

pointed out

blurted out

chimed in

brought up

wondered aloud

(NOTE: Keep in mind that all of these words have slightly different meanings and are associated with different emotions/scenarios.)

1 year ago
Haven't Drawn Much Since Even Before I Had Top Surgery On Monday, But Wanted To Post A Lil Celebration

haven't drawn much since even before i had top surgery on monday, but wanted to post a lil celebration doodle <3

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