Latest Posts by nicetohaveafriend - Page 2

i do genuinely think  I Am A Transwoman. I Am In The Closet. I Am Not Coming Out. should be like. required reading for anyone trying to make claims about gender politics.

the security guard last night was wearing a friendship bracelet that says “123 let’s go bitch” I CANT JFJDJD

i’ve noticed a lot of people lashing out in response to the posts celebrating and being positive towards men lately and it’s… not great.

in the past few days alone, i’ve seen lot of “wow men are so weak they can’t take ANY criticism or stand posts not praising them” and “in the real world men don’t see women as humans so i don’t care.”

look. i get it. i’m a queer woman who was abused by men. i used to say “all men,” too. but then i got older and met more people and stepped back from my trauma to realize that viewing all men as a single, malevolent group with inherent traits and equal power over women is a broken mentality.

it’s dangerous to say all men have inherent traits and values. that rhetoric reinforces the gender binary, gender norms, and gender essentialism. it prevents all people from being themselves and pursuing life choices while perpetuating the idea that all men are preprogrammed for things like violence. it also allows misogynistic men to absolve themselves with “well, boys will be boys.” posts saying “men can be soft” and the like are fighting this.

oppression is complex. it is not simply “men bad, women good.” race, class, disability, sexuality, etc. all complicate power dynamics. ex: a white woman can exert power over a black man.

certain groups of men—black men, mentally ill men, etc.—are particularly demonized. they are framed as violent and dangerous, which enables their systematic oppression. they deserve to be assured that this is not the case.

a lot of positivity posts are specifically for trans men and trans masc people. they tell them “your gender is not evil. you are not doing a bad thing by transitioning. you do not have to be like X to be a man.”

a lot of these posts are also to let people attracted to men know that their attraction is not a dirty mistake. for years, i felt i had to apologize for being a bisexual woman attracted to men, like it was a flaw.

some of these posts are for younger users here. boys who need to be told they have the power to defy patriarchal values and determine what their gender means and who they are, that they’re not doomed to be misogynistic abusers.

she is risen 🙏

In my Eras era. 💅

“Be gay do crime!!” “Eat the rich!!”

And you can’t even boycott the most famous TERF in the UK

GOD I just want to be CREATIVE but all my energy is being used to survive

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Taylor Swift attends 65th GRAMMY Awards in Los Angeles, February 05, 2023

I can still make the whole place shimmer ⋆｡°✩

TAYLOR SWIFT @ The 65th GRAMMY Awards on February 05, 2023 in Los Angeles, California.  

A snippet from the original version of Taylor Swift’s “Run (feat. Ed Sheeran)” recently surfaced online!

Girl

I'm damned if I do give a damn what people say

but literally half. moon. eyes. bad. sur. prisedidyou. re. a. lize. out. of. timeshewas. on your mind withsome dick. head. guythatyou saw that night , BUTYOUWEREONSOMETHINGitwas one drink. after. a nother. FUCKin. POLitICS and gender roles and 𝓎𝑜𝓊'𝓇𝑒 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝓈𝓊𝓇𝑒 and ʍouʞ ʇ,uop ı GOT s w e p t a w a y in the g҉r҉a҉y҉ i just may like to have a conversation

huxley: Matty Healy and Taylor Swift before the The 1975 London show - Night One 📸 @jordhughesphoto (x)

Taylor Swift performing at The 1975’s concert

[clown shoes squeaking]

now that tour rehearsals have started, we might get more pics like these soon:

2023

DROP EVERYTHING NOW

MEET ME IN THE POURING RAIN

KISS ME ON THE SIDEWALK

TAKE AWAY THE PAIN

my hobbies? Uhhhhh symbolism mostly. metaphors and implications and the like.

I cannot believe cowboy like me exists. I cannot believe she wrote a whole song about telling people what they want to hear for money. I cannot believe she refers to her pursuit of fame and fortune as the work of a bandit. A hustle. I can’t believe she refers to the love she gave to men she had dated in the past as swindling them. I can’t believe she wrote a whole song about a partnership that nobody will ever be able to prove was real or not and if they ever do she’ll be long gone with the money and all we will have left is the story in the songs. I cannot believe she referred to that partnership as a con. I cannot believe

TAYLOR SWIFT ― Attends the MTV Europe Music Awards 2022 held at PSD Bank Dome on November 13, 2022 in Duesseldorf, Germany.

I cannot believe cowboy like me exists. I cannot believe she wrote a whole song about telling people what they want to hear for money. I cannot believe she refers to her pursuit of fame and fortune as the work of a bandit. A hustle. I can’t believe she refers to the love she gave to men she had dated in the past as swindling them. I can’t believe she wrote a whole song about a partnership that nobody will ever be able to prove was real or not and if they ever do she’ll be long gone with the money and all we will have left is the story in the songs. I cannot believe she referred to that partnership as a con. I cannot believe