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4 years ago

we don’t need a hundred posts from the fandom listing reasons why you shouldn’t doxx and out someone and why it’s fucked up to do. what we need is a heavily homophobic and specifically lesbophobic fandom to realize everything they have done to contribute to what’s happening right now. any post you’ve ever made or reblogged or liked about how it’s gross for sapphics to speculate about taylor’s sexuality or to read her music as gay, any post you made joking about how you don’t hate the gays you just hate kaylors (who are mainly sapphics), any post about how it’s an invasion of privacy or disgusting or uncomfortable or projecting to speculate if taylor is part of the lgbtq+ community, any post that targets and alienates and isolates lgbtq+ fans is what allowed this to happen. doxxing and outing is not the first time this has happened in this fandom and it sadly will not be the last. if you’ve ever supported the posts that contributed to this culture that makes sapphics, minors and adults alike, a target of hate and violence, if you’ve ever thought it would be fun to make an anti kaylor blog and spend your free time screenshotting and publicly making fun of queer fans, if you’ve ever followed an anti kaylor/gaylor blog and read their posts for fun, if you’ve ever logged in to hate-read posts from kaylors and privately make fun of them in groupchats with your homophobic friends, if you’ve ever posted things like ‘why can’t kaylors just all die,’ if you’ve ever made tasteless jokes and laughed at our expense on your blog, you contributed to minors being outed, poc being outed, sapphics in countries where it’s not safe to be gay being outed. 

you’ve contributed, whether you think you have or not. we’re telling you that you have and you continue to and i hope the guilt of this eats you alive. i hope the idea of your homophobic posts leading to real people being outed haunts you. and don’t think you’re innocent if you’re just some blog who has never *really* said anything *too* bad. if you’ve ever made a complete mockery of kaylors/gaylors just because you’re uncomfortable with the idea of taylor being with women, you contributed to this culture that makes other people think it’s okay to go to the extreme lengths of outing someone. you are fucking responsible. and who are the ones who have to pay the price for your reckless and dangerous homophobia you’ve been perpetuating in this fandom? it’s the lgbtq+ fans erasing their social media (the only safe space they had to talk about being lgbtq+) and running for the hills and fearing for their safety and their lives all while you all are posting photos of the folklore photoshoot and talking about how pretty taylor is. 

your homophobia has lead to real people being outed to their families and friends. you, yes, you. and the best you can do is say “it’s bad to out people!! friendly reminder!!!” as if everything you’ve been posting for the past six years since taylor joined tumblr has not contributed to letting people think it’s okay to out someone. i’ve been watching people be outed and threatened for five years, it’s happened to me, it’s terrifying and there’s nothing we can do to stop it. don’t write panic posts about how it’s awful to doxx and out people. instead step back and evaluate who the fuck you are as a person, what you can do to remove all of your homophobic microaggressions from this fandom, and why you think real people being outed is proper retribution for them thinking taylor swift might be gay.

2 years ago
Taylor At Toronto International Film Festival 2022✨
Taylor At Toronto International Film Festival 2022✨
Taylor At Toronto International Film Festival 2022✨

Taylor at Toronto International Film Festival 2022✨

3 years ago
Is This The End Of All The Endings? My Broken Bones Are Mending
Is This The End Of All The Endings? My Broken Bones Are Mending
Is This The End Of All The Endings? My Broken Bones Are Mending

is this the end of all the endings? my broken bones are mending

5 years ago
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!
Embrace The New Sun !!

embrace the new sun !!

5 years ago
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied
Dancing With Our Hands Tied

dancing with our hands tied

2 years ago

but literally half. moon. eyes. bad. sur. prisedidyou. re. a. lize. out. of. timeshewas. on your mind withsome dick. head. guythatyou saw that night , BUTYOUWEREONSOMETHINGitwas one drink. after. a nother. FUCKin. POLitICS and gender roles and 𝓎𝑜𝓊'𝓇𝑒 𝓃𝑜𝓉 𝓈𝓊𝓇𝑒 and ʍouʞ ʇ,uop ı GOT s w e p t a w a y in the g҉r҉a҉y҉ i just may like to have a conversation

3 years ago

Around here we support slackers, cheaters, underachievers, and, especially, burnouts

2 years ago
VOGUE’S Behind Taylor Swift’s Bejeweled Eyes And Bold Red Lips For The MTV VMAs✨
VOGUE’S Behind Taylor Swift’s Bejeweled Eyes And Bold Red Lips For The MTV VMAs✨
VOGUE’S Behind Taylor Swift’s Bejeweled Eyes And Bold Red Lips For The MTV VMAs✨
VOGUE’S Behind Taylor Swift’s Bejeweled Eyes And Bold Red Lips For The MTV VMAs✨

VOGUE’S Behind Taylor Swift’s Bejeweled Eyes and Bold Red Lips for the MTV VMAs✨

1 year ago
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