okay unrelated but what was the funniest red flag in ur worst relationship
My life is a rougelike and I only have 100 psychic health so I respawn every two minutes with zero progress
every time i think, i take 10 damage
I mean, on one hand, yes, but on the other, I used to reliably find a player-written and heavily upvoted "trap ahead" message in front of Gwyndolin's corridor, which was.. unenjoyable to say the least
Genuinely love that the entire Elden Ring fandom learned the final boss was canonically transgender and their reaction was just "his second phase needs less health"
the feminine urge to buy an overpriced Drink every time it’s sunny outside
like we really hate to hear this - but power is in every human relationship. unless you are the exact same as your partner in age, class, race, ethnicity, religion, language, nationality, citizenship status, gender, sexual orientation, physical and mental ability, salary, education, etc, you have to negotiate the problems material power differentials pose to love, to treating others well. the response to this seems to have been to make certain points of difference - like age - load-bearing, in a way that erases others - class would be my example: far bigger a power disparity than, say, a ten year gap in age between adults is class and inheritable wealth, but you almost never see that acknowledged in the same way. and even if you were at parity in all those areas (gay twincest sweep??) there is still the emotional power that someone’s love and desire for you gives you over them. you can’t get rid of it. you cannot find the perfect relationship where it doesn’t exist by steadily winnowing down your “ethical” options via widening designations of “problematic relationships.” you have to confront the power you have over other people and think how you will wield it most lightly. sorry!
Most of the trans people I know (very much including moi) are obsessed with shit like video & tabletop games or alt music or obscure media. Call that the Left Hand of Dorkness
its so brave that you have such a 2012-coded url in this 2024 world
would you call a bear brave for standing in a new construction suburb or would you recognize the unfamiliar world they built around him
Transing your gender... Please don't turn off the console...
this post is KILLING me what in the patriarchy