Many Newbies Subs, Feel Anxious And Burdoned By Their Doms Needs, Requests, Tasks , Rules And Punishment

Many newbies subs, feel anxious and Burdoned by their doms needs, requests, tasks , rules and punishment . It doesn't reflect a proper minded domination nor creates a safe space for the sub.

Therefore it's the subs job to :

- Recognise their limits and outcomes from the relationship.

- Provide constant feedback and dialogue with their dom.

- know their rules and responsibilities.

- have a targeted outcome of the relationship.

- make sure to find common grounds where their interest intercept and join together to form a healthy relationship.

The doms job is :

- undertake the training and nurturing their subs with a greater amount of care and support.

- have a structured development plan for their sub.

- make sure to have a dialogue and Constant sense to the subs feeling , wishes, needs.

- have detailed information about themselves and educate their subs of the things that she's not aware of.

When a sub submits to you, chose to be yours amongst everyone else , that's not a privilege , that holds great responsibility and requires your continues attention, dedication , support , and presence to make her feel herself.

FINALLY : Don't risk her wellbeing and steady state of mind with your kinks that don't match HERS . Level up and create a healthy, sane , safe environment for her to Blossom and love you infinitely.

@sir-jon