Leomie Anderson in Alice McCall at the 2018 BET Awards
Drink water. keep your nails + toes done. go shopping, spoil yourself. chase your goals. go out to eat. take trips. dress up. try diff hair styles. have more talks with God. take more pictures. stay away from negative energy. surround yourself w/ ppl that have your best interest at heart. invest your money. save up to get a bigger bag. be selfish, but most importantly.. ENJOY YOURSELF💕
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Self Care Guide For Bad Mental Health Days 🎀🍦
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♡ let yourself cry! feeling sad when you have bpd can feel like the world is ending, but it isn’t. feeling sad is normal, and it’s completely okay. don’t demonise your emotions. let it out
♡ cuddle with your pets! cats are absolutely amazing for this, dogs too. lil furry babies make me so happy and cheer me up so much when im feeling low
♡ take as many naps as you need without guilt. rest rest rest, even on your good days! stop overworking yourself
♡ shower, you don’t have to do your full routine, just make sure you wash yourself then apply your favourite lotion and sweet scented perfume
♡ cosy up and watch something that makes you happy. nostalgic tv shows are great, on my bad days i really love watching spongebob bratz or strawberry shortcake 🍰
♡ invest in a 2L water bottle and keep it by your bed for those low motivation days
♡ light your favourite bakery scented candle, sweet scents always uplift my mood
♡ do not isolate yourself, try to keep in contact with friends or family
♡ eat some chocolate or chips, whatever your favourite comfort food is. your happiness is more important than your diet
♡ if you’re struggling to get out of bed, try keeping everything you need on your bedside table so you can still do your skincare routines and take your daily vitamins from your bed
♡ run a nice relaxing bubble bath!!!
♡ put on some cosy pjs & grab a pink fluffy blanket and snuggle on the sofa instead of staying in bed all day
♡ set rules for yourself, write some things you that want to achieve in a day. such as keeping your skin moisturised, shower twice a day, drink enough water, getting out of bed. anything that applies to you. self care can become confusing and daunting, so write everything down to remind yourself to look after and cherish yourself
♡ make sure you’re eating enough. even if you’re not feeling hungry, if you don’t have the energy to cook, order takeout! it’s ok to eat takeout sometimes, just not all of the time as junk food can be highly addictive, and obviously isn’t very good for you
♡ try writing down your thoughts and feelings. i love journaling and covering the pages with pink stickers and making it look all pretty, it’s so therapeutic
♡ reach out to a mental health professional if things get too bad. this may feel hard, but if you need help desperately pls get it
♡ acknowledge that what you’re feeling is just temporary, whatever you’re feeling won’t last forever
♡ make sure you’re getting enough sleep. whenever i didn’t get enough sleep in the past, i would sometimes start seeing and hearing things, and would become very paranoid and disassociated, which is obviously not what anyone wants. so pls pls pls make sure you’re prioritising your sleep
♡ treat yourself, buy something pink and pretty just because you can
♡ take a day or 2 off work (if allowed)
tiny disclaimer: these tips may seem obvious to those of you without serious mental health problems, and they may be things you do everyday but when someone with mental health problems is in a really bad place, they can sometimes forget how to look after themselves properly, or in my case a few years ago i would just stop caring about myself. i love all of my pretty sugar dollies so much, look after yourselves and i really hope some of these tips help you 🎀🧁
Guides:
How To Study Like Elle Woods!! How To Become An It Girl (part 1) How To Become An It Girl (part 2) IDGAF Mindset 101 Ditching Those Bad Habits Becoming A Better Conversationalist Steps To Success How To Genuinely Enjoy Being Alone How To Rebrand Yourself (part 2 coming soon) How To Stop People Pleasing How To Become Magnetic Like Song Jia How To Doll Up 101 Summer Lifestyle How To Achieve The Doll Mindset How To Get The 2014 Tumblr Girl Look Victoria Secret Makeover Jennie Kim It Girl Guide How To Have A Super Girly Sleepover My Honest Advice On Moving On
Leveling Up For The New Year Guide
Level Up For 2024 Hobbies To Try This New Year (2025)
Reminders
Incase Nobody Has Ever Told You… Let’s Talk Self Worth Lessons I’ve Learned On Finding Peace
It Girl Habits
It Girl Habits (part 1) Journaling Ideas Things To Do When You’re Bored
Faith
How Can You Grow In Your Faith? How To Show Your Love For God In School
Fitness
At Home Workouts (part 1) At Home Workouts (part 2)
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Any money making tips?
Have a side hustle - There are so many side hustles that you can get into to make quick + extra money.
Start a shop on Amazon or Etsy
Start a YouTube channel
Help tutor or do 1 on 1 classes
Sell your old clothing
Deliver food + groceries
Start a blog
Offer freelance services
Invest - One of the best ways to make money is to invest it!
Invest in stocks
Invest in quality products
Invest in yourself
Invest in experiences + education
BUDGET!!!! - My #1 tip when it comes to making money and saving it involves budgeting + making a budget plan!!
Understand budget categories: food, pets, fun, children, education, home, utilities, insurance + etc.
Research budgeting methods and use one that fits you and your lifestyle. There are lots to choose from like the 70/20/10 method or the cash envelope method.
Prevent over spending - Over spending is a big challenge for a lot of us when it comes to money. Understanding how to prevent it can help save lots of $ over time.
Wait before making big purchases
Use a spending tracker
Set a spending limit
Use cash
Create shopping lists
Avoid browsing online shops
Save your money - Know when and how to spend + save your money!
Meal prep
Buy in bulk
Save coupons
Try a saving challenge
Get cash back rewards
Know your spending triggers - Figure out what can cause you to spend a lot of your money. Some triggers could be:
Boredom
Social media
Stress
Sales
Peer pressure
Some ways you can overcome these triggers are by unsubscribing from marketing emails and by making a solid plan before going through with a big purchase.
Make good spending habits - Pick up on habits that will help you get ahead in your finances!
Spend less than you earn
Maintain an emergency fund
Invest in yourself
Fix your bad habits
These are just the basics when it comes to personal finance. Hope it helps! Xoxo. 💸💓
Hi! I'm LovelyLavDolly, u can call me lav 4 short, I'm 20 years old & neurodivergent, This is a girly, nerdy, cutesy, purple blog♡
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