Agejo gyaru inspo! ๐
you deserve softness.
you deserve kindness.
you deserve stillness.
you deserve patience.
you deserve love.
you deserve respect.
you deserve care.
you deserve laughter.
you deserve intimacy.
you deserve hugs.
you deserve kisses.
you deserve flowers.
you deserve it all.
To me, songs are kind of like bookmarks. Have you ever listened to a song that you havenโt heard in a while, and all of a sudden, all the memories of that time period come back, and you remember what your life used to be like. Theyโre like milestones in your life.
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polished princess doll tips
๐จ doing your skincare every morning and every night! you donโt have to wear makeup 24/7 if you donโt want to but your face should ALWAYS be clean, moisturized, and protected with spf!!
๐จ keeping your facial hair well groomed!! so if you like waxing, threading, tinting for your eyebrows!! also tweezing and shaving any peach fuzz around your lip!! (i used to slack so bad with my eyebrows but recently iโve been shaving them for the soft straight brow style!!
๐จ if you canโt get your nails and toes done all the time make sure theyโre filed, well shaped, cut, and moisturized!! foot and hand masks are so easy and not super expensive!
๐จ always smell good!! even if itโs just body spray and not perfume make sure you have SOMETHING on!! and not just one or two spritz- DROWN yourself in it! the air and room should smell like a pretty bakery or sweet floral garden when youโre around!
๐จ moisturize your entire body! after every shower and before you leave your house!! and i LOVE scented lotions, they make my perfume waft and last so much longer!!
๐งธ scent tip: rubbing the stick vaseline on your pressure points where you spray your perfume for longevity!!๐งธ
๐จ always have on some form of jewelry!! stud earring, hoop earrings, a necklace, a bracelet, anything you want!! but jewelry is always such a dainty and pretty accessory and just makes you look girly and put together
๐จ make sure your lips are soft and glossy!! chapped lips are NOT polished, pretty, or doll like!! i reapply my lip gloss any time, any place!!
๐จ no more sloppy clothes outside!! no stains, nothing ill fitting. You donโt always have to be dressed up, but if youโre dressed down it doesnโt have to be sloppy!! you can wear a t shirt, but make it cute- so cute colors like pink, cute designs on it like hello kitty, etc!!
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Becoming Her: You're Already There!
And how do I know this? Because for years, I was my own biggest bully. Healing that part of me is something I'm learning to do one day at a time.
Last night, I had a really good journaling sess for the first time in a while. It hit me: I already am everything I desire to be. I already am my higher self, even if this current "reality" โ the 3D โ isnโt showing it yet. And so are you!
You might say this way of thinking is "delulu" or "faking it till you make it," which is maaaybe a little true. But your mind literally shapes your perspective.
Example: I could walk up to you right now and compliment your hairstyle. To me, it's one of the coolest things I've seen today โ but if youโre not happy with it, you might ignore or brush off my compliment.
You made โmy hair sucksโ part of your reality, your "truth" โ even though no one has bashed your hair.
No one can shape your world/truth unless you let them.
You're in full control of how you react, the career you choose, the pants you wear. You're also in full control of any limitations or beliefs youโve picked up โ whether from yourself or from others.
If someone says you look better in red, that doesn't make it a fact. It doesn't mean every other color suddenly looks bad on you. Thatโs their perception of you โ their world. If you feel like you look better in blue, then you do. Because itโs your world, and you said so.
You say your dream self is kindhearted, soft, confident, healthy โ mentally and physically. Okay, now stop imagining a gap between that version and the you now. Thereโs no gap anymore.
From here on out, no matter what the 3D shows, you are who you just described. Each day and every action โ you become softer. You set your first boundary. You feel more at peace because you journaled or meditated this week. And you might think, "This is only the beginning. Iโm not there yet."
Thing is, you are.
Youโre doing what your higher self would do. Youโre shifting.
No matter what your current beliefs are, you have all the power to rewrite them. You made your old beliefs "true," so you can make new ones true too.
And yes, it's absolutely going to feel like lying to yourself at first. But if you've believed in one thing for years, of course it may take just as many to believe in another.
No one's perception of you is you. YOU know who you are.
You shape your reality.
And I wholeheartedly believe that you and I are already everything we need to be โ we're just now learning to see it.
xo, Kay ๐ชฝ
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