dont have/dont want a cg
wear/want to wear diapers in a sfw way
wear/want to wear a collar or tail/ears in a sfw way
dont have/want any little gear
dont use any community labels
are still figuring out your regression
you have a fully adult life outside of agere (e.g if you are sexually active, drink, work, etc)
dont fit the stereotype of the "agere aesthetic"
aren't white, skinny, neurotypical, etc.
are a boy, nonbinary, trans, etc
are lgbt+ in general
are disabled and/or mentally ill
get sad/struggle with your mental health while regressing
regress because of/to deal with trauma
your regression is yours, you know yourself, and as long as you're staying safe and not hurting anyone, no one can tell you otherwise.
Dni: lgbt+ exclusionists, r/adfems, ns/fw, e/d, s/h or discourse blogs, pr0ship, anti-agere/petre/sfw cglre or if you call people cringe because of their interests.
rb to give your mutuals a silly little paper valentine card and a red heart shaped lollipop đź’–
you aren't open about your regression
you aren't petite
you arent short
you don't have a cg
you don’t have specific items like stuffies, sippies, or blankies. you don’t talk or act in a stereotypically "little" way.
ur regression is valid no matter what <3
💫 it’s okay to have a very specific age that you regress to
💫 it’s okay to have a huuuge age range that you regress within (like me)
💫 it’s okay to not know what age you regress to
Stuff like that can be tricky to figure out so don’t put pressure on yourself to decide on a small age! You don’t need labels (unless you want them) and you’re regression is just as valid without them ^-^
i rlly need for minors in the agere community to pls be careful about loudly broadcasting that ur looking for a caregiver :(( there are a LOT of rlly bad adults who will see that and take it as an invitation!!!!
plsplspls practice internet safety and don't advertise yourself out like that. you are basically putting a large target on yourself, sadly.