that's why adoption is always the answer. Don't want life long physical pain for having a child? Adoption. Do you believe we fucked up the Earth too much and the resources are running low? Adoption. Don't want to deal with people not treating you like an actual human being for 9 months? ADOPTION.
the thing is like. i get that it's scary and makes people who do desire to get pregnant uncomfortable when we talk about the brutality and violence of pregnancy and the damage that pregnancy can do to your body
but you deserve to give informed consent to that process.
the lies around pregnancy - that it's inherently safe, that it doesn't do you permanent damage, that it's only extremely rare for people to die of pregnancy complications, etc like
all of these are lies constructed so that more people will get pregnant w/o knowing all that
there needs to be more talk about the impact of miscarriages and how common they are, how different abortion processes are and how accessible they are
but also like. talking about how pregnancy fucks your body up should not be taboo
this is a process that permanently changes most people's bodies, and that's even if the pregnancy doesn't do them like. severe illness or injury
and i just think everybody should have a right to KNOW that
bc to live in a society that intentionally obscures and hides facts about a completely optional and dangerous process does so for a reason, and that reason is based in a very sinister ideology that does not value bodily autonomy or informed consent
need something very lesbian to happen to me this December
I’m just saying that sapphic Destiel would have been so powerful. Not that they’re not powerful the way they are, but can you imagine???
I feel like I make it very obvious that I’m a lesbian sometimes. 🫣
I’m so tired of seeing women constantly defend male gynecologists and shit on female ones. This is another rebranded form of internal misogyny and male worship AGAIN. Every time a woman posts “I don’t feel comfortable with men as gynos”, women FLOCK to defend male doctors. Why?
Males should not be OB/GYNS, and honestly, even pediatricians. Yeah sorry, I don’t want the sex most responsible for rape and CSA to be my or my child’s doctor.
OB/GYN and midwifery is a WOMANS field. It always has been, always should be, hence why I’m entering the field. To push the males out. There are several other forms of practice they can do in the medical field.
that's it I'm watching dune now wait wait books first then movies lastly TV show got it
This is the only line I retained from watching Dune
not interested in getting involved in the rest of this discussion, for the most part, but to me this is a GREAT piece of advice that many people these days don't seem to be getting or understanding.
not everyone you meet or interact with is your friend, the requirements and expectations for respectful behaviour between friends is not the same as between strangers.
@stvksn on ig
live reaction of my man trying to keep it cool when asked why he isn't sipping mimosa by the beaches of Alpha Centauri
reread tsoa and can't stop thinking about the fact they knew of achilles and patroclus.Everyone knew it, they must have seen: achilles falling to his knees in the middle of the agora cause patroclus has too much blood on his tunic from a rough day at medic, patroclus becoming the first soldier ever to return from battles without even a stracth bcz his feral dog can't stop doing laps around him, the way achilles doesn't attend any council meetings without him and doesn't make a single decision without eye contact with his philtatos, patroclus small talking with the camp and Achilles "I can't function without patroclus" pelides sulking,the fact that when patroclus ask someone if they slept well the other party can't do the same because everyone heard them last night.
moments like this I just feel like I pulled the short stick at birth
Do you know why there are no male oral contraceptives? You guessed it right! Side-effects. But do you know what these side effects are? Headache, acne, weight gain, fatigue.
Now, do you know about the side effects of female oral contraceptives? All of the above plus severe abdominal pain, chest pain, swelling and aching of legs and thighs, and even eye problems. And these are just short term problems. The long term effects include cardiovascular problems, higher chances of breast and ovarian cancer, hypertension and blood clot.
Take a guess on which one was discontinued? Obviously the male one because how could they suffer? Why would they suffer when it's the woman who'll have to suffer for 9 months if she gets pregnant. Why would they suffer when they have the option to just.. leave without any repercussions? Now that's a topic for some other day but did you notice how the suffering of women have been disregarded for so long? How no one cares about what a women goes through as long the the pain doesn't befalls on them?
I think I'm having a purpose crisis again or whichever deity listening has to come for help cause 11 hours of sleep and still tired cannot be solved with human intervention
la tristesse durera toujours. being a fujoshi is payback for all of the sexualization our sisterhood faces daily
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