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I'm not sure if this will come out right but:

Being loved is NOT a reward for being beneficial or useful in any way. You don't become less deserving of being loved if you aren't productive for a day or if you have a bad day and can't get out of bed.

I promise. Being loved has nothing to do with how you "help" the world or those around you.

Warm bread. You agree. Reblog

reblog to bite the person you reblogged this from

i thought they were real for a second!

I am SO excited about this project!!! 

lmao this is so cool -the person who put sneegsnag

itselectra blorbo powerpoint stats!

hi everyone i'm a huge nerd that loves data analysis, so i decided to go through erin's blorbo powerpoint to see the trends! here they are:

most common media type: characters from video games were the most common, by a lot, followed by characters from minecraft rp and anime characters. to clarify a few things: "ttrpg" refers to characters from table top roleplaying games of all forms (see: jrwi, critical role, dnd ocs, etc), "youtube" refers to vtubers while actual real people youtubers (scott the woz, slimecicle, etc) are under "earth. like real life." "fic" encompasses all AUs. and "tumblr" only has one entry, sneegsnag.

most common medias: these are all the series' with 5 or more characters represented on the powerpoint. unsurprisingly, hermitcraft and dream smp are at the top, with 20 and 18 entries respectively.

age distribution: the majority of your blorbos are adults. "?" refers to characters with no canon age, and who cannot reasonably be assumed to be adults. it also applies to ageless characters, like gods or robots.

pronoun distribution: the overwhelming majority of your blorbos are he/hims! its not even fucking close!

human vs nonhuman: please be aware that this might not be 100% accurate, i do not know all of these characters, so i might have labeled a nonhuman as a human if they looked human. this is very rough

human: 55%

nonhuman: 30%

?: 15%

the most common nonhuman entries were robots, followed by cookies (cookie run), demons, and pokemon.

repeats: the rules said not to repeat characters but i think we all know how that went. here are the characters that had more than one slide

bdubs (hermitcraft/3rd life/last life): 3 slides

goodtimeswithscar (hermitcraft/3rd life/last life): 3 slides

jonathan sims (the magnus archives): 2 slides

ethoslab (hermitcraft/3rd life/last life): 2 slides

jade harley (homestuck): 2 slides

xerxes break (pandora hearts): 2 slides

br'aad vengolor (just roll with it): 2 slides

abed nadir (community): 2 slides

and thats all folks!

aaaaa this is so good i wish everyone would realize that we’re people to. its a mental illness we’re not freakin aliens. as someone with low empathy (possibly socipathic) and autism i applaud you.

Okay so I’m tired and bitchy and I’ve had a rough morning, and because of that I’m probably about to drop an unpopular opinion here, but I really dont care.

Narcissist is starting to become the new sociopath/psychopath/psycho, and I am really, really concerned with where this is heading.

It’s the exact same thing I’ve been seeing for years with my own diagnosis. You say you’re a sociopath, and immediately you’re now an asshole. I’ve had people actually ask me if I have ever hurt someone/wanted to hurt someone because I’m a sociopath, and I’ve had to explain over and over again that no, that’s not what that means, it just means empathy is not something that I can experience like everyone else. I can still be compassionate, I can still be a kind person, I can have no desire to hurt anyone ever, but I still get treated like a ticking time bomb. Even though my disorder actually helps me in a job that saves lives (I work in tissue donation, so not feeling empathy makes handling donor tissue from a 15 year old a lot easier), I still get asked by people at that same job about my “secret dark side” and if I ever did/do things like torture animals.

The same thing is happening to narcissists. You say you’re a narcissist, and now suddenly you’re an abuser. You want to paint someone as a bad person? Call them a narcissist, then everyone will understand how mean and evil they are. I am so sick and tired of seeing tiktoks, tweets, and Tumblr posts going on and on about how horrible narcissists are and how much people hate them. As if narcissists aren’t people! As if narcissists aren’t people experiencing a personality disorder! Y'all are all about “neurodivergent/mental illness solidarity uwu” until you bring in the “undesirable” mental illnesses and personality disorders, and then suddenly it’s “All x people are mean and evil and abusive blah blah blah they can’t get better/better themselves blah blah blah here’s how to argue with them except I’m not going to actually talk about that I’m actually going to just say how horrible they are and how they’re bad people blah blah blah” and it’s like shut up! Shut the fuck up! Those are people! Those are real people with real feelings and you’re just out here saying they’re inherently bad, and for what? For likes? For clout? Do you have any idea how hard it is to come to terms with a diagnosis like that when your view on it is so incredibly skewed, when you think you’re being assigned the Bad Person Disease™️ after you’ve tried so hard to be a kind person and uplift those around you? And now you’re left thinking it was all for nothing, because now you can never be a good person no matter how hard you try because you have Bad Person Disease? Do you have literally any idea how damaging that is, and how much that hurts? But hey, ableism isn’t ableism when it’s against the “bad” people, right?

Anyway, if you’re a sociopath, psychopath, narcissist, have bpd, are bipolar in the “wrong” way, are schizophrenic or psychotic, are the “wrong” type of autistic, or anything else, I see you and you’re doing amazing. Your diagnosis doesn’t dictate who you are and, even though some things are harder for us than they are for others, that doesn’t mean you’re a bad person.

ive been seeing so many bunnies in the yard and im so happy it reminds me of home

-liadove

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