Yes Please ❤️

good question . I actually dont know

Aw whys that?

To all my friends in the US and everyone around the world, keep hanging on. It’s not over yet, we won’t let it be over until we finally have the basic human rights we deserve and more.

Remember, by staying alive you’re already winning. Just being here is the biggest ‘Fuck you’ you can give. This has happened one too many times throughout history, but we still prevailed, and we’ll do it again as long as it takes. And that’s something they’ll never take away from us.

You have someone out there that loves you, keep going for them and especially for yourself. Keep going to see the change you want that will eventually come. It seems so far away, but it WILL happen. We just have to keep fighting.

Don’t let them take away your voice, don’t let them see you bow your head and cower, don’t give them the satisfaction of thinking they cut you down to nothing. They think they have us under their control now.

And that will be their biggest mistake.

Yes, I’m literally posting this at the eleventh hour of International Asexual Day. Move past it.

ANYWAY. Story time (also TW mentions of sex):

So, as a tween, and throughout my early teen years, guys in my class would talk about being attracted to girls in a “certain way”, and I never felt the same type of attractions they were feeling. Yes, I had been attracted to girls, but never attracted to them sexually. So, I’d hear the “dude, you must be gay” or “there must be something wrong with you” claims.

And some of the girls I had dated tried coercing me into having phone sex and some would feel me up in efforts to try and turn me on, and of course it would make me super uncomfortable and they would get mad at me for “ruining the mood”. I had stopped bringing up the fact that I disliked sex and tried to force myself to be okay with doing it someday. But the more and more I thought about the idea of having sex, and it being a necessity in a relationship, overwhelmed me and made me feel like something was wrong with me and that I’d never get into a relationship if I wasn’t sexually attracted to anybody.

Fast forward to 2021 and I discovered a lovely part of the LGBTQIA+ community called ✨the asexual community✨. There I discovered the definition of asexuality and it described me to a fuckin’ T. And it lifted a huge weight from shoulders. Just knowing that not only were my feelings valid, but there were others like me who weren’t sexually attracted to anybody, and I can live my life knowing sex doesn’t matter in a relationship and I can love people for their hearts and souls without ever feeling uncomfortable.

I’m proud to be me. I’m proud to be part of such a community. And I’m proud for how I love! 💜

Thank you, thank you for reading this! And happy International Asexuality Day!

creating a tickle blog feels like turning to a life of crime that you wouldn’t let anyone dare know about

I’ve never wanted cuddly tickles more than I do right now. Just hold me and call me cute and gently tickle me and when I try to squirm away hold me tighter and tickle me more

Force me to take the tickles that I sooo desperately want

Does anybody have any specific tickle games that they really like and would want to share? I'm coming up with a list for shits and giggles!

So far I've got

keep your arms up

Dont move/don't laugh

Try to play a game while being tickled

Try to watch a movie while being tickled

Anything with writing/drawing on a lee (ie: tic-tac-toe, hangman, wordle)

Legit looks like my tummy (‘:

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Especially talk to me if something’s bothering you. Even if you need to vent without the intention of receiving advice I’d still love to hear you out regardless. Only if you feel comfortable doing so.

Be clingy with me. Always talk to me. Annoy me. Send me selfies. Tell me about your day. Come to me when you overthink. I really love those things.

Spread the word.