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He looks good here

MawissaV: my sister got me this video of Harry styles saying hi to me oml @Harry_Styles

Love his voice

what a time to be alive

Hot hot hot 🥵

So so happy to see him performing with one of his idols

A music icon. A fashion icon. And a true friend. ❤️

LHH look and sound so good

1d performing ‘love you, goobye’

no fuck off

Is this really true? Discuss

no one is even talking about the girl who was on the bachelor who who went into vivid detail about her date with harry on a podcast today

To all the fic writers out there who are riding out this lull…please know that you’re seen. To the writers who are still posting their stories as tumbleweeds roll by, you’re incredible and awe-inspiring. To the writers who are still posting their stories with minimal feedback, encouragement, and reblogs, you’re absolute legends. To the writers who are still thinking about their stories and posting inspo, you keep this place alive and fun. To the writers who are discouraged, exhausted and burnt out, you’re valid and will get through it unscathed. To the writers who have given up completely, you’re still valued and your stories will forever make an impact.

Interesting

Look nonnies. What’s gonna happen is Harry’s person is gonna be more like Harry than even Harry is and it’s gonna turn him upside down okay. They are gonna terrify him. Scared of commitment and intimacy? His partner will be more so, forcing him to step forward. Needs space and independence? His partner will be so this way that it will actually make him be sort of clingy. Uncomfortable with vulnerability? H will be begging his partner to open up. Flight risk? He’ll be so scared they might run away that he’ll make sure not to give them a reason to. I’m not glorifying any of this but, sometimes trauma can mess with you. Even if you work on it in therapy, some stuff doesn’t come up until you’re in relation with others. A tarot anon mentioned Hs person went through toxic relationships. I think this will affect how they engage with him, he will see that, it will touch him and he’ll have to shift. Like he will see the damage and I think it will literally make his heart hurt and make him want to be this for this person. It’ll be growth for them both. Him to be the type of partner he’s always wanted to be for someone. And his person finally being treated well and getting to have and be the partner they always wanted to be. I think issues people see in H are not necessarily his but could be what certain people brought out of him ya know? My exes brought some sides out of me I hated. I think his commitment issues are really just his intimacy issues. I think he struggles to be vulnerable truly with most people, and guards a lot of his internal stuff. That stems from trust issues and being taught it’s not safe to share what’s going on or it doesn’t matter because it doesn’t change. I think it stems to not really having a good foundation for what love looks like as a kid. I know we love Anne and Des and so does he but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t have serious childhood trauma. I think therapy has helped a lot but still and H will never ever open up to anyone about that because he’d never want anyone to think negatively of his parents. He probably struggles to see it that way himself. I think both his parents prioritized relationships with partners over their children which is why I think H goes to older women looking for mommy’s attention and love. We don’t know much about his moms second marriage but I don’t have a feeling it was great, I mean he lived above a pub and was singing as a child to adults drinking. Idk man. Doesn’t sound super stable. That’s why he’s so caring with his mom. I think he saw her pain and now he feels good that he can fix it in a way, by money. I also think he gravitates towards partners he can save or nurture in that way. I think his person will also be somewhat that way but the difference is they will heal each other. He also was parentified very young and started working pretty young to help out with the household? Like. Mans a total workaholic because that’s the only way he knows how to feel valuable. Which really breaks my heart a lot. It’s not he’s bored it’s that he gets his worth through work. And it doesn’t help that’s he’s super well known. He probably has hella trust issues, rightfully so. Which makes it hard to communicate with someone. I don’t think he’s someone who can’t commit because he wants to fuck other people. I think he struggles to commit because it’s not the right person and not committing is a way to stay distant and not get hurt. If you never get too attached it won’t matter if they leave. When he meets the one he knows he’ll be with long term I don’t think he’ll be as afraid and those issues won’t be as prominent. That’s also why I think he’s that way with the press. Why open up about a relationship that will end? I think when he’s married he’ll open up a little because he’ll know they aren’t going to end. He might mention them in interviews etc, but not before marriage. I think he wants to do it once and get it right and I think he will do his best to ensure he marries the person he can spend forever with. I think it’s all pretend till then.

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