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Tips on Fucking Doggy Style That Tops Often Don’t Tell Bottoms

Here are some tips on becoming a better bottom that the tops you have sex with may not tell you either out of a desire to not offend or because they get a thrill from telling others that we bottoms cannot handle their cock ;-)

SPREAD YOUR KNEES WIDE. The wider the bottom spreads his knees, the easier it will be while in doggy style. YES! If this is the first position he puts you in, use this trick to get used to his cock. 

ARCH YOUR BACK. This will not only look sexier to him, but also make deep penetration easier and less painful.

PUSH YOUR ASS OUT. This shows the top you crave his cock in your ass. Once he is in, you can push back to the rhythm of his thrusts.

PLACE YOUR CHEST SQUARELY ON THE BED. There is a reason a top pushes your head in the pillow or the sheets. This helps arch your back and push your ass out. It’s visually stimulating, because the focus is now completely on the ass you have presented to the top. The symbolic submission is also a big turn-on to a dominant top.

RELAX YOUR ANAL SPHINCTER. Having adopted the position described in steps 1-4, you should now focus your mind on relaxing your anal sphincter. It may help to remember how you take a dump, because the muscular relaxation is identical. Steps 1-5 should, with practice, enable very deep penetration with little or no pain.

ALLOW DEEP PENETRATION. Once you’ve mastered the previous steps, you may let him spread his own legs wider than yours so he can get more directly above you to pump his cock down and deep, with his balls bouncing off your ass.

REACH FOR HIS BALLS. Many tops find this very arousing, because you are fondling the sacks that produce their sperm, affirming their manhood.

COMMUNICATE. Tell him how much you enjoy having his cock in you. Let him know if you like his scent. Ask him to go slow if you feel pain.

Additional tips may be appropriate to partners who thrive on domination and submission. In all cases, these should be within reason. Both partners must be comfortable with this. Experiment to see what works best.

LET HIM SPANK YOU. A lot of dominant men get turned on by slapping the asses they are fucking, and seeing those asses turn a rosy color.

LET HIM GRAB YOUR HAIR. Another turn-on for many dominant tops.

LET HIM HOLD YOUR NIPPLES OR MAN BOOBS. As he pumps his cock up your ass.

LET HIM CALL YOU NAMES THAT TURN HIM ON IN THE HEAT OF THE FUCK. “Bitch,” “cocksucker,” “fag,” etc. But only when used in a non-derogatory way. This is about breaking taboos (which are charged with emotional intensity) and letting both of you get aroused by embracing your (contrasting) inner natures.

LET HIM CALL YOUR HOLE A “PUSSY” OR “CUNT.” That is, after all, its functional equivalent.

SHOW HIM RESPECT. Be polite. Call him Sir. Thank him after a good fuck.

yes sir, thank you sir

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Question: What do you suggest for younger aspiring submissives to do till they find a sir?

A very good question. What can a boy do now as they seek their sir. There are many things out there. Obviously every Dom is a little different, so I am going to give you some suggestions that naturally lean towards me and my style. 

-Get Comfortable with your body. Some boys are very shy about their bodies. Doms are going to want to touch you. They are going to feel your body quiver in their hands. They are going to want to push you.

So what can you do about it… I would recommend lounging in less clothes around the house. Going to pool/beach more often, where you would only wear swimtrunks. Try sleeping naked a couple nights per week. Basically get more comfortable with the exposure element. 

-Evaluate your underwear selection. No matter what you do in life. Your clothes say a lot about you. Whether or not you have a suit says something. Whether or not you wear flip flops says something. Whether or not you wear night shirt. Do you own underwear that a Dom would want to see you in? Something to excite him? I am not saying you need go out and buy all new underwear, but it should be something you build up over time with a piece or two here and there. 

I think this is an important point also because it says something about your desire to be seen in your underwear. Remember the line from 10 Things I Hate About You, “You don’t buy black lingerie unless you want someone to see it.”

-Self Experiment with Toys. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin, but it helps if you are not deadly afraid of new experiences. Even if you are still generally new, I recommend practicing with some toys. Two toys I think every boy should have: (1) a dildo and (2) a plug. I recommend the smaller training ones for new boys. 

-Research BDSM terms and gear. Attitude is everything in Dom/sub interactions. Subs want a Dom who is confident, Doms want a boy who will not freak out. It helps if you have explored the online world to learn about general techniques and toys. Basically, I don’t want you to have a traumatic incident if I put a collar on you. It also helps to develop an interest list: things you are willing and not willing to do.

-Taste your own cum. Its going to be alright, your own cum won’t bite. Like many Doms, I expect my boys to swallow. If you are so utterly grossed out by it, you need to taste your own. I often have done a training exercise where a boy must swallow every drop that comes out whenever he cums. It is a little rough at first, but he gets used to it. After all, spiting is rude. 

-Practice Your Manners. This last one is a big one. It is so simple, it is often overlooked. Obviously, there is a degree of training involved in Dom/sub interactions, but you can go a long way when you self-evaluate your manners. If you cannot seem to learn that you need to call me Sir as a basic sign of respect, then it is unlikely, you would be invited back. 

So what can you do? Listen to yourself for a day. How often are you saying please? Thank you? Do you hold the door for others? Or do you just act like those self entitled brats that say nothing when the door is held for you? 

I will let you in on a secret. There is ton of bullcrap on here about “breaking” a cocky boy. False. That is so much fucking work that has no guarantees and the boy is unlikely to be that sub anyways. It usually amounts to nothing more than rough fuck. True Doms want a boy who understands a lot about himself and his submissive feelings. Having good manners goes a long way. 

I think these should be very helpful for arising sub boys. The final comment I will leave you with is this… allow yourself to accept your submissive tendencies. It is perfect okay to be sub. It is even better when you allow yourself to experience those feelings.