Pisces Season is here ✨
Preface: Sexual matters have more than just sex in it. Humans are not like animals that mate simply because it is mating season and they are in heat. Humans have greater consciousness and ego attitude. Humans have mental life that can form thoughts, judgments, ideas. Humans have emotional life that can feel happiness, bittnerness, shame. Humans have spiritual life where they see fantasies, archetypal images, do magical thinking (like astro, tarot, divination are magical/irrational thinking). Therefore, we should look at a combination of things when it comes to people.
I have had mixed experience with fire placements. Two people I know both had sun and mercury in 1st house. One native was a self-proclaimed ubermensch, selfish, promiscuous uncomitting, had double standards (i can do whatever i want). The other one is assertive, forceful, faithful to their partner and had double standards (I can do whatever I want). They don't even consider the wants of other people. They are like "Okay, I am done doing what I wanted, party over everyone. Now bye".
Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by Mars, both can be aggressive and bad tempered but the Aries anger is like candle flame (1) quickly lit and quickly blown out but the Scorpio anger is like charcoal (2) takes time to lit - stays hot for longer periods of time - hard to cool down. You can find a Scorpio still angry over something that happened years ago or even happened in their imagination.
Aries v/s Scorpio anger
If you want a faithful partner, their sun or moon should be in a water sign. This is especially for male partners because faithfulness is a personal value. I remember reading how people were shocked that Jay Z could cheat on Beyonce because she is so beautiful, rich, talented!! I think that most people don't understand what it means to be in a relationship. It is about personal value which comes from feelings. Personal value is not taught in school or it is not something you can memorize. Feelings and emotions are two different things. Feeling is how you relate to others. For example, if you feel empathetic for someone going through a tough time, you are using your feeling function. It is the difference between men who say "men are hunters, we are primitives, we want to spread our seeds for better survival of our offspring, we need many women, we are built like that, we think with our dicks" and then there are men who say "My wife is enough for me because I have a deep attachment to her, I cannot betray my feelings for her, I cannot separate my feelings from sex and I only want sex with someone whom I feel love and attachment for".
I would recommend doing tarot pull for each zodiac sign to understand the archetypes better. Zodiac sign = personality; tarot card = subpersonalities within each zodiac sign. It makes reading personalities so much rich experience because each sign has many sub-dimensions and tarot can tell what dimension you are experiencing at a given time.
Fire placements can stay faithful but it is out of convention not feelings for their partner. For example, in their society it is frowned upon to cheat so they resist cheating to keep social image. Sometimes I think that fire placements do a lot of behaviour for social image/performance even if there are no feelings involved. For example, sending 100 roses to their partner as a gift, not because they actually value their partner that much but because it is textbook definition of love and socially admired, it will make them look like a great lover in public.
Look at the relationship with mom, moon sign and house to figure out how a man perceives women, if he is capable of being in relationship and if he is willing to work on marriage or just wants a wedding for formality, household work, children etc.
I like to divide people in different lives, it helps understanding people better. A person has physical life, emotional life, spiritual life, material life, mental life, sexual life, for instance, a man can be sitting on date with you but emotionally he is connected to some other woman. He is physically there but emotionally not. A man can have a great job and bank balance but he is addicted to alcohol. This man is materially fulfilled but spiritually unfulfilled. A man regularly has good sex and that too with many women (or regularly has good sex with wife) and yet gives them all cold shoulder and does not respect/prioritize them. This man has an active sexual life but he is emotionally hollow. Two lives can or cannot align together.
In addition to above, people have a social and private life too. Socially what appears to be such a loving and friendly couple can be totally cold and detached in private life. How shocking! A lot of people do live a perfect enviable life socially, they can recite quotes and wisdom like no ones else but if you get closer to their private life you see how they are opposite of their social image. And if we are not careful, we ourselves can be in delusion and think that we have great life when actually we do not. For example, girls stay in abusive relationship for years because emotionally they think that there is great love and passion even if physically the partner is abusive to them. Then they move on and say 'I always had a gut feeling that something was wrong' it was their spiritual life warning them of what they were not mentally aware. So, it is sometimes recommended to do some serious self reflection if our physical, emotional, mental lives are aligned or we are only living in fantasies.
There are no rule books for life. This is why earlier when I was not much into astro, I used to watch motivational videos/how to content/generic advice for everyone and felt like it would not work for me. But with astro, it helps me be specific to figure out what things will work for me and what will not, based on my personality traits, strengths and weaknesses.
In order to figure out a person's sexuality, we look at their venus and mars planets. We also look at their mother and father complex because the relation with the parent is (taboo trigger) quite incestual on emotional level. When we are born, we are emotionally enmeshed with our parents especially mom. When we grow up, it is now time to break up the enmeshment, this is why in psychology we say that to individuate means to take responsibility for your life and have minimal emotional connection with parents. This sounds like cruelty but it is not.
What I am yet to understand is that if father is sun and mother is moon then why do we only look at mars and venus for sexuality? Sun and moon are just as important factors to determine sexuality. I am not sure if this will offend someone but it is often studied how people who are asexual/LGBTQ or even transgender have some kind of negative mother/father complex (even if it doesn't appear in physical life, it can be emotionally, mentally, spiritually).
Thanks for reading and to be continued.
Aries on Houses- Where you may be selfish?
Aries on 1st : Generally a self centered person and can be selfish more often.
Aries on 2nd: Selfish with money and possessions. Selfish values.
Aries on 3rd: Selfish with siblings, team mates, communications. Selfish will.
Aries on 4th: Selfish with family and mother.
Aries on 5th: Selfish in dating, courting, games and sports. Selfish with children.
Aries on 6th: Selfish at work, selfish with competition.
Aries on 7th: Selfish as a partner, in relationships and in business.
Aries on 8th: Selfish in sex, bonding, takes more than gives, with joint assets, inheritances, taxes, may avoid tax.
Aries on 9th: Selfish with long travels (solo traveler?) , selfish with philosophy, religion, philosophical fights with others, selfish with higher education (steals projects?)
Aries on 10th: Selfish with career, job, getting ahead, selfish with one's actions.
Aries on 11th : Selfish with friends, elder siblings, networking, connections. Selfish with gains, competitive business, marketplace gains.
Aries on 12th: Selfish with charity, selfish in bed, selfish while spending, selfishness may be difficult to see.
Astrology observations part 2:
Sun - Venus: People pleasers. They are loved or hated unconditionally. Their confidence relies on their beauty if underdeveloped. If developed they can catch everyone's attention in ease.
Mars square ascendant: They look like they will punch you. Sweetest people out there. Most misunderstood. They just look aggressive. Lol.. it's not their fault.. 🤣
Libra rising: Are aware of their beauty. They know the value of beauty. Can be superficial if underdeveloped. Symmetrical features. Has a round / prominent..... 🍑 Since Libra rules 🍑...
Gemini rising: Short. With big sparkly eyes. Child-like smile. Very talkative. Curious child. Automatically makes them Mercurial.
Mars in cancer: They cry when they are angry. Loyal af. Big time mama's boys / girls. Might either love their mother or hate them (no in between).
Mars in Virgo: Nag, nag, nag. If underdeveloped they just nag when they're angry. A developed one is just good in arguments. Smart with thier words.
Part of fortune: Doubles the worth of the house / planet it is in. Pay close attention to it. For example, Part of fortune in the 11th house attracts good friends (Business partners) effortlessly. Part of fortune in Venus - natural charisma.
Mars - Pluto: Conjunctions, Squares & Oppositions have the tendency to maintain secret affairs. Private people.
Mercury - Mars: Forceful communicators. Verbal bullies if underdeveloped.
Gemini moon: Smart af. Curious & Witty. Suffers from Anxiety.
Mars in Capricorn/ Mars in 10th house: Not afraid of playing dirty to get what they want. They can seem quite unfair. They have a nasty mind. Pervs.
Leo moons: Gifted with a huge circle of friends. Can effortlessly grab the spotlight.
Pluto in 6th house: Might have OCD. Germaphobe. Very cautious about health & their body since an early age. Workaholic.
Mars dominants are gifted with hot cheekbones and jawlines. Striking eyes. Animalistic look.
Venus dominant: Very Indulgent. Has an expensive taste. Can make them lazy. Comfort seeker. But they are really pleasant people.
Venus in Aries: Sorry. But not built for serious relationships. They jump in & out of relationships really fast.
Venus in cancer: So fucking adorable. They are so cuddly. Their love language - cuddles. Built for long-term relationships.
I’m very much a sapiosexual being. If that’s even real tbh. I need someone to make loveeee to my mind. I need to be intrigued, to learn something, to change and grow and to understand new levels of things…that gets me more than a nice face and bank account anytime
The houses in signs in your chart : some advices
The house in Aries = where you need to be more active and more bold, take risks; where you need to be unapologetically yourself
The house in Taurus = where you need to learn patience, to take your time and eventually slow down; where you need to treat yourself
The house in Gemini = where you need to talk about what's on your mind, without feeling restrained; where you need to try as many things as wanted
The house in Cancer = where you need to be babied and acknowledge that need (it's not shameful, not clingy or else);
The house in Leo = where you need to receive the princess treatment; where you need to believe in yourself first and foremost so you'll receive the best;
The house in Virgo = where you need to be able to have some control and your own organization being respected; where you could want to save others from themselves
The house in Libra = where you need to practice loving people for what they can give you (in their natural state); where you need to defend peace if you can
The house in Scorpio = where you need to keep the important infos hidden from others; where you need to move in silence (it's for your own good);
The house in Sagittarius = where you need to explore the more you can; where you need to choose a topic to master instead of constantly jumping from one topic to another (that is for the Gemini house haha)
The house in Capricorn = where you need to accept to take the lead and embrace the authority you can have over people in those specific areas;
The house in Aquarius = where you need to recognize your uniqueness and not be ashamed by it; where you need to embrace your weird side
The house in Pisces = where you need to surrender and take things how it is - you won't have control over it most of the times and that's ok; where you need to allow yourself to fantasize
Healing your chiron placement
Hear me out : my theory here is that the chiron wounds can be healed through the expression of love so basically the venus energy linked to the house placement of the chiron or the sign placement.
It’s also best to look to the opposite house to really understand the dynamics that the chiron is bringing into the chart.
Warning +18
For instance :
Chiron in 1H/ Aries -> Aries Venus healing
Self love ❤️ F* what everyone thinks, embrace your whole being flaws and all. No one can ever love you and validate you more than yourself.
Opposite house 7H
Practice self love through partnerships, long term relationships.
Chiron in 2H/Taurus -> Taurus Venus healing
Sensual love through all your senses ❤️ (masturbate and give yourself sensual massages, thank me later).
Opposite house 8H
Practice intense sex (sex magic 😈) and deep emotional connection with a partner.
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Venus in the Signs & their Turn-On's
Aries: This placement is associated with a desire for excitement, spontaneity, and adventure. Turn-ons might include spontaneity, assertiveness, and physical prowess. Taurus: This placement is associated with a desire for comfort, stability, and sensuality. Turn-ons might include physical touch, good food and drink, and a relaxed atmosphere. Gemini: This placement is associated with a desire for intellectual stimulation, variety, and playfulness. Turn-ons might include witty banter, playful teasing, and mental connection. Cancer: This placement is associated with a desire for emotional connection, nurturing, and intimacy. Turn-ons might include acts of kindness, emotional vulnerability, and a cozy home environment. Leo: This placement is associated with a desire for attention, adoration, and passion. Turn-ons might include compliments, grand gestures, and displays of affection. Virgo: This placement is associated with a desire for order, cleanliness, and service. Turn-ons might include attention to detail, acts of service, and a well-organized environment. Libra: This placement is associated with a desire for balance, harmony, and beauty. Turn-ons might include aesthetics, partnership, and social connection. Scorpio: This placement is associated with a desire for intensity, depth, and transformation. Turn-ons might include vulnerability, power dynamics, and taboo topics. Sagittarius: This placement is associated with a desire for freedom, exploration, and adventure. Turn-ons might include spontaneity, travel, and philosophical discussions. Capricorn: This placement is associated with a desire for stability, ambition, and maturity. Turn-ons might include a strong work ethic, financial stability, and a sense of responsibility. Aquarius: This placement is associated with a desire for independence, innovation, and intellectual stimulation. Turn-ons might include unconventional thinking, social activism, and experimentation. Pisces: This placement is associated with a desire for transcendence, empathy, and romance. Turn-ons might include creativity, emotional connection, and spiritual depth.
Vesta in the first house Dedicated to: Self-discovery and self-awareness, issues of identity, ‘finding yourself’, personal goals Thus sacrificing: Other people in general, long-term relationships of an intimate nature
Vesta in the second house Dedicated to: Manifesting material abundance, finding security for yourself and your loved ones Thus sacrificing: Simple pleasures and comforts
Vesta in the third house Dedicated to: Communicating, seeking new experiences and knowledge and disseminating what you have garnered Thus sacrificing: Clarity in your thoughts, peace of mind (since you put yourself under so much pressure)
Vesta in the fourth house Dedicated to: Home and family, a sense of duty, obligation and/or responsibility within your home situation Thus sacrificing: Personal freedom, personal choices
Vesta in the fifth house Dedicated to: Creative expression, public attention, recognition, pouring your life force into your work, sublimating your sexual energy. Thus sacrificing: Either romance or creativity, like being forced to choose between them
Vesta in the sixth house Dedicated to: Healing yourself or others, constantly learning techniques and skills in order to reach a goal/complete a task Thus sacrificing: Your health, your sleeping/eating schedules, normal life patterns
Vesta in the seventh house Dedicated to: Relationships with others, well-fare of others, ensuring there’s justice and fairness around you Thus sacrificing: Your independence, your own will, your inner voice (you compromise too much)
Vesta in the eighth house Dedicated to: Experiencing emotional and sexual intimacy, delving into the realm of hidden or occult knowledge, finding a mystical union Thus sacrificing: Healthy relationships- you often don’t understand how others can’t match your intensity
Vesta in the ninth house Dedicated to: The quest for truth and wisdom, the dissemination of your ideal vision Thus sacrificing: Reality- examine and broaden your belief system to avoid fanaticism, the belief that you possess some ultimate or final answer
Vesta in the tenth house Dedicated to: Achieving your goals and attaining success, recognition Thus sacrificing: All your time- you have difficulty defining your goals or finding a fulfilling vocation which pushes you even harder
Vesta in the eleventh house Dedicated to: Humanitarian or futuristic ideal of respect for freedom and individuality, and honoring of all life Thus sacrificing: Personal friendships (for the sake of the cause)
Vesta in the twelfth house Dedicated to: Service with compassion and surrender Thus sacrificing: Yourself- the more open you are, the more likely it is that you have fears stemming from karmic memories, fears of intimacy that manifest as a need for isolation and retreat
I am going to give you some advice, based on my own Jupiter. Something different. If you have an open mind, if your willing to try my suggestion, you may benefit in your life in ways you never imagined.
Jupiter in your chart, the house placement, I think is where you achieve the ultimate energetic exchange in life. By this I mean, consider that Jupiter is the ultimate benevolent planet. It's kindness and generosity. So my theory is, the house placement of Jupiter, when you are benevolent with the matters or people of Jupiter's house in your chart, you get in return equally what you give.
Your life grows when you help others grow.
So if you are like me and have Jupiter in the 2nd, when I give people my resources, I tend to naturally get resources in return. Whether its from them, or somehow the universe finds a way to give back through source.
So, here is a basic idea drawn up of how this works:
When Jupiter is placed and deposited in the following houses in your birth chart:
Jupiter is in 1st house
When you are generous in your behavior, and giving as your personality, you can find the universe makes way to give you generosity through others in return. Very simple, because Jupiter here is you.
Jupiter in 2nd house
When you are generous with your resources and give to others, the universe will find a way to give you resources in return. Another example? the 2nd house is speech. When your generous and teach people through speech, you may very well find people are open in return to teaching you and giving you beneficial knowledge. Remember, the 2nd is also your birth family. When your selfless toward your family, watch as the universe makes them more supportive of your 1st house, you.
Jupiter in 3rd house
When you shown benevolence toward your younger siblings, people in your community, and neighbors; you can find where the universe will help them be there for you when you need it. This house is also the house of communication, so like the 2nd, when you teach through social media or any kind of information platforms, your earning kudo point with the universe. The 3rd house is also the mother, so if your generous toward your mother, watch as more likely she will be nurturing toward you in return.
Jupiter in 4th house
The 4th house is associated with the family home you build as you get older. When your generous to the members of your own family, you may find they support you and boost you in ways that aid you emotionally. The 4th house can also be foreign people outside of your birth family, but in your own culture. When your benevolent and kind to people in your homeland, the universe gives good to you. So for example, if your join the military or become a cop to protect and serve these people in your country, you will reap big universal benefits.
Jupiter in 5th house
the 5th house is associated with self expression at it's main foundation. When you are supportive and generous toward artistic types, perhaps by paying them for their works, you may find that the universe is very kind to you in return. The 5th is also children, so when your kind to them they can help you in ways down the line, perhaps when you retire for example. The 5th is also how you nurture your own creations. When your benevolent and kind to your own artistic kinds, perhaps the universe will help them be better well received.
Jupiter in 6th house
The 6th is your co-workers and sub-ordinates. When you show them benevolence and support them, they may very well be more energetically inclined to share the work load with you and make your life easier. The 6th house is also pets, so when your kind to pets, they can be loving towards you. Pets are represent certain planets in our lives too, like Sun is cats and Jupiter is dogs. If your kind to dogs, it can strength your Jupiter. When kind to cats, your Sun might gain inspiration and make you more creative in return.
Jupiter in 7th house
The 7th house is the spoue and the general public. When it comes to the general public, when you are self-sacrificing toward the public, you may find the public is there to support you in times of need. Either this, or they will be more inclined to receive your message and teachings. For the marriage partner, being chivalrous toward can actually strengthen the marriage. The partner gives you good in return because you make their life a more optimistic place.
Jupiter in 8th house
The 8th house is the house of sexual intimacy exchange itself. So oddly enough, with Jupiter here, when your more selflessly sexually, it pays off. For example, if you go into sexual exchange with the pure heart intent of giving an orgasm, the partner will return favor and be inclined to help you achieve a great one too. So the energy exchange sexually you both have is extremally satisfying, and it can help both of you relieve tension and have a happier life.
Jupiter in 9th house
So much goes on with the 9th house because its Jupiter's natural house. Let's talk mainly about the the belief system, the father, and gurus/teachers. First, when you make your belief system a philanthropic one, the universe is very good to you in return. When your generous and believe strongly in helping the welfare of others, the universe will support you in return. Second, the father. When your are caring toward the father, it's more likely he will care for you in return. Third, when your unselfish and put your ego aside when engaged with your teachers and gurus, they are inclined to teach you and continue in your development.
Jupiter in 10th house
This is a difficult house for Jupiter because it deals with authority. The nature inclination for people is to hate their boss, or grumble at authority. However, being ungrudging to authority can open the path to good energy exchange. When you respect your bosses, it can open the doorway where they respect your effort and contributions in return. Perhaps you'll find your more inclined to get promotions
Jupiter in 11th house
The 11th house, like the 9th, is another house were being philanthropic has a huge pay off. The 11th is the house of society, and societies money. When you are compassionate to the needs of the people in society, the universe will support you. Often this is through money or resources the people are willing to give you. It may not even come directly through them. Sometimes you win titles, awards, and commendations for being caring, and that gives you a better status in society. These titles can bolster your professional qualifications, which are pathways to the big cheese $$$
Jupiter in 12th house
Another house of society, the universe and energy work in one. Here is a great place to be attentive and public spirited. When you listen and give to the needs of the public, the universe supports you. It pays you in ways, often indirectly, for being altruistic. Since its the house of energy work, when you learn to work with sound vibrations there is big pay off here. For example, if you learn reiki or chant and teach mantras to people, your helping raise their vibrations. In ways, the universe will elevate you and help raise your vibrations and support your growth as well.